I weaned DD at 13 months because I just wanted to be able to cuddle with her without having to feed her. I didn't really feel the crazy warm fuzzy when I BF her. I think I do more with DS because that is one of the few times it is just the two of us. DD normally hangs out with DH or is playing and I can purely focus on DS.
As for as the drama hurting N13, I don't think it will make a huge difference. If anything will it will be the private groups. Regs will probably make a group and people will feel left out and leave.
@TaviaBrad and @DevynnMarie I have mad respect that you both have been flamed multiple times and have handled it maturely and stuck around.
The ER sucks. As soon as DH brought me food thru called me back. Now I'm on a bed in a freezing hall w/ no food. My FFFC is I'd rather be in the waiting room eating. Food over pain? I also have weird lumpy chest since I stuffed my shirt w/ paper towels because I'm leaking.
My fffc.... I don't want the social groups to happen because I don't want this bmb to die because all the regs went to a private group. And I don't think I post enough to get an invitation.
I'm one of the the ones that has been slightly scared off. Not just because of all the drama this past week but also because I feel like if you aren't one of the "blads" then you aren't really welcomed here. Like...you have to be snarky
I'm one of the the ones that has been slightly scared off. Not just because of all the drama this past week but also because I feel like if you aren't one of the "blads" then you aren't really welcomed here. Like...you have to be snarky
--- Don't you like being snarky? Try it. It's really fun!
I'm one of the the ones that has been slightly scared off. Not just because of all the drama this past week but also because I feel like if you aren't one of the "blads" then you aren't really welcomed here. Like...you have to be snarky
This isn't true. There are a lot of girls on here we like that aren't snarky or a BLAD. You just have to be active, not an idiot, and we'll like you.
I'm one of the the ones that has been slightly scared off. Not just because of all the drama this past week but also because I feel like if you aren't one of the "blads" then you aren't really welcomed here. Like...you have to be snarky
This isn't true. There are a lot of girls on here we like that aren't snarky or a BLAD. You just have to be active, not an idiot, and we'll like you.
I don't understand why people keep saying they feel left out if they aren't a blad. I don't consider myself a blad and I have never felt left out. I even joined later on in my pregnancy. I just contribute where I can, support members when they need it and occasionally throw out a sweet gif.
@cagoldi I don't post that often, but seeing the board wars made me want to participate more. There are some good eggs here, and everyone is supportive.
I agree, I don't post often either but lately I've been participating more. The board war didn't scare me away either!
In a nutshell since im mobile now, I said I wasn't witty or snarky enough to contribute to those threads and it made me feel like I wasnt apart of the board and I thought that was weird. This board has been my home since last March and I've gotten to know you ladies over the year. Hopefully you still remember me even though I don't post on the drama threads, cause I'm going to try to stick around. Sorry about any spelling/grammatical errors, im mobile and rushing cause Emily just woke up.
I'm one of the the ones that has been slightly scared off. Not just because of all the drama this past week but also because I feel like if you aren't one of the "blads" then you aren't really welcomed here. Like...you have to be snarky
false. We have lots of love for our logical and sweet posters that are regulars. You have to contribute to get known. I recognize your name but I know you don't post often so it's hard to know you. Where the regs have gotten to know each other.
Maybe we need to bring back GTKY. I miss that
Am I the only one who wonders how many of us N13ers there are? Lurking, medium participation level, or 'regulars?' I'm thinking there are many more of us than we really see. Maybe? Maybe not?
TB: if someone is active and idiot they just get flamed a lot. Every place needs entertainment. Lol
Sarah: I remember you're name. It's fine you're not snarky. You don't have to participate in every thread just where you feel comfortable. We don't expect everyone to snark in every battle. I don't even snark/gif every battle. Ain't nobody got time for that.
TB: if someone is active and idiot they just get flamed a lot. Every place needs entertainment. Lol
Sarah: I remember you're name. It's fine you're not snarky. You don't have to participate in every thread just where you feel comfortable. We don't expect everyone to snark in every battle. I don't even snark/gif every battle. Ain't nobody got time for that.
Ok I hate my computer right now. That last post was suppose to say "Thanks, this board has helped me a lot these past few months and I will try to contribute more."
Mish I was just going to write that about that BLAD thing. It's satire no one who has it in their siggy takes it seriously, it was a huge freaking joke fr our board.
I do! I'm the Queen Bee. Right? Right? Oh wait wasn't Goblu the Queen Bee? Baha. :bz
I actually know where BLAD came from and then the original BLAD came out, and I think thats when I thought yall were taking it seriously. I always just thought it was a good joke on the typo.
