Boob question

jasi704

bandteacher said:

jasi704 said:

bandteacher said:

jasi704 said:

bandteacher said:

jasi704 said:

Another bump commish, eh? Now I'm not allowed to post in the Natural Birth board? Or the Baby Names board? Or the High Risk board? Well that makes TOTAL sense. You're ridiculous.

What?? I said BMB. Birth. Month. Board.  8-|

Exactly, and all I said was "boards." I didn't say anything about BMBs.

You don't get it. You've been active on F14, not this one, as far as I've heard. Hence, the snark.

Yea, and there was a perfectly legitimate reason for me posting in the Feb board. And you clearly don't get it. The point of me saying I've posted in other boards before was because you jags feel like attacking me because I don't "support" other posters. And yes the fuck I do. But I post in more than one board. I post where it's relevant. Not just a fucking month club.

Wouldn't this be a good question for the BFing board, then?

Sure. Many posters' questions can easily be used in multiple boards. Your point?

scorch90

ShellsBells1980 said:

nikkys2008 said:

ShellsBells1980 said:

scorch90 said:

ShellsBells1980 said:

scorch90 said:

ShellsBells1980 said:

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Again, nope!!

Have they hell??

Have they fuck??

PLEASE tell me you can see more than one meaning, and you recognise there doesn't need to be any comma's in there?

Ok, i really am getting tired with this, surely there is more than bandteacher who gets this?

@bandteacher I thought you didn't get it either?

And if it's so obvious, why don't you just tell us?

AriaAmante143

JFC I go fold laundry for 20 minutes and now have no idea what in the actual fuck is happening anymore.

kstar83

nope, still never heard it, except from you, and cannot see another meaning. But I am happy to hear what you meant by it!

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AshleyO925

amandapthompson

I'm going to take a stab in the dark and ask... Does she mean, "WHAT the fuck" or "WHAT the hell"?????

Bc nothing else could possibly make sense. And no one else on the board has this much trouble getting something communicated to the rest of us correctly.

scorch90

WHAT THE HECK DOES IT MEAN?!?!?!?!?!

scorch90

amandapthompson said:

I'm going to take a stab in the dark and ask... Does she mean, "WHAT the fuck" or "WHAT the hell"????? Bc nothing else could possibly make sense. And no one else on the board has this much trouble getting something communicated to the rest of us correctly.

That's what I'm starting to think, buuuuttttt....yeah.

AriaAmante143

amandapthompson said:

I'm going to take a stab in the dark and ask... Does she mean, "WHAT the fuck" or "WHAT the hell"?????

Bc nothing else could possibly make sense. And no one else on the board has this much trouble getting something communicated to the rest of us correctly.

This is the only thing that makes any kind of sense to me.

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rockopera

But is it okay to call everyone bitches and/or cunts? Just need to know what is okay or not. Because I obviously have no rational control of my thoughts, emotions, or actions because HORMONES.

Just own up to bring an obstinate douchebag. Even if you think you've just been doing it for fun. FFS.

scorch90

So basically it's a strong "no"...

edited for emphasis

AshleyO925

Still don't get it.

kstar83

ShellsBells1980 said:

Blonderedhead781 said:

Considering she has yet to explain a meaning, she is proving my point of using language as an excuse! She refuses to apologize and explain the meaning, yet we are the evil "hormonal" ones.

I went to the god damn toilet, YOU do not come before my bladder, so STFU trying to be high and mighty about it.

Did they fuck...ok lets try again, could be said as an answer like

QUESTION - did anyone on this thread ever stop and think they don't own the world, and SOME people might genuinely post here not knowing how best to intro themselves, so they HOPED by asking a question might just be the way to open the door a crack??

ANSWER - Did they hell. You know why?? Because you haven't been crawling up their ass and inserting rainbow farts for them for the past 8 months.

Does putting it in a sentence make it anymore clear?? If so, just replace the "hell" with "fuck" and viola...you have your answer!

nope, still not clear. But I can chalk it up to different slang that may not have an exact "translation" (although I realize it wouldn't be a translation as its technically the same language).

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linzy523

( I still want to know what it means..........

legallyginger

Finally caught up. Whew.

