My DH is wonderful. He is very kind and thoughtful. He is great with our nieces and nephews, but he has always said he's not a baby person. Honestly, me neither. I love, love MY girls, but i do not go gaga over others' babies. Now that they are here I feel he is always complaining about them. He isn't very loving toward them especially when they are fussy. He will get frustrated and just let tbem cry in his lap without holding tthem or trying to soothe. He says he misses his freedom and his "old life." I do as much as I can alone, but as you know, twins are hard and one person cannot so it alone all the time. Any suggestions? Did you go through this? I try not to let it cause contention but it makes me angry and sad. We have been together 18 years, married 15 and tried ivf multiple times before being blessed with our girls. I wish he wereore appreciative.
Age: 35 TTC since 2005, MFI & DOR
IVF #1 Sep '11 - canceled poor response
IVF #2 Nov '11 8R/8M/4F 3dt x2 - chemical
IVF #3 April '12 11R/6M/4F 3dt x2 - m/c
FET #1 Aug 2012 3dt x2 - BFN
IVF #4 Jan '13 BFN 11R/6M/6F 5dt x2 - BFN
IVF #5 July '13 16R/10M/10F 5dt x2 + 1 frostie
9dp5dt Beta 1 = 344!! 16dp5dt. Beta 2 = 4822 7wk u/s= 2 heartbeats!
Twin girls! 3/6/14