@shellsbells1980 - I've left you alone too. But you can't leave things alone and just keep going. Maybe you should start your own club. You can talk about meltdown strategies and commiserate about how you can't understand why people don't treat you the way you deserve after you called them all bitches and complain about how much you hate the place. It's your own fault people don't like you. But yeah, keep pretending it is everyone else...while you continue to act like you are soooo grown up and sooo much better than us.
@shellsbells1980 - I've left you alone too. But you can't leave things alone and just keep going. Maybe you should start your own club. You can talk about meltdown strategies and commiserate about how you can't understand why people don't treat you the way you deserve after you called them all bitches and complain about how much you hate the place. It's your own fault people don't like you. But yeah, keep pretending it is everyone else...while you continue to act like you are soooo grown up and sooo much better than us.
Don't forget cunts!
To be fair, I'm apparently a prized cunt. I feel like I should get a badge for that.
Shall we get something straight once and for all??
I don't give a rats ass what the few twats on here think of me.
The fact I stand up for myself and refuse to back down to your childish rants and ways really did hit a nerve didn't it??
I don't come back for you lot of snarky bitches, i come back because i have EVERY right, and there are other people here too, surprisingly they are pretty nice women, unlike the few here who just can't seem to move on.
Yes, i AM better than some of you when I clearly post on someone's thread, in a honest nice way, and some little girl MUST comment "#stopthebullying2014" or post a disgusting donut gif (aren't you bored of that yet?)
A few of you have seen fit to take over someone's post in an attempt to try and attack me JUST because i posted there, and honestly, if you'd done that face to face, you'd just get bitch slapped (no gif needed there!!)
Get over yourselves, you are clearly lacking something in your lives if you feel the need to continue something that is DAYS old....do i feel sorry for your husbands?? NO, they are stupid enough to marry and stay with you, so it's there problem. Do I feel sorry for your kids?? NO, chances are, it won't be long before even THEY call you out on your BS too. Do i feel sorry for you?? YES, you're pathetic little girls who MUST be so unhappy with yourelves you simply must project it onto others.
Get lives, you may find there's a whole wide world beyond this forum :-D
I now see the error of my ways. Guys, I'll be back later. I have to write a list of people I need to make amends to. But first, I need to forgive myself.
While you do that I'm going to go write a letter to my child to better prepare myself for when she calls me out on my BS. I mean, she'll be born in two weeks and "it won't be all that long" so I might as well get started now.
I now see the error of my ways. Guys, I'll be back later. I have to write a list of people I need to make amends to. But first, I need to forgive myself.
While you do that I'm going to go write a letter to my child to better prepare myself for when she calls me out on my BS. I mean, she'll be born in two weeks and "it won't be all that long" so I might as well get started now.
Shall we get something straight once and for all??
I don't give a rats ass what the few twats on here think of me.
The fact I stand up for myself and refuse to back down to your childish rants and ways really did hit a nerve didn't it??
I don't come back for you lot of snarky bitches, i come back because i have EVERY right, and there are other people here too, surprisingly they are pretty nice women, unlike the few here who just can't seem to move on.
Yes, i AM better than some of you when I clearly post on someone's thread, in a honest nice way, and some little girl MUST comment "#stopthebullying2014" or post a disgusting donut gif (aren't you bored of that yet?)
A few of you have seen fit to take over someone's post in an attempt to try and attack me JUST because i posted there, and honestly, if you'd done that face to face, you'd just get bitch slapped (no gif needed there!!)
Get over yourselves, you are clearly lacking something in your lives if you feel the need to continue something that is DAYS old....do i feel sorry for your husbands?? NO, they are stupid enough to marry and stay with you, so it's there problem. Do I feel sorry for your kids?? NO, chances are, it won't be long before even THEY call you out on your BS too. Do i feel sorry for you?? YES, you're pathetic little girls who MUST be so unhappy with yourelves you simply must project it onto others.
Get lives, you may find there's a whole wide world beyond this forum :-D
"Stop the bullying....until I get so mad I assault you."
Shall we get something straight once and for all??
I don't give a rats ass what the few twats on here think of me.
The fact I stand up for myself and refuse to back down to your childish rants and ways really did hit a nerve didn't it??
I don't come back for you lot of snarky bitches, i come back because i have EVERY right, and there are other people here too, surprisingly they are pretty nice women, unlike the few here who just can't seem to move on.