I have a tiny confession today: I realized that almost every time I shop for the girls and come with lots of stuff I tell my husband that I had an awesome coupon or got some great deal He doesn't really care, he just doesn't get spending on clothes. He about had a heart attack when I bought my daughter a jacket we loved from A&F and I told him it cost $65. Another confession: it actually cost $85.
I don't get spending a lot on golf and fishing and know he probably does the same thing to me I'm sure that bag full of lures from Bass Pro Shops only cost $20.
@sarahdugger and whoever else posted about the groups.
My thought was to make one based on the last couple HDBDs. I feel like even people who aren't comfortable posting regularly post there so it would be more inclusive. Thoughts?
Look I just want to sit with the cool kids. Accept me, you guise!
Going off the eyebrow waxing...I have NEVER waxed, plucked or shaved my eyebrows...and I get compliments on what great ones I have!
FWIW, I got 5 stitches in my eyebrow when I was a freshman in high school and it thinned out my think one and made it even with the other. This is the only reason I can get away with it.
As for feeling included, running away etc. There are times I feel like I can't contribute for a lot of posts which makes me feel like I get lost. However, any time I do have something to contribute I make a point to do so. I plan to continue to contribute where I can and just lurk when I can't
No flames here.
I am a MUCH happier (and therefore better) mom now that I'm working. He has a nanny who loves him all day and parents who are thrilled to spend the evening doting on him. In our house this is better for everyone.
Fine. I'm a "Blad" and I'll say it.
I talk to a lot of "Blads" off-board. I haven't talked about it with them, but I can personally say, the secret boards aren't attractive to me. I can already talk to my Internet friends privately.
I'm not going anywhere. Secret board or not. I hope my Blads intend on staying.
I hope you non-Blads intend on staying too. Things get away from all of us sometimes and we can be snarky bitches but I promise you at the end of the day, it's not that serious. I would have a drink and some laughs with JessnTim.
I really don't take any of this to heart. I rarely bring my personal life to the board. I'm here to make jokes, lend support and laugh at dipshits. It's the Internet, guys.
I'm not leaving. And I ask that you don't leave as well.
Fine. I'm a "Blad" and I'll say it.
I talk to a lot of "Blads" off-board. I haven't talked about it with them, but I can personally say, the secret boards aren't attractive to me. I can already talk to my Internet friends privately.
I'm not going anywhere. Secret board or not. I hope my Blads intend on staying.
I hope you non-Blads intend on staying too. Things get away from all of us sometimes and we can be snarky bitches but I promise you at the end of the day, it's not that serious. I would have a drink and some laughs with JessnTim.
I really don't take any of this to heart. I rarely bring my personal life to the board. I'm here to make jokes, lend support and laugh at dipshits. It's the Internet, guys.
I'm not leaving. And I ask that you don't leave as well.
Re: FFFC
As for as the drama hurting N13, I don't think it will make a huge difference. If anything will it will be the private groups. Regs will probably make a group and people will feel left out and leave.
@TaviaBrad and @DevynnMarie I have mad respect that you both have been flamed multiple times and have handled it maturely and stuck around.
YOU SAID RETARDENT!!
Sorry, I may be an old but I'm still immature.
lol I thought the same thing.BADGES FOR LYFE.
Except the STTN badge, right? Right?
I will just die if someone uses that.
I don't want the social groups to happen because I don't want this bmb to die because all the regs went to a private group. And I don't think I post enough to get an invitation.
#LOLFITMAMA
Don't you like being snarky? Try it. It's really fun!
Edit: mobile bumping, quotes didn't work.
Sarah: I remember you're name. It's fine you're not snarky. You don't have to participate in every thread just where you feel comfortable. We don't expect everyone to snark in every battle. I don't even snark/gif every battle. Ain't nobody got time for that.
I just got three onesies with bows in them that are adorbs for 30% off.
FWIW, I got 5 stitches in my eyebrow when I was a freshman in high school and it thinned out my think one and made it even with the other. This is the only reason I can get away with it.
As for feeling included, running away etc. There are times I feel like I can't contribute for a lot of posts which makes me feel like I get lost. However, any time I do have something to contribute I make a point to do so. I plan to continue to contribute where I can and just lurk when I can't
#LOLFITMAMA
#LOLFITMAMA
I'm too lazy to learn how to gif. Nor do I even know where to go to find gifs.