39 weeks & 2 days & nothing!!!

ashtondavis24 · May 2014

Went to the Dr today. I'm not effaced at all or dilated the slightest bit. I am so frustrated and miserable!! I didn't even know it was possible to be that much nothing this far along

Lild09 · May 2014

Umm yeah 40 weeks plus and nada...very possible

ashtondavis24 · May 2014

My god it's just not fair!!!

spacepotatoes · May 2014

It is frustrating, no doubt, but it does happen. Fair/not fair has nothing to do with it. Your body's going to do what it's going to do.

eliak · May 2014

Same here... 39 + 3 and nothing.. Head is not engaged yet and feels like i'm gonna be pregnant forever.. Only thing that calms me is that I know there's gonna be an end soon either bebe wants it or not!!

RedInLove · May 2014

ashtondavis24 said:

My god it's just not fair!!!

You're alive and pregnant. That sounds fair enough to me.

Tkhixen · May 2014

Your not even at your due date yet! When you think it's not fair, remember that we have had some very recent late losses on this board and also a mother herself passed away after the birth of her son. THAT's not fair! Get over yourself!

CamrynnsMommy · May 2014

Tkhixen said:
Your not even at your due date yet! When you think it's not fair, remember that we have had some very recent late losses on this board and also a mother herself passed away after the birth of her son. THAT's not fair! Get over yourself!

But but, how would she know that, she only comes here to AW/whine, not to give support.

bazingaa · May 2014

Playing my fiddle for you....

lavendergiraffes · May 2014

Glad I wasn't the only one annoyed by this...

jschwind22 · May 2014

ashtondavis24 said:

My god it's just not fair!!!

"fair" has nothing to do with it, honey. Be glad that you are healthy and pregnant. You are not even at your due date yet. Sheesh.

Alexinav · May 2014

Tkhixen said:
Your not even at your due date yet! When you think it's not fair, remember that we have had some very recent late losses on this board and also a mother herself passed away after the birth of her son. THAT's not fair! Get over yourself!

Thank you! Anytime I think about "how much I'm over being pregnant" I remind myself to be thankful I am still feeling movement am healthy enough not to be forced into induction or emergency c section AND that I am alive to carry this baby and be on this earth for my son. 39.2 weeks? I know moms who went over 4 week past their "due date" your a mom now it's not your time anymore it's baby's time be thankful baby wants to make it to full term to have a good start

Kris2011RN · May 2014

At this point when I am pain or over being pregnant I thinknof my friend who is doing IUI because she can't get pregnant, or my friend whonlost her baby at 15 weeks. I shut myself up real quick. Also think of it as your last few moments of being able to have LO move inside of you and how excited you were the first time you felt movement.

sthomas1222 · May 2014

IT. MEANS. NOTHING. I don't know how many times we say this on here. You can still go from 0 to having baby in 4 hours, 8 hours, a week, or 2 weeks. It literally means NOTHING. I'm sitting here at 4cm and 70%, -2 station (and that was on Tuesday). How do you think that feels? To know that my body is probably well past the halfway point and still no baby, no labor, no contractions? The other side isn't any greener. When we all got pregnant we signed up for 40w +/- Deal.