Yes, i AM better than some of you when I clearly post on someone's thread, in a honest nice way, and some little girl MUST comment "#stopthebullying2014" or post a disgusting donut gif (aren't you bored of that yet?)
A few of you have seen fit to take over someone's post in an attempt to try and attack me JUST because i posted there, and honestly, if you'd done that face to face, you'd just get bitch slapped (no gif needed there!!)
Get over yourselves, you are clearly lacking something in your lives if you feel the need to continue something that is DAYS old....do i feel sorry for your husbands?? NO, they are stupid enough to marry and stay with you, so it's there problem. Do I feel sorry for your kids?? NO, chances are, it won't be long before even THEY call you out on your BS too. Do i feel sorry for you?? YES, you're pathetic little girls who MUST be so unhappy with yourelves you simply must project it onto others.
Get lives, you may find there's a whole wide world beyond this forum :-D
"Stop the bullying....until I get so mad I assault you."
Isn't she doing the same thing? Taking over a post?
I take a fucking nap! One nap, no DS, and you do all this!!!
*will be back after bedtime*
Hey, I've sadly fallen to 3rd place on the leaderboard, and I'll be gone most of the day Friday because I'm basically going to tell the people at the spa to massage me until I pass out...I gotta catch up before then!
That little rant by @ShellsBells1980 proves the entire point of who the childish one really is. You come back because you have every right even though you have berated, belittled and slung names around like the immature person you had attempted to make all of us out to be? That is literally like the toddler sitting on the floor refusing to take the snack you are trying to give them because they have every right to say no even though they really want that snack. You and OP deserve each other. I promise you the only reason anyone called you out on this thread (including myself) is because you are standing up for another ignorant toddler that has made it abundantly clear that she doesn't want to become a part of the community, yet wants the community to pretend like we give a shit about her or her boobs.
You know, to be fair, it wasn't really a rant, just some general facts needed stating, so....well you know, someone had to do it
Do some reading, do you REALLY think people didn't try to berate and belittle me? Seriously, stop being so closed minded, you know your "bump friends" can't actually harm you for maybe noticing they're not gods?
Also, like i said in my "rant" people haven't just jumped on me in this thread...for liking someone's post, they've tried it in others when i wasn't even talking to them, but for some reason, they just can't leave me alone.
Really, open your mind just a crack, stop being so blinded by your own ignorance and stupidity. I'm not saying i'm always right, but honey, don't think for a second i'll let you post as if you are either
I'm mostly a lurker but post now and then and have been regularly reading this board since BFP in July...just wondering if anyone remembers when we used to link to posts like this and say, "Wow, so much drama, thank goodness M14 isn't like this." I wonder how many boards are linking to some of M14's posts these days....and now going to search that before I get thrown into the fire.
Yea...I'm regretting even posting my question at all right about now. This conversation is getting pretty embarrassing. Sad even. Guess I'll keep all my questions, concerns, stories, experiences to myself from now on. Thanks for ruining the tittie talk, ladies. Fuck.
I'm mostly a lurker but post now and then and have been regularly reading this board since BFP in July...just wondering if anyone remembers when we used to link to posts like this and say, "Wow, so much drama, thank goodness M14 isn't like this." I wonder how many boards are linking to some of M14's posts these days....and now going to search that before I get thrown into the fire.
Yea...I'm regretting even posting my question at all right about now. This conversation is getting pretty embarrassing. Sad even. Guess I'll keep all my questions, concerns, stories, experiences to myself from now on. Thanks for ruining the tittie talk, ladies. Fuck.
Funny how y'all talk about how this is a "community" and it's meant for "support" bla bla bla. And look at how you completely turned this thread into a fucking circus. If this is how you support your fellow March mommies, I'm thrilled I haven't been as active on this board as you guys.
Funny how y'all talk about how this is a "community" and it's meant for "support" bla bla bla. And look at how you completely turned this thread into a fucking circus. If this is how you support your fellow March mommies, I'm thrilled I haven't been as active on this board as you guys.
It is a community for the people who actually show SUPPORT to those that need it. That does not mean any of us have to give a shit about your tittaes as you don't give a shit or participate in any meaningful conversations that take place here.
