Panorama Testing

kmgriff0709

Hey..so im new to this whole thing...still trying to figure it out. im 16 weeks pregnant and at 12 weeks they did a Panorama test on me to tell me what im having. They told me I was having a girl. I am stoked but I'm worried it will be inaccurate. They say its over 99 prevent accurate and they prefer that over an u/s. Has anyone else had this and thoughts on it?

Nuclearcupcake

kmgriff0709 said:

Hey..so im new to this whole thing...still trying to figure it out. im 16 weeks pregnant and at 12 weeks they did a Panorama test on me to tell me what im having. They told me I was having a girl. I am stoked but I'm worried it will be inaccurate. They say its over 99 prevent accurate and they prefer that over an u/s. Has anyone else had this and thoughts on it?

QFP. Seriously?

kmgriff0709

Actually no that's not what I did. I had 4 miscarriages previously so they were doing blood testing on me because of that and they happened to send it off with the blood work they were doing. I had no idea they even told the gender on stuff like that  until my blood work came back and they happened to tell me.  And I do have abnormalities. You people are so rude. Jump to the gun why don't you

Laurendag said:

You did a blood work test originally intended to diagnose genetic abnormalities to find out what you are having? Seriously?

FFS people can be so vain and shallow. Here's an idea, be happy your baby is healthy and wait until your ultra sound like everyone else.

kmgriff0709

Excuse me let me rephrase this. I didn't have a panorama test done to find out my Gender. I have had multiple failed pregnancy's and they were testing me for abnormalities because of the health issues I've been through. When my blood work for that came back my Doctor asked if I wanted to know what I was having, I said of course(thinking were just conversing about if im one of those people who want to know or not) not knowing she had the results in her hand. I had no idea that with my blood work that could be told. This is my first pregnancy I have actually not miscarried so I wasn't that educated with the testing when I had it done, but with them doing that and telling me what I was having I just thought id try to research it and find out how accurate it was. I didn't go in to have that testing done for that reason. By the way I do have three genetic abnormalities. so before anyone else wants to come at me, like im some bad person for asking  a question, don't. I will find another board. Im too stressed to deal with crap like this. I came on this website hoping to talk to some other people, not be talked to like that.

KatWAG

I had the panorama test done. I was told at 12 weeks it was a boy, which was later confirmed by the u/s. Trust the test.

jac409

I had one done at 10 weeks. We did it because I am 38 and at higher risk for downs, etc. The results for us were all very low risk, thank God. The bonus was finding out the gender so early. I will have my anatomy scan in about a month, so we will see. They told me it us accurate within 1% and that they had never had one come back wrong after the ultrasound.

rlyttle

You are having a girl, but have them confirm it at your A/S. 

larbeadles

Man, am I sorry that you had to deal with such ignorance there!  People on these boards can be so mean...so many chips on shoulders that they should not be taking out on people they don't know.  I have been beaten up on these boards before because of asking a simple question I wanted comfort on.  I just keep reminding myself that anyone who wants to hurt someone via a Bump message board is a coward and needs help we can't offer.

I had the panorama done as well.  It said boy, and yes, we are having a boy.  That test is 99.9 on gender.  Trust it!

PrimRoseMama

Had OP mentioned her history & how happy she was that the baby is healthy she could have avoided a shit-storm. Realistically, we can only judge a poster by the content of their post. So, it really does sound like all you care about is sex of your fetus vs. the health. That's how it read to me too. Learn to communicate better & you may be able to convey your meaning better.

All that said, 1% is a slim margin. You are most likely having a girl according to your results.

Also, and I'm really not trying to snark you here, what if you have a boy? Really, what can you do? What will it change for you? Honestly, I see no point in getting worked up about it. By extension, it's pointless to get riled at the responses.

You are having a healthy baby. Cool. Boy, girl-- whatever. They are still yours!

larbeadles

Why should posters form an opinion about someone's tone?  Why not just answer the question and allow this to be a safe and comforting place in an otherwise oft-scary experience? 

You people who are defending the negative reactions...omg.  What is your problem?  It astounds me.  

She was just asking if the panorama was accurate.  YOU GUYS assigned meaning to her post.  Not her.

larbeadles

So what...why does it matter which component she was questioning?  She was just questioning it, and you turned her into a monster...with no evidence.

You sure are VERY defensive for someone with no chip on their shoulder

over and out.

merc5411

@larbeadles‌ If she's knows it's over 99% accurate, why is she questioning it? And what exactly are we supposed to say? Are we supposed to tell her "no, you're having a boy"?