I **demand** to know why there aren't donuts in this thread. Is it because this is about boobs instead of a cervix?

rockopera

"Hormonal" is a copout, and is demeaning to women. It assumes that women can't possibly have control over their emotions and make choices. That anything a woman says can be flippantly discarded as unimportant or irrational. It is NEVER used to explain away things men say and do, no matter how contrary or irrational.

Do women have reactions because they are dealing with hormones? Sure. I cry at sappy commercials more now than I used to. The idea that ikea doesn't have my nursery dresser on stock makes me irrationally angry at H for dragging his feet. Am I going to blow up and throw a temper tantrum about it? No, because I am on control of my actions.

But I very specific in my communications. I am sarcastic and blunt in real life. I call out BS when I see it in my real life and my internet groups. My tone here hasn't changed between TTC and pregnancy, IRL and on TB.

You using "hormonal" as an excuse is a way do automatically discard what anyone says. Can't mean it, it's the hormones. That one is irrational = hormones. But by your use of diminutive female nicknames to try to put people in their place (sweetie, honey, etc), I'm not surprised you are cool with throwing out hormonal as a copout for yourself and others.

Or maybe you are unaware at the impact of your words. Either way, that's my rational explanation of why "hormonal" bothers me and others. You don't have to give a shit, but now you know that when you use it, you're intentionally being offensive.

jasi704

FarmBoysWife said:

now that LO is in bed, you've all had your fun I just want to have one last thing to say.. 

OP, in my professional opinion... 

Thanks, and don't you worry. I have one.

bumpuser1282882

TL;DR this entire thread. But I do know if people keep responding to ShellsBells, we're gonna have to give up Larry.

mamamia866

I heard someone say donuts...

AnonymousMotherOfOne

FarmBoysWife said:

TL;DR this entire thread. But I do know if people keep responding to ShellsBells, we're gonna have to give up Larry.

Based upon the last two weeks, I'm going to say he's done.

Food poisoning?

With a side of dysentery.

mamamia866

I second diabeetus

legallyginger

Pretty soon Larry will be making his own weight post, and we will have to tell him to call his doctor.

scorch90

Soooo, since I kind of missed the first couple months...I really need to be filled in on the Larry reference. I will search the boards, but is there a time frame I can narrow my search down to? Sorry for being out of the loop

scorch90

Thanks @blonderedhead I knew we were known as tame, but somehow I missed the origins of Larry. Now I have to go look at everyone's siggys for his pic!

Edit: Now I understand @FarmBoysWife's siggy!

peachy0709

I like that defending someone you've developed a friendship with through this forum is "ass kissing." And that we're all hormonal psychos.  What's next, she doesn't have female friends because "other women just don't like [her] that much"?

IdyllicPursuit

Wow...this really hurt to read. 

I'm probably one of the nicest people you could find, but when you cross me IRL or on the internet, I'll be the first to call you out on your shit. We're all tired of seeing questions that are easily googled, or questions that should really be directed towards a professional such as an Ob-GYN or a midwife. That's why you get "snarky" responses. Besides, Dr. Google and Dr. Bump always say it's cancer and you're growing an alien who is plotting your death. 

I am a "regular" on the board, participating where I see fit. I support, motivate, and encourage others and give advice or guidance when I can. Although I have this luxury as a TTM, I didn't always have that luxury of experience. Even then, I still helped as a FTM on other boards! 

I don't always lurk or jump in when there's drama. I'm well-educated, but that doesn't mean I don't miss a capitalization or punctuation here or there. Yet, I've never been called out on it. I think before I post, and because I do this, I've never, ever received any hate or snarkiness from others on ANY board. You'll get a lot more leeway if you are seen regularly supporting other bumpers. I've started 9 discussions and replied 88 times. Not an overwhelmingly large number, but the ratio suggests I definitely give more than I take. 

With that being said, what other response did you expect? And what did you expect when you fueled it by throwing mud and calling names? 

/endrant

Edited: I can't freaking type today 

stacey72hbs

With my first pregnancy and my current one my boobs did not grow during. With my first they swelled after delivery, when my milk came in. I am fairly petite and was able to breastfeed for nearly 10 months with my daughter, with a more than adequate supply. So, it is normal that yours haven't grown, everyone's pregnancy is different. And a smaller chest is no indication of sufficient breastfeeding ability.