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Bad day

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edited March 2014 in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
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I'm having such a bad day. It's odd - I've felt oddly calm and almost disconnected since my miscarriage. I'm happy the physical part is over and I thought I was doing well. But tonight another Facebook friend announced she was due in October (I was due 10/25). That has to be at least the 5th announcement I've seen since I found out about our loss. I just completely broke down because her announcement was similar to what I had planned. Instead, I have a big brother shirt folded in my closet that I can't even handle looking at. Ugh - just needed to vent. I didn't realize that every announcement I see is going to break my heart.

Eta: spelling

BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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Re: Bad day

  • I'm sorry you're having such a rough day. I hope it gets better/easier for you soon.
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  • I'm so sorry. I totally agree about Facebook. :-/


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    PG#2 M/C 3/14 - Surprise BFP 2/13. Beta's doubled every 52 hours from 3w5d-5w5d
    Viable pregnancy scan at 5w5d; 2nd u/s showed 2 days of growth in 7 but a HB of 120
    3rd u/s on 3/10/14 had no HB and baby had only grown 7 days over 14
    D&C 3/17/14 - complications - DX Retroflexed uterus, multiple tears to cervix

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  • Hugs! Facebook wasn't my friend today either. :( I think I'm going to stay away from it for a while.
  • Glad to know I'm not alone. I had thought about deleting my facebook account this week. Its hard hearing whose pregnant. A girl I know is pregnant with her 5th child. Her announcing it was a major slap in the face from mother nature.
    Pregnancy #1 DD 08.30.2007
    Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014
    Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015
    Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019
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  • I've blocked a few people on FB that had the same due date month as me. I break down seeing their belly grow and looking at ultrasound pix. Oh and the status complaints are the worst. What I wouldn't give to have "horrible morning sickness". I'm sorry for your bad day. Hang in there!!
  • I am so sorry hun, the mental image of you folding up that shirt brought tears to my eyes, big huge hugs. 
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  • *ticker warning and live child mentioned*

    Thanks everyone. Such a long road.

    @stephy1221‌ I had done so much laundry while I was waiting for my results, and that shirt was thrown in. Folding that shirt is one of the hardest things I've dealt with. A few days later was when I was going to have DS wear it to announce to my parents. Sucks! It's a 2T and he's 15 months, so I seriously doubt it will still fit when we ttc again. I just couldn't throw it away.

    BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

    BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

    BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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