LaurenWarwick

wow people are rude.  i just started posting last week due to some fears, and all i see are people being attacked.  i have seen people attacked for posting 'tmi' posts because they hadn't posted much else prior to that, and now this? 

people are allowed to handle their pregnancies however they choose.  i had the panorama done specifically to find out the gender early because i am impatient.  how does vanity even play into that @laurendag?! i was also worried about the possibility of abnormalities, even though i had no risk, so the test also served to ease my easily worried mind.  i am extremely appreciative of a healthy pregnancy, but why can't i take advantage of the options available to me just to be sure?  i don't think i will be posting to these boards anymore due to all the negativity.  it's a shame, really, since it can be a great source. 

LaurenWarwick

I am a first time mom, and my doctor offeredme an option to find out the gender, and my husband and I chose to do it. It's not like we took the spot of a woman who needed it more or prevented someone with risks from doing it. If it's only meant for women who arat at risk for abnormalities, then doctors shouldn't offer it to those who aren't. If it's offered with my next pregnancy,I will do I again without a second thought if it is offered. Finding out early was exciting, and confirming that I did not have any risks for anything added to peace of mind. Bitches will be britches, I guess. Everyone does things differently and for their own reasons, but I guess there will always be negative people who want to ruin everyone else's day too.

kmgriff0709

I did not have the test done for a gender purposes I did it to test for abnormalities because I have been through a hell of a lot with pregnancies. I didn't know that the gender could even be told that way until they told me. All I was asking was are they accurate because I was curious. I did it for the health of the baby but GOD FORBID  I ask a question. I found a board where women aren't like they are here. They are comforting and you can actually talk to them without getting treated so hatefully. Sorry for starting this post, but I've never seen so many BITCHES and I don't talk like that about people EVER. I wasn't even going to comment back on this post anymore, but the more hateful women that post the more my blood boils. Not all of us have multiple kids, like me this is my first pregnancy that I have NOT miscarried. So some of us haven't been as educated as you all think you are, and I came on this site looking to talk to women for support and help, not to be treated like this. God I hope your children don't turn out to be women like you. I've never seen such a hateful bunch. And go ahead with the negative comments from this because im sure there coming

PrimRoseMama

larbeadles said:

Why should posters form an opinion about someone's tone?  Why not just answer the question and allow this to be a safe and comforting place in an otherwise oft-scary experience? 

You people who are defending the negative reactions...omg.  What is your problem?  It astounds me.  

She was just asking if the panorama was accurate.  YOU GUYS assigned meaning to her post.  Not her.

Everyone forms opinions based on tone. You are forming an opinion of the responses yourself. It's human nature. I fail to see the issue. Is the blood test accurate? It says so on the pamphlet. It's 99% accurate. OP did not need that information. It was already provided. Derp...

I am defending how the post came across to me. I'm allowed to do that just like you are allowed to try and act like a nursemaid to finger-wag at me.

She was more concerned about accuracy for sex. Fact. Otherwise, why ask about it? It wasn't, "I have a history of genetic disease in my family. I'm worried. How accurate is this test?"

This place is commercially based & not really meant to be a group hug type environment. OP wasn't worried about genetic results. She added that later when she was called out about her priorities appearing to be whacked.

How else are we supposed to interpret her question? She places value on the sex of her kid when that isn't really the purpose of the test. It's a by product due to some genetic issues being sex linked.

Remove head from sphincter, then post.

PrimRoseMama

larbeadles said:

So what...why does it matter which component she was questioning?  She was just questioning it, and you turned her into a monster...with no evidence.

You sure are VERY defensive for someone with no chip on their shoulder

over and out.

@larbeadles‌ : I fail to see anyone calling the OP a bad person or a "monster". Quote? Simply stated, she wants to know if she could be part of the 1% where the blood results are inaccurate? Sure it's possible.

Also, just to point out, I would be more worried that my bloodwork was not accurately screened for the genetic issue. I would be waaaay more concerned for being part of the 1% that was given an "all clear" & it was somehow wrong. Not if my kid's junk was the opposite. Of all the things to worry about being "wrong" the sex is the last one if I'm truly worried about the accuracy of blood work.

