Also, for those who want to join a "drama free chill board", much like this thread. I made a group called "Unicorn Farts, Glitter, and Puppies."
I think you're adding fuel to a fire. Just move on. (And I say that without trying to be bitchy, honestly.)
REALLY REALLY not trying to. I'm just thinking that no matter what I seem to say lately, nobody likes it and everyone thinks I'm trying to start something. It's just supposed to be a place where you can go for niceties and no drama. A safe haven really for those who feel like they repeatedly get singled out on here. It was a suggestion by someone that a followed through on. Nothing more.
I get that. Trust me, I understand what you're saying. But remember that perception is everything and I think it can be perceived differently than how you intended it.
Eta No matter what is said (by anyone) on this topic, minds aren't going to be changed. Thus the perception issue.
Random- I have the windows open in my office while going through a million and 1 sow ID cards. My eye lids started geting sooooo heavy I closed them, just for a second, woke up 15 minutes later. Work fail!! Must hurry to get done and go home.....
We were supposed to go there (like a mile away) but the Little Monster had a freakout and refused to nap so we had a screaming, crying mess on our hands. (He wanted no part of the car seat!). So they felt bad and brought us dinner. They have a 9 month old so they totally get it.
We were supposed to go there (like a mile away) but the Little Monster had a freakout and refused to nap so we had a screaming, crying mess on our hands. (He wanted no part of the car seat!). So they felt bad and brought us dinner. They have a 9 month old so they totally get it.
My ass hole dh strikes again! Everytime i think its really improving it goes back two steps. He has now hidden most of the dishes somewhere in the house because " he doesnt use them and is tired of helping me."
This is more a twat waffle tuesday, or wtf wednesday. , but since its sunday and I am pissed now i posted it here.
He will no longer be DH in my posts as dear hubby it now means douche hubby.
My ass hole dh strikes again! Everytime i think its really improving it goes back two steps. He has now hidden most of the dishes somewhere in the house because " he doesnt use them and is tired of helping me."
This is more a twat waffle tuesday, or wtf wednesday. , but since its sunday and I am pissed now i posted it here.
He will no longer be DH in my posts as dear hubby it now means douche hubby.
So my MIL has an appointment in town and asked if she could come over this morning. Of course that would be awesome... I can get some stuff done around the house... Run out if I need too. My FIL just called and he wants to come over too now. Which is fine but kind of annoying. I don't know why but I feel like I have to entertain them when they come at the same time. They are divorced so I find it odd that they
My ass hole dh strikes again! Everytime i think its really improving it goes back two steps. He has now hidden most of the dishes somewhere in the house because " he doesnt use them and is tired of helping me."
This is more a twat waffle tuesday, or wtf wednesday. , but since its sunday and I am pissed now i posted it here.
He will no longer be DH in my posts as dear hubby it now means douche hubby.
Not really sure what he was trying to accomplish but sounds very childish and definitely douchey! I'm sorry!
My ass hole dh strikes again! Everytime i think its really improving it goes back two steps. He has now hidden most of the dishes somewhere in the house because " he doesnt use them and is tired of helping me."
This is more a twat waffle tuesday, or wtf wednesday. , but since its sunday and I am pissed now i posted it here.
He will no longer be DH in my posts as dear hubby it now means douche hubby.
I am truly sorry. I have no words really. I am stunned by his behavior. Hugs.
@Missykisses85 Are you kidding me? What kind of person does that?! He was tired of what... helping you cook? Helping you clean? That is seriously the most asshole-ish thing I've ever heard. Have you found them yet? You should hide his clothes because you don't use them
My ass hole dh strikes again!
Everytime i think its really improving it goes back two steps.
He has now hidden most of the dishes somewhere in the house because " he doesnt use them and is tired of helping me."
This is more a twat waffle tuesday, or wtf wednesday.
, but since its sunday and I am pissed now i posted it here.