Funny how y'all talk about how this is a "community" and it's meant for "support" bla bla bla. And look at how you completely turned this thread into a fucking circus. If this is how you support your fellow March mommies, I'm thrilled I haven't been as active on this board as you guys.
To get support you have to give.
And the ones who get none are the ones who want to suck all the kindness out of FBW.
Just because I'm not on the leaderboard or because I haven't had direct correspondence with you in particular doesn't mean I haven't given support. And last I checked, you're not commish of thebump. So if there are any rules to how many times someone has to post in order to get a sincere response, you certainly didn't write them.
Funny how y'all talk about how this is a "community" and it's meant for "support" bla bla bla. And look at how you completely turned this thread into a fucking circus. If this is how you support your fellow March mommies, I'm thrilled I haven't been as active on this board as you guys.
To get support you have to give.
And the ones who get none are the ones who want to suck all the kindness out of FBW.
Just because I'm not on the leaderboard or because I haven't had direct correspondence with you in particular doesn't mean I haven't given support. And last I checked, you're not commish of thebump. So if there are any rules to how many times someone has to post in order to get a sincere response, you certainly didn't write them.
ok but you DID get sincere responses. Lots of people told you their experiences. Including myself. You launched into calling people twats over a little snark at the beginning. and then it went downhill pretty fast. Shocking that people don't like being called twats....
PMSL!! Went to the toilet, came back to mutliple notifications..wow, where do i start.
@blonderedhead, asking a Q, and CALLING someone (whether a curse word was used or not) are completely different, go back to school!!
@FBW Don't worry, i won't be making the journey from the UK to have lunch with you, however, look me up if you ever visit the UK, i'm more than sure that would be the most fun lunch in the world...ever!
@bandteacher, QFP i get, but doing it to suck up to someone?? Did that really not make you cringe too??
Ok, I wasn't going to join in, but you're getting ridiculous. You really should put down the shovel and stop digging.
Spelling/grammar/punctuation are important for this exact reason: you said "have they fuck!!" to @blonderedhead, which to me, in context, definitely sounded like you were calling her a fuck. So get off your high horse and admit you made a mistake.
Funny how y'all talk about how this is a "community" and it's meant for "support" bla bla bla. And look at how you completely turned this thread into a fucking circus. If this is how you support your fellow March mommies, I'm thrilled I haven't been as active on this board as you guys.
To get support you have to give.
And the ones who get none are the ones who want to suck all the kindness out of FBW.
Just because I'm not on the leaderboard or because I haven't had direct correspondence with you in particular doesn't mean I haven't given support. And last I checked, you're not commish of thebump. So if there are any rules to how many times someone has to post in order to get a sincere response, you certainly didn't write them.
Your post history says otherwise. You've started 3 threads on our board previous to this, all asking questions and hoping for support. You got flamed on 2nd tri for calling someone a troll for being snarky. I still don't recognize your sn from any posts in which M14 ladies have needed support or T&P.
Cute. If you feel the need to stalk me to justify your bitchiness, go for it. I've posted in other boards before, but I don't keep a tally list next to my desk. When I have something relevant to say, I say it. I'm a FTM and I don't have much experience, so yea it's not like I'm going to have much expertise to share. In the future should I get a notarized document every time I do post just to get your approval? Again, feel free to blow me.
Funny how y'all talk about how this is a "community" and it's meant for "support" bla bla bla. And look at how you completely turned this thread into a fucking circus. If this is how you support your fellow March mommies, I'm thrilled I haven't been as active on this board as you guys.
To get support you have to give.
And the ones who get none are the ones who want to suck all the kindness out of FBW.
Just because I'm not on the leaderboard or because I haven't had direct correspondence with you in particular doesn't mean I haven't given support. And last I checked, you're not commish of thebump. So if there are any rules to how many times someone has to post in order to get a sincere response, you certainly didn't write them.
ok but you DID get sincere responses. Lots of people told you their experiences. Including myself. You launched into calling people twats over a little snark at the beginning. and then it went downhill pretty fast. Shocking that people don't like being called twats....
Correct, and I thanked those people for their sincere responses. I give what I get. Wanna be a bitch? I can play that game. Wanna play nice? I can do that too.
Funny how y'all talk about how this is a "community" and it's meant for "support" bla bla bla. And look at how you completely turned this thread into a fucking circus. If this is how you support your fellow March mommies, I'm thrilled I haven't been as active on this board as you guys.