Doesn't that make more sense? My priorities are based on the health of my kid, that's why.

kmgriff0709

 

Everyone forms opinions based on tone. You are forming an opinion of the responses yourself. It's human nature. I fail to see the issue. Is the blood test accurate? It says so on the pamphlet. It's 99% accurate. OP did not need that information. It was already provided. Derp... I am defending how the post came across to me. I'm allowed to do that just like you are allowed to try and act like a nursemaid to finger-wag at me. She was more concerned about accuracy for sex. Fact. Otherwise, why ask about it? It wasn't, "I have a history of genetic disease in my family. I'm worried. How accurate is this test?" This place is commercially based & not really meant to be a group hug type environment. OP wasn't worried about genetic results. She added that later when she was called out about her priorities appearing to be whacked. How else are we supposed to interpret her question? She places value on the sex of her kid when that isn't really the purpose of the test. It's a by product due to some genetic issues being sex linked. Remove head from sphincter, then post.

Actually I was NOT more concerned about the sex of my baby, I already know what I need to know about my blood test results and what I have to deal with now because of them. Which I would have discussed but never did and don't feel the need to share with a bunch of hateful women. Sure they say 99% Accurate, but I've never known anyone to have these tests done so I was CURIOUS. Lord help me because im curious. It does not make me some bad person in any way because I asked a question. Once again the testing was done for the health of my baby, and im far from "whacked". And I wasn't "called out" on anything. I chose to re word my post. Stop being such a negative bitch.

PrimRoseMama

LaurenWarwick said:

Bitches will be britches, I guess. Everyone does things differently and for their own reasons, but I guess there will always be negative people who want to ruin everyone else's day too.

Please explain, @LaurenWarwick‌ , how your post is meant to improve anyone's day? How is this ^^^ & calling people "bitches...& negative people" positive?

Oh.

kmgriff0709

Laurendag said:

kmgriff0709 said:

I did not have the test done for a gender purposes I did it to test for abnormalities because I have been through a hell of a lot with pregnancies. I didn't know that the gender could even be told that way until they told me. All I was asking was are they accurate because I was curious. I did it for the health of the baby but GOD FORBID  I ask a question. I found a board where women aren't like they are here. They are comforting and you can actually talk to them without getting treated so hatefully. Sorry for starting this post, but I've never seen so many BITCHES and I don't talk like that about people EVER. I wasn't even going to comment back on this post anymore, but the more hateful women that post the more my blood boils. Not all of us have multiple kids, like me this is my first pregnancy that I have NOT miscarried. So some of us haven't been as educated as you all think you are, and I came on this site looking to talk to women for support and help, not to be treated like this. God I hope your children don't turn out to be women like you. I've never seen such a hateful bunch. And go ahead with the negative comments from this because im sure there coming

Wasn't talking to you Einstein. In fact no one has been talking to you for a while on this post.

Once again why be such a bitch?? Your right no one has been talking to me because I have decided not to respond to all the negative comments

kmgriff0709

PrimRoseMama said:

So what...why does it matter which component she was questioning?  She was just questioning it, and you turned her into a monster...with no evidence.

You sure are VERY defensive for someone with no chip on their shoulder

over and out.

@larbeadles‌ : I fail to see anyone calling the OP a bad person or a "monster". Quote? Simply stated, she wants to know if she could be part of the 1% where the blood results are inaccurate? Sure it's possible. Also, just to point out, I would be more worried that my bloodwork was not accurately screened for the genetic issue. I would be waaaay more concerned for being part of the 1% that was given an "all clear" & it was somehow wrong. Not if my kid's junk was the opposite. Of all the things to worry about being "wrong" the sex is the last one if I'm truly worried about the accuracy of blood work. Doesn't that make more sense? My priorities are based on the health of my kid, that's why.

Once again I wasn't "worried" about if the test was accurate for gender purposes. I just asked how accurate they were. My god do you people not read???  I was concered about the health issues I just chose not to discuss them . But since you people want to keep on being SO HATEFUL, My baby is not all healthy! I do have things wrong, so keep being mean and saying your negative things. This is the worst group of women ive seen on here.

kmgriff0709

Laurendag said:

kmgriff0709 said:

 

Everyone forms opinions based on tone. You are forming an opinion of the responses yourself. It's human nature. I fail to see the issue. Is the blood test accurate? It says so on the pamphlet. It's 99% accurate. OP did not need that information. It was already provided. Derp... I am defending how the post came across to me. I'm allowed to do that just like you are allowed to try and act like a nursemaid to finger-wag at me. She was more concerned about accuracy for sex. Fact. Otherwise, why ask about it? It wasn't, "I have a history of genetic disease in my family. I'm worried. How accurate is this test?" This place is commercially based & not really meant to be a group hug type environment. OP wasn't worried about genetic results. She added that later when she was called out about her priorities appearing to be whacked. How else are we supposed to interpret her question? She places value on the sex of her kid when that isn't really the purpose of the test. It's a by product due to some genetic issues being sex linked. Remove head from sphincter, then post.