He will no longer be DH in my posts as dear hubby it now means douche hubby.
I don't even get this? WTF? What a douche.
And you know it's bad if @Cambury108 has no words!!!!!!
Lets be honest he is man not very good at hiding things... This is my household i know when things are moved. I found them and told him if he does it again I will buy more dishes next time ! I will be using his debit card if i need to.
My ass hole dh strikes again!
Everytime i think its really improving it goes back two steps.
He has now hidden most of the dishes somewhere in the house because " he doesnt use them and is tired of helping me."
This is more a twat waffle tuesday, or wtf wednesday.
, but since its sunday and I am pissed now i posted it here.
He will no longer be DH in my posts as dear hubby it now means douche hubby.
I don't even get this? WTF? What a douche.
And you know it's bad if @Cambury108 has no words!!!!!!
Yup I had none, I almost dropped my jaw when I read it. All I can give is my sorries and some hugs!
I am just figuring this is what happened, I am not even sure. I think from what I understand from this and past posts he is a *whipsers* asshole and he probably did it to piss her off.
So my beagle ran away earlier in the pouring down rain...she finally came home and she smells like a river and dirty fish guts O.M.G I want to puke. I have never smelled anything quite as revolting as this. It also does not help that wet dogs stink in the first place. GAG me now, UGH off to give her a bath and then she is going in the kennel for the rest of her day since she was naughty.
He doesnt understand thats from 5am to 9pm i dont stop I get up get us both ready work ten hours come home have to clean the days bottles and pump stuff and then set up tomorrows. All while taking care of her alone and trying to eat and do laundry.
That doesn't count all of the regular chores i try to squeeze In .
He works night turn to he sleeps when i get home from work.
I have asked him to help out during the day since he gets home at 9 am and goes to bed at 12. He wakes up to pick her up at 4 and i am home and take over at 530.
That the fact that he is controlling how many dishes i have to use is ridiculous. Spent the day out spending his money at target. And then pit the dishes back where they go.
Better believe he can fucking cook him self meals from. Now on. I wouldn't want to use any more dishes than necessary.
I couldn't have said it better myself @hercules03... The year after our first was born was rocky. We both did stupid things and my foot was halfway out the door a few times. Our marriage is stronger than ever now, and it's partly from learning from our fights and mistakes.
Does your LO ever whimper in her sleep and suck in her bottom lip? OMG mine just did that in my arms right now and it was sad but OH so cute at the same time.
Re: Super baby??
I get that. Trust me, I understand what you're saying. But remember that perception is everything and I think it can be perceived differently than how you intended it.
Eta No matter what is said (by anyone) on this topic, minds aren't going to be changed. Thus the perception issue.
Everytime i think its really improving it goes back two steps.
He has now hidden most of the dishes somewhere in the house because " he doesnt use them and is tired of helping me."
This is more a twat waffle tuesday, or wtf wednesday.
, but since its sunday and I am pissed now i posted it here.
He will no longer be DH in my posts as dear hubby it now means douche hubby.
What ?
My FIL just called and he wants to come over too now. Which is fine but kind of annoying. I don't know why but I feel like I have to entertain them when they come at the same time.
They are divorced so I find it odd that they Not really sure what he was trying to accomplish but sounds very childish and definitely douchey! I'm sorry!
I don't even get this? WTF? What a douche. And you know it's bad if @Cambury108 has no words!!!!!!
Sounds delicious.
I get up get us both ready work ten hours come home have to clean the days bottles and pump stuff and then set up tomorrows. All while taking care of her alone and trying to eat and do laundry.
That doesn't count all of the regular chores i try to squeeze
In .
He works night turn to he sleeps when i get home from work.
I have asked him to help out during the day since he gets home at 9 am and goes to bed at 12. He wakes up to pick her up at 4 and i am home and take over at 530.
Better believe he can fucking cook him self meals from. Now on. I wouldn't want to use any more dishes than necessary.
7 months first kid