May 2013 Moms

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  • JCRSMD17 said:

    Way to illustrate my point. I'm no one that matters to you all. Just calling a spade a spade.

    Oh wait she did say one thing intelligent and poignant. You are no one that matters to us.

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  • BekW2009 said:

    @SaguaroBlossmom‌ I honestly thought BHJones' picture was funny. I've known her for over a year and a half and we know each other from FB. That and the dusty old bitches comment made me laugh. And yes, I totally get the DOB comment was directed towards me.


    I just find this all too sketchy ,If you thought the DOB pic was funny also why didn't you lovetit that too? The only other thing you lovetitted was Beachy's comment to me asking who I was.
    If the only reason you are back is to target Shank then I think that is messed up.

    Edit: hit reply on accident
    I "loved it" on Beachy's response because right before that you had tried to call me out like you knew me and we go way back. I don't know you and to my knowledge never interacted on here when we were pregnant. I don't recognize your SN. I was about to ask the same question. Beachy beat me to it.
    FTR, I like Beachy, I like Johnson, I like Blue too. I'm trying to think of some good regs that always made me laugh...

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  • BekW2009BekW2009 member
    edited April 2014
    As for the explanation on the unicorn pic, it was posted in our FB group and Shank and @mytinc‌ were tagged because the person who posted thought they would both find it hilarious. Shank got upset because she liked the outfit but other people had already posted they thought it was silly. Apparently, Shank did not like that people found the outfit funny and she left the group without telling anyone why she was leaving. But the last I heard from her, she apologized for being crazy and hormonal -- and intended to return to our FB group. There was not anything malicious about that pic, at all, and no one said one malicious thing to her about it. Really. Nada.

    ETA, Shank and mytinc were tagged because they are both pregnant, if that wasn't clear.
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  • BekW2009 said:
    As for the explanation on the unicorn pic, it was posted in our FB group and Shank and @mytinc‌ were tagged because the person who posted thought they would both find it hilarious. Shank got upset because she liked the outfit but other people had already posted they thought it was silly. Apparently, Shank did not like that people found the outfit funny and she left the group without telling anyone why she was leaving. But the last I heard from her, she apologized for being crazy and hormonal -- and intended to return to our FB group. There was not anything malicious about that pic, at all, and no one said one malicious thing to her about it. Really. Nada. ETA, Shank and mytinc were tagged because they are both pregnant, if that wasn't clear.

    If it was all so innocent then why did others say it was a low blow and to keep FB stuff off the board? Something's fucky.
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  • beaubecca said:
    All this just makes me glad I didn't join that FB group. Sounds like a lot of drama happening on it. Its like all the of TB snark queens but IRL. That means its just a mean girl group.
    That isn't true at all, there is a lot of support and sharing ideas and experiences. People meet up IRL Sorry not to be defensive, but assuming it is all drama and snark because someone left it for no reason isn't really fair.
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  • JCRSMD17 said:
    No wonder the DOBs don't come back to post here! Way to try and eat everyone alive over the most trivial stupid drama ever Shank. You got your feelers hurt over a baby unicorn costume. Do you realize how ridiculous this is? No need to go all alpha female over it.
    Where do you all keep coming from??

    Seriously though, the reason that we are leery of BekW2009 is because of the timing. She hasn't been around for months, then the shit show of yesterday occurred and now she's re-introing? That is awfully convenient.

    I somewhat remember her as a poster, I don't remember her being a bitch so I probably would've welcomed her if she would've come back say, a week ago. However, the timing is just too weird.
  • SpanFranSpanFran member
    edited April 2014
    Shank must have meant a whole lot to you, huh?  Gosh, now I feel like the dusty old bitch.  I genuinely didn't know that you guys were so in love with her.  Accept my heartfelt apology. 
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  • beaubecca said:

    All this just makes me glad I didn't join that FB group. Sounds like a lot of drama happening on it. Its like all the of TB snark queens but IRL. That means its just a mean girl group.

    That isn't true at all, there is a lot of support and sharing ideas and experiences. People meet up IRL

    Sorry not to be defensive, but assuming it is all drama and snark because someone left it for no reason isn't really fair.




    In the other post you stated that this has been an issue in your FB group so it wasn't just Shank that left. They are obviously leaving your group because you guys are dumb bitches who would rather spend all your energy causing drama than being a mom who is a good example to their child.

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  • Boo0512 said:



    JCRSMD17 said:

    No wonder the DOBs don't come back to post here! Way to try and eat everyone alive over the most trivial stupid drama ever Shank. You got your feelers hurt over a baby unicorn costume. Do you realize how ridiculous this is? No need to go all alpha female over it.

    Where do you all keep coming from??

    Seriously though, the reason that we are leery of BekW2009 is because of the timing. She hasn't been around for months, then the shit show of yesterday occurred and now she's re-introing? That is awfully convenient.

    I somewhat remember her as a poster, I don't remember her being a bitch so I probably would've welcomed her if she would've come back say, a week ago. However, the timing is just too weird.

    KateRN and Botanical were in an FB board with me a week ago. Their departure was recent.
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  • SpanFran said:

    Shank must have meant a whole lot to you, huh?  Gosh, now I feel like the dusty old bitch.  I genuinely didn't know that you guys were so in love with her.  Accept my heartfelt apology. 