Actually I was NOT more concerned about the sex of my baby, I already know what I need to know about my blood test results and what I have to deal with now because of them. Which I would have discussed but never did and don't feel the need to share with a bunch of hateful women. Sure they say 99% Accurate, but I've never known anyone to have these tests done so I was CURIOUS. Lord help me because im curious. It does not make me some bad person in any way because I asked a question. Once again the testing was done for the health of my baby, and im far from "whacked". And I wasn't "called out" on anything. I chose to re word my post. Stop being such a negative bitch.

You're the one who keeps calling people bitches, JS

And yeah, you were "called out". In fact, I'm the one who called you out.

And what was I called out on Honey?? Because once again I have not done a DAMN THING wrong except ask a question/ Yea im calling you a bitch, because that's whats your being. a hateful btitch

kmgriff0709

 @laurendag  Your right Ill get support, from women in the other boards who aren't like you. I started this discussion so I don't have to GTFO of anywhere. But im going to because stress from someone like you isn't worth more stress on my baby.

kmgriff0709

I never asked for anyone to "blow rainbows up my ass"  but actually the women on the other board as said aren't like you. They don't talk to people the way you do. And you have no idea what stress im under, or what medically is wrong with my baby so don't act like you know. Nice talking to you.

PrimRoseMama

kmgriff0709 said:

I did not have the test done for a gender purposes I did it to test for abnormalities because I have been through a hell of a lot with pregnancies. I didn't know that the gender could even be told that way until they told me. All I was asking was are they accurate because I was curious. I did it for the health of the baby but GOD FORBID  I ask a question. I found a board where women aren't like they are here. They are comforting and you can actually talk to them without getting treated so hatefully.

As I previously stated, if you had included your history then responses would have been a lot different. I've been around the boards (lurking since 2010). I promise. Which board did you find, @kmgriff0709‌ ? I'm curious!

kmgriff0709 said:

Sorry for starting this post, but I've never seen so many BITCHES and I don't talk like that about people EVER. I wasn't even going to comment back on this post anymore, but the more hateful women that post the more my blood boils. Not all of us have multiple kids, like me this is my first pregnancy that I have NOT miscarried. So some of us haven't been as educated as you all think you are, and I came on this site looking to talk to women for support and help, not to be treated like this. God I hope your children don't turn out to be women like you. I've never seen such a hateful bunch. And go ahead with the negative comments from this because im sure there coming

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Oh come off it. Just stop.

Miscarriages do NOT entitle you to treat people poorly & call them bitches. You failed to communicate properly in your original post. That is on you. Rather than exhibit maturity you choose to go on rants like the one above.

I hope my kids are allergic to bullshit like me. I hope they have a ton of intelligence & a quick wit like me. I also hope they know when to speak up & tell someone when they are behaving like a jerk. You are behaving like a jerk.

You got your question answered. You just didn't like the way it was done. That sucks for you, but Life 101, you can't always get what you want the way you want it. This is not Burger King. You don't get it your way.

Why is your blood boiling? What did you expect?

PrimRoseMama

kmgriff0709 said:

Actually I was NOT more concerned about the sex of my baby, I already know what I need to know about my blood test results and what I have to deal with now because of them. Which I would have discussed but never did and don't feel the need to share with a bunch of hateful women. Sure they say 99% Accurate, but I've never known anyone to have these tests done so I was CURIOUS. Lord help me because im curious. It does not make me some bad person in any way because I asked a question.

...And I wasn't "called out" on anything. I chose to re word my post. Stop being such a negative bitch.

I hear you say this, but honestly, that's not how your post read. I'm kind of confused why you want to share about your sex results, but not a more pressing/serious issue of genetic abnormalities. I don't feel that I've been hateful at all. I'm merely making observations based on your posts. Again, your communication fail is your fault. Don't blame others for reading what you wrote & interpreting your priorities.

I disagree. You re-worded your post after someone questioned you. That's called being called out.

Calling me a bitch really doesn't help you.

PrimRoseMama

@kmgriff0709‌ said: "Once again I wasn't "worried" about if the test was accurate for gender purposes. I just asked how accurate they were. My god do you people not read???  I was concered about the health issues I just chose not to discuss them . But since you people want to keep on being SO HATEFUL, My baby is not all healthy! I do have things wrong, so keep being mean and saying your negative things. This is the worst group of women ive seen on here."

