T&Ps for my nieces and nephew

ashleynaka

Without going into too much detail because it is all still unfolding, my two little nieces and nephew can really use some T&Ps.  My BIL is very mentally ill with severe OCD and alcoholism and my SIL is overcome with anxiety and other issues because of it.  My BIL has abused my SIL and himself in front of his kids.  Last night, we were all over at their house for my nephew's 10th birthday and all hell broke loose and he went literally mental (throwing glass bottles and the whole nine yards).  My poor in-laws don't know what to do and my SIL wants out, but is being threatened by my BIL.  What convolutes the whole situation is that my BIL is a psychology professor! (and is of course above needing treatment)

I am very worried for the kids who are 11, 10 and almost 7, so if you happen to have any spare T&Ps for them, they can really use them.  We are doing everything we can as a family to help my SIL and the kids to be in a safe place and are trying desperately to get him the help he needs (but we all know HE has to want it, which is currently the challenge because of the alcoholism).

Thanks for reading and I will try to keep everyone posted as things unfold. 

bumpuser1509193

T&p

zyas

Oh that's awful, I'm so sorry. T's and p's for your family! Please keep us updated.

snickersforeveryone

I'm sorry they are dealing with this. Thinking of them.

lada85

Very scary. T&Ps for all of them.

ashleynaka

Thank you all so very much for your well wishes.  My in-laws are going to talk to a psychiatrist tomorrow in hopes of getting my BIL some help.  This is going to be a rough and rocky road for us all and I will keep you all posted.

Thanks again for your kind support.  I don't know what I would do without J12!

alphahelix

Well that just sucks all around. Hoping your SIL and kids stay safe and that BIL realizes he does need treatment.

EandIMommy86

Sorry to hear. T&P your way!!