    I'm assuming you're referring to me. And no. I didn't know Shank as an SN until she started calling me out. The person I know her as, I thought was taking a time out from public boards because of something someone from here did that threatened her family.
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  • "That is a sore spot with the FB group because of some history we have of people leaving without reason." Quoted from the UO thread

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  • RoxZ32 said:
    beaubecca said:
    All this just makes me glad I didn't join that FB group. Sounds like a lot of drama happening on it. Its like all the of TB snark queens but IRL. That means its just a mean girl group.
    That isn't true at all, there is a lot of support and sharing ideas and experiences. People meet up IRL Sorry not to be defensive, but assuming it is all drama and snark because someone left it for no reason isn't really fair.
    In the other post you stated that this has been an issue in your FB group so it wasn't just Shank that left. They are obviously leaving your group because you guys are dumb bitches who would rather spend all your energy causing drama than being a mom who is a good example to their child.

    You no nothing about the history of the group, so don't pretend to That last comment is just fucking mean.
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  • RoxZ32 said:
    beaubecca said:
    All this just makes me glad I didn't join that FB group. Sounds like a lot of drama happening on it. Its like all the of TB snark queens but IRL. That means its just a mean girl group.
    That isn't true at all, there is a lot of support and sharing ideas and experiences. People meet up IRL Sorry not to be defensive, but assuming it is all drama and snark because someone left it for no reason isn't really fair.
    In the other post you stated that this has been an issue in your FB group so it wasn't just Shank that left. They are obviously leaving your group because you guys are dumb bitches who would rather spend all your energy causing drama than being a mom who is a good example to their child.

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  • Since I was tagged I will say that nothing about the origin of the unicorn pic was hostile. I was tagged as was Shank because we're expecting. Some people didn't like the outfit, some did. One person commented that it's all good if we have different opinions. Within a few hours Shank left the group. The end.

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  • CNJ4EVA said:
    SpanFran said:
    Are you guys (DOBs) that butthurt that Shank left?

    Silly SpanFran, the DOB's only accuse others of getting butthurt. They would never get butthurt themselves.

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  • Can we even discuss bad examples for their children... A group who drove a member away for asking about baby modeling, then tracked her down on two other boards (where she was trying to make new friends) to call her out, rehash the drama, mock her, tell her she had no friends in real life....
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  • I don't like discussing bad examples either, but @bhjones1980‌ that isn't why it happened. The issue must have happened during your hiatus.
  • I'm having a hard time following the quotes and I have no idea who said what. I also don't like to get involved in the drama. That said, how dare someone insult another persons parenting skills based on perceived poor choices in internet etiquette. I can't believe this cat fight has gone that far.

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  • I don't like discussing bad examples either, but @bhjones1980‌ that isn't why it happened. The issue must have happened during your hiatus.
    I've never taken a hiatus from the bmb
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  • LaxMOM44 said:
    I'm in a FB group for sleep issues and there was a mom of a 15 month old that still doesn't STTN. I left that Facebook group because reading that shit makes me worried. Ok so anyways what I don't get is if ya'll hate Shank because she's been such a bitch on the BMB for months, then why were you sad to see her leave your FB group? Obviously I consider Shank a friend and she has always defended me so I am slightly biased I just don't see why you wouldn't be celebrating her departure. It just sounds to me like the time when I got dumped by this guy I actually hated and I was really mad that he did it first so I dated his best friend and made them hate each other and wait where was I going?

    There are separate issues going on here, my annoyance with shank on the BMB is mine alone, since most of the FB group posters are not regs here. And unfortunately it was my building annoyance, as I detailed in the UO thread that started other drama.
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  • I don't like discussing bad examples either, but @bhjones1980‌ that isn't why it happened. The issue must have happened during your hiatus.

    I've never taken a hiatus from the bmb



    I'm sorry I was wrong. But that still isn't what happened with rpalen. It had to do with her lying to the BMB about pimping her business out.

  • smg2302 said:

    I'm having a hard time following the quotes and I have no idea who said what. I also don't like to get involved in the drama. That said, how dare someone insult another persons parenting skills based on perceived poor choices in internet etiquette. I can't believe this cat fight has gone that far.

    If this was directed at my comment please notice that I never said anyone was a bad mom. I'm just saying that we are adults and just because it's the internet doesn't mean we should toss morals out the window. You would never want your child involved in this type of interaction would you? So why do it ourselves? I'm actually disappointed I chimed in with name calling as that is a poor example to set for my daughter. So I apologize for that but I do think that the energy spent here fighting would be better spent with our kids. I'm just annoyed that our BMB is being overrun by drama and I'm sick of it. Move on.


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  • I'm going to sleep y'all. I have one of those babies who is going through some major sleep regression. Don't all like me at once now! I can only be friends with a few people at once. ;)
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  • I don't like discussing bad examples either, but @bhjones1980‌ that isn't why it happened. The issue must have happened during your hiatus.
    I've never taken a hiatus from the bmb
    I'm sorry I was wrong. But that still isn't what happened with rpalen. It had to do with her lying to the BMB about pimping her business out.

    Right I remember that part too, wasnt she trying to sneakily sell those subscription boxes? That completely justifies running her off three different boards and telling her she has no friends in real life
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  • @RoxZ32‌ agreed. In the midst of being in a fight the last thing I would to hear is that I was bad mother and that's how I read it. I definitely got defensive.

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  • LaxMOM44LaxMOM44 member
    edited April 2014
    To be fair I wasn't trying to drive her away from the board because of baby modelling I was trying to give her an honest opinion from someone that has worked in that industry. Also if she couldn't handle my truth she wouldn't have been able to handle that industry anyways. I mean I never said her kid wasn't cute, fuck I don't even know what her kid looks like, if she took her kid on an audition they might jut pick her baby apart. That's the reality, if she wanted a thread of people saying how gorg her baby was she should have posted on HDBD.

    Eta: I have a lot to say
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  • BekW2009 said:
    Don't all like me at once now!

    No worries.
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  • Wait...I thought she was involved in the shankgate stalking incident? Was she not the suspect?
     

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