With my DS I went into labor at 39 weeks when my water broke. After I got to the hospital my contractions slowed and they put me on pitocin. * I also had a Epidural, which could have slowed my labor. My DS heartbeat fluctated from 80-180, and the doctors were worried that the cord was wrapped around his neck. So I had an emergency c-section after being in labor for 13 hours. It turns out he had a short umbilical cord and wasn't even in the birth canal. I only make it to 7 cm. This time around my OB is letting me decide whether to try for a VBAC or schedule my c-section. I am worried that my labor won't progress and I'll end up having a csection anways. Per my OB VBAC better for me that scheduled, but scheduled csection better than emergency. My recovery from my csection went pretty well. I am not planning on having any other children. On the fence, they're are advantages & disadvantages to both. Any feedback or past experience would be helpful. Thanks ladies.
Re: VBAC v. Scheduled C-Section
I'm very afraid the same thing may happen again... but... I'm going to VBAC because I don't want to have to recover from a c-section while taking care of a baby AND a toddler. However, I am prepared for the possibility of another c-section. I'm giving myself 2 hours of pushing, and if this baby isn't out, I'll just request a c-section and get it out. So, at least I know I tried... and who knows, it may just work. Good luck with your decision.
5 DIUI - BFN
IVF#1 - BFP - AJ 7/12
FET#1 - BFP Due 7/24/14
A while ago, my OB office didn't do VBAC- that made things easy. I found out they do now and I'm the crunchy non-meds kind- don't want them in my body. I'm nervous about it all with the way the scar feels and the fact that I have a connective tissue disorder. I think if I was really anxious, I could talk to them or MFM and push for a RCS. I have no idea what to do, I almost wish the decision was made for me.
That said, I know several people who had fairly easy c-section recoveries (many on this board), and several people who had terrible vaginal birth recoveries. I just know that for me, I'd really like to have the chance to NOT have surgery before launching into life with 2u2.
BFP 12/10/10 - DD1 8/16/11
BFP 10/29/13 - c/p 11/2/13
BFP 11/29/13 - DD2 7/18/14
BFP 3/20/18 - DS1 due 12/2/18