To get support you have to give.
And the ones who get none are the ones who want to suck all the kindness out of FBW.
Just because I'm not on the leaderboard or because I haven't had direct correspondence with you in particular doesn't mean I haven't given support. And last I checked, you're not commish of thebump. So if there are any rules to how many times someone has to post in order to get a sincere response, you certainly didn't write them.
Your post history says otherwise. You've started 3 threads on our board previous to this, all asking questions and hoping for support. You got flamed on 2nd tri for calling someone a troll for being snarky. I still don't recognize your sn from any posts in which M14 ladies have needed support or T&P.
Cute. If you feel the need to stalk me to justify your bitchiness, go for it. I've posted in other boards before, but I don't keep a tally list next to my desk. When I have something relevant to say, I say it. I'm a FTM and I don't have much experience, so yea it's not like I'm going to have much expertise to share. In the future should I get a notarized document every time I do post just to get your approval? Again, feel free to blow me.
Personally, I would feel really awkward going into another BMB and starting a post asking for advice. It's like walking into a room of strangers and asking about your boobs.
And just because I feel like it...
Another bump commish, eh? Now I'm not allowed to post in the Natural Birth board? Or the Baby Names board? Or the High Risk board? Well that makes TOTAL sense. You're ridiculous.
PMSL!! Went to the toilet, came back to mutliple notifications..wow, where do i start.
@blonderedhead, asking a Q, and CALLING someone (whether a curse word was used or not) are completely different, go back to school!!
@FBW Don't worry, i won't be making the journey from the UK to have lunch with you, however, look me up if you ever visit the UK, i'm more than sure that would be the most fun lunch in the world...ever!
@bandteacher, QFP i get, but doing it to suck up to someone?? Did that really not make you cringe too??
Ok, I wasn't going to join in, but you're getting ridiculous. You really should put down the shovel and stop digging.
Spelling/grammar/punctuation are important for this exact reason: you said "have they fuck!!" to @blonderedhead, which to me, in context, definitely sounded like you were calling her a fuck. So get off your high horse and admit you made a mistake.
Geez.
Just WHAT???? Have they fuck = you are a fuck?? Seriously woman?? I'm going to make an EDUCATED guess and say maybe we have a language barrier here, so i'll stay on my high horse thank you, while YOU have a good hard think about trying to TELL someone what they actually mean, they were MY words, not yours, don't ever tell me how i mean them, i'll tell you that!
Damn internet disconnecting...
If that's your EDUCATED guess, you are less intelligent than I originally thought. I assumed, since your sentence structure makes NO sense, that you meant: "Have they, Fuck?" (Fuck being the NN you have given @blonderedhead, in case you couldn't figure that out with our "language barrier"). If that's not what you meant, please enlighten me, because I'm having a hard time thinking of the next logical possibility.
Just WHAT???? Have they fuck = you are a fuck?? Seriously woman?? I'm going to make an EDUCATED guess and say maybe we have a language barrier here, so i'll stay on my high horse thank you, while YOU have a good hard think about trying to TELL someone what they actually mean, they were MY words, not yours, don't ever tell me how i mean them, i'll tell you that!
Ok, I'll address this one. She interpreted it as "Have they, fuck?"
Thanks, my internet crapped out for a couple minutes
Another bump commish, eh? Now I'm not allowed to post in the Natural Birth board? Or the Baby Names board? Or the High Risk board? Well that makes TOTAL sense. You're ridiculous.
What?? I said BMB. Birth. Month. Board. 8-|
Exactly, and all I said was "boards." I didn't say anything about BMBs.
Just WHAT???? Have they fuck = you are a fuck?? Seriously woman?? I'm going to make an EDUCATED guess and say maybe we have a language barrier here, so i'll stay on my high horse thank you, while YOU have a good hard think about trying to TELL someone what they actually mean, they were MY words, not yours, don't ever tell me how i mean them, i'll tell you that!
Ok, I'll address this one. She interpreted it as "Have they, fuck?"
So, it's not MY grammar in the wrong then, i clearly didn't put a comma in there, and if she THOUGHT I was calling her, she should have at least checked first.