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Hmmm...

Please clarify for me. Your baby has health issues & yet here you are asking about sex accuracy? Doesn't that sound fucked up to you? That's what I am trying to point out to you. From what you post it sounds like you would rather blather on with righteous indignation that people are pointing out how odd it is that you are placing such importance on whether your blood work is right about sex.

I think it's rich that you are questioning my reading ability when you have access to the medical information about your blood work. You can, hopefully, clearly see 99% is pretty damn accurate. Why in the world would you trust internet strangers vs. what your doctor & the manufacturers of the blood test TELL you?

I'm sorry your pregnancy & baby are having health issues. That is very frightening. However, the only person saying anything close to hateful in this thread has been you. Do you not see this?

PrimRoseMama

kmgriff0709 said:

I never asked for anyone to "blow rainbows up my ass"  but actually the women on the other board as said aren't like you. They don't talk to people the way you do. And you have no idea what stress im under, or what medically is wrong with my baby so don't act like you know. Nice talking to you.

I'm still wondering which board.

:-?

PrimRoseMama

Lol the two responses you got...
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12341176/late-introduction

PS- public boards are public

kmgriff0709

Don't you have anything better to do?? I talk to people privately and a lot of them are on that board, which is not your concern. I know what is public and what is not. Is these seriously all you have to do with your time??

golfingdarwinfish

kmgriff0709 said:

PrimRoseMama said:

So what...why does it matter which component she was questioning?  She was just questioning it, and you turned her into a monster...with no evidence.

You sure are VERY defensive for someone with no chip on their shoulder

over and out.

@larbeadles‌ : I fail to see anyone calling the OP a bad person or a "monster". Quote? Simply stated, she wants to know if she could be part of the 1% where the blood results are inaccurate? Sure it's possible. Also, just to point out, I would be more worried that my bloodwork was not accurately screened for the genetic issue. I would be waaaay more concerned for being part of the 1% that was given an "all clear" & it was somehow wrong. Not if my kid's junk was the opposite. Of all the things to worry about being "wrong" the sex is the last one if I'm truly worried about the accuracy of blood work. Doesn't that make more sense? My priorities are based on the health of my kid, that's why.

Once again I wasn't "worried" about if the test was accurate for gender purposes. I just asked how accurate they were. My god do you people not read???  I was concered about the health issues I just chose not to discuss them . But since you people want to keep on being SO HATEFUL, My baby is not all healthy! I do have things wrong, so keep being mean and saying your negative things. This is the worst group of women ive seen on here.

Genetic testing confirms what is suggested by phenotype.  Phenotype does not necessarily confirm genotype. Cell free DNA testing will always (though we could probably caveat that) be more accurate than ultrasound, with a karyotype being superior to cell free DNA testing.  Basic biology.  If they don't match you do not defer to the ultrasound, you defer to a karyotype.  If you know your baby is "not all healthy" I would assume an amnio or CVS was performed, which includes a karyotype; that is the ultimate confirmation of sex chromosomes.

(ETA:  Sorry for intruding, I'm a molecular geneticist and my eyes were burning reading the OP.)

PrimRoseMama

kmgriff0709 said:

Don't you have anything better to do?? I talk to people privately and a lot of them are on that board, which is not your concern. I know what is public and what is not. Is these seriously all you have to do with your time??

lol. I'm stuck in nap jail, what can you do? ) I don't really like being bad-mouthed on another board because you are butthurt that you got told here. I'd say it's my concern when you are running your mouth that I'm supposedly hateful & shit.

C'est la vie... You are still posting. So odds are you don't have anything better to do either. I'll justify my time if you justify yours. ;;)

It sounds like October 2014 doesn't understand the depth of cray they have on their BMB.

It's considered bad forum etiquette to go crying to another board because you don't like the responses you got in this thread. I think you should know that. It generally looks whiny & immature.

My kids are laying on me while we all cuddle during a thunderstorm. What do you propose I do?

PrimRoseMama

@VCGolfNYC‌ : I love you :x How are you?

portentosa

Something in this thread makes no sense. All the responses seem nice, rational, and intelligent....except those of the OP and her WK. I don't understand the level of negativity that has been shown over this.

The OP looked bad without the history given later on, it needed to be pointed out. As someone who is dealing with genetic abnormalities, I would think that the OP would completely understand that worrying about the sex is ridiculous....hence my lack of understanding at the name calling...seriously, no one was mean here except you.

PrimRoseMama

golfingdarwinfish

PrimRoseMama said:

@VCGolfNYC‌ : I love you :x How are you?

@primrosemama

Long time no bump for me!! I slowly faded away after last July when we found out our fetus was missing a large portion of his brain, amongst a boatload of other congenital abnormalities.  We made the difficult decision and terminated somewhere between 19 & 20 weeks.

aaaaaaaaaaaand, now I'm 16w pregnant!  Had an early a/s this morning and received a glowing review from my MFM.  I am still cautiously optimistic, but my MFM wants us to start breathing and is extremely happy with what he has seen thus far.  Fingers are crossed for an October baby! 

How are you & the little ones?

PrimRoseMama

VCGolfNYC said:

PrimRoseMama said:

@VCGolfNYC‌ : I love you :x How are you?

@primrosemama

Long time no bump for me!! I slowly faded away after last July when we found out our fetus was missing a large portion of his brain, amongst a boatload of other congenital abnormalities.  We made the difficult decision and terminated somewhere between 19 & 20 weeks.

aaaaaaaaaaaand, now I'm 16w pregnant!  Had an early a/s this morning and received a glowing review from my MFM.  I am still cautiously optimistic, but my MFM wants us to start breathing and is extremely happy with what he has seen thus far.  Fingers are crossed for an October baby! 

How are you & the little ones?

OMFG!! This makes this thread AMMMAAAAAZING!!! SQUEE!


I remember being so sad for you with your last loss. I'm so incredibly stoked for you! CONGRATULATIONS! I hope this baby is your take-home, 100 percent healthy Take-Home Rainbow baby!!

The kiddos are doing well. DS is almost walking & DD has perfected the near-threenager diva-insanity. They are both napping. Gah, I'm so happy for you @VCGolfNYC‌ !!!!!

PrimRoseMama

MorseBrooks said:

kmgriff0709 said:

Hey..so im new to this whole thing...still trying to figure it out. im 16 weeks pregnant and at 12 weeks they did a Panorama test on me to tell me what im having. They told me I was having a girl. I am stoked but I'm worried it will be inaccurate. They say its over 99 prevent accurate and they prefer that over an u/s. Has anyone else had this and thoughts on it?

kmgriff0709 said:

larbeadles said:

 

~snip~

Actually I was NOT more concerned about the sex of my baby, I already know what I need to know about my blood test results and what I have to deal with now because of them. Which I would have discussed but never did and don't feel the need to share with a bunch of hateful women. Sure they say 99% Accurate, but I've never known anyone to have these tests done so I was CURIOUS. Lord help me because im curious. It does not make me some bad person in any way because I asked a question. Once again the testing was done for the health of my baby, and im far from "whacked". And I wasn't "called out" on anything. I chose to re word my post. Stop being such a negative bitch.

 @kmgriff0709
Are you sure you weren't concerned about just the sex - because your ORIGINAL POST made it pretty clear that you were.  "They did a Panorama test to tell me what I'm having"  - um no they did it because you have a history - the sex is a bonus and then "I'm stoked but worried it might be inaccurate"

EVERYTHING in your original post is about the sex of your child - not the health.......

@kmgriff0709‌

kmgriff0709

Can you stop?? Im not even going on about it anymore? I mean seriously. Find something better to do. No I Didn't talk about the health, because my baby is NOT healthy and there is all kinds of issues, that came from my results, which is the ORIGINAL REASON I had the tests done. SO no I didn't want to talk about that  to women I have never talked to, that was not the first thing I wanted to write a discussion about. I asked a question, one I didn't know was going to make everyone go off the deep end or I wouldn't have asked it. Now please leave me alone. Please.

PrimRoseMama

kmgriff0709 said:

Can you stop?? Im not even going on about it anymore? I mean seriously. Find something better to do. No I Didn't talk about the health, because my baby is NOT healthy and there is all kinds of issues, that came from my results, which is the ORIGINAL REASON I had the tests done. SO no I didn't want to talk about that  to women I have never talked to, that was not the first thing I wanted to write a discussion about. I asked a question, one I didn't know was going to make everyone go off the deep end or I wouldn't have asked it. Now please leave me alone. Please.

What's going on with your baby? I'm not a heartless wench. I'm serious.

Really, you are the only one going off the deep end. Take a deep breath. It's not all that serious.

I think maybe a break from the boards in general would be a good idea? If it's disturbing you this much I really think you need to talk to a counselor

PrimRoseMama

Frankly, I think it's funny that I'm the one being called a bitch but somehow I'm supposed to leave OP alone? :-?