You know, i'm actually going to thank you on this one, i know the chances you were being nice for my benefit are pretty low, but still, you made a constructive observation and didn't jump on my back (i think), so thanks
You're welcome (I think). I do not agree with anything you've said, minus this last paragraph, but I was trying to clear the air a little. Although, pretty sure commas are included in my "spelling/punctuation/grammar" catch-all...
PMSL!! Went to the toilet, came back to mutliple notifications..wow, where do i start.
@blonderedhead, asking a Q, and CALLING someone (whether a curse word was used or not) are completely different, go back to school!!
@FBW Don't worry, i won't be making the journey from the UK to have lunch with you, however, look me up if you ever visit the UK, i'm more than sure that would be the most fun lunch in the world...ever!
@bandteacher, QFP i get, but doing it to suck up to someone?? Did that really not make you cringe too??
Ok, I wasn't going to join in, but you're getting ridiculous. You really should put down the shovel and stop digging.
Spelling/grammar/punctuation are important for this exact reason: you said "have they fuck!!" to @blonderedhead, which to me, in context, definitely sounded like you were calling her a fuck. So get off your high horse and admit you made a mistake.
Geez.
Just WHAT???? Have they fuck = you are a fuck?? Seriously woman?? I'm going to make an EDUCATED guess and say maybe we have a language barrier here, so i'll stay on my high horse thank you, while YOU have a good hard think about trying to TELL someone what they actually mean, they were MY words, not yours, don't ever tell me how i mean them, i'll tell you that!
Damn internet disconnecting...
If that's your EDUCATED guess, you are less intelligent than I originally thought. I assumed, since your sentence structure makes NO sense, that you meant: "Have they, Fuck?" (Fuck being the NN you have given @blonderedhead, in case you couldn't figure that out with our "language barrier"). If that's not what you meant, please enlighten me, because I'm having a hard time thinking of the next logical possibility.
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She's back pedaling because I flagged her for it. The "language barrier" is an excuse. Instead if owning up to it and apologizing, she's doing the exact same thing she did about a week ago. I'm waiting for the "I apologized and you people won't let it go" responses to start next.
Another bump commish, eh? Now I'm not allowed to post in the Natural Birth board? Or the Baby Names board? Or the High Risk board? Well that makes TOTAL sense. You're ridiculous.
We don't have beef with you posting anywhere.
We do have beef with you posting a VERY google-able question, getting actual responses, and then getting all huffy when some of us start laying on the snark.
If you were on this board for any amount of time before today, you'd see that there was somewhere to post this without getting snark (Dumb Questions thread, for one) or you'd know that you shouldn't have posted your very google-able question in the first place.
edited to trim the freaking long quote tree
Again...ANY question posted anywhere on this website can be googled. So please don't act like you or any of the other miserable bitches posting their hate on here have ultimate control of what questions can and cannot be posted.
Yeah, I generally try to avoid cursing and have definitely never heard "have they fuck"...unless you mean "have they fucked?"...which I may actually have never heard IRL either now that I think about it.
And thanks, that's the first time anyone's ever SERIOUSLY called me a dumbass, since usually I'm the one editing their papers and whatnot
Another bump commish, eh? Now I'm not allowed to post in the Natural Birth board? Or the Baby Names board? Or the High Risk board? Well that makes TOTAL sense. You're ridiculous.
What?? I said BMB. Birth. Month. Board. 8-|
Exactly, and all I said was "boards." I didn't say anything about BMBs.
Another bump commish, eh? Now I'm not allowed to post in the Natural Birth board? Or the Baby Names board? Or the High Risk board? Well that makes TOTAL sense. You're ridiculous.
What?? I said BMB. Birth. Month. Board. 8-|
Exactly, and all I said was "boards." I didn't say anything about BMBs.
You don't get it. You've been active on F14, not this one, as far as I've heard. Hence, the snark.
Yea, and there was a perfectly legitimate reason for me posting in the Feb board. And you clearly don't get it. The point of me saying I've posted in other boards before was because you jags feel like attacking me because I don't "support" other posters. And yes the fuck I do. But I post in more than one board. I post where it's relevant. Not just a fucking month club.
Really, you've never heard ANYONE say have they hell/fuck etc?? Pull the other one love!
I put NO COMMA in there, don't proceed to tell me what i meant, then try to tell me I'M the less intelligent one for saying EXACTLY what they meant. Have you ever asked anyone a q in your life or do you just get off on being a judgmental dumbass??
Also, I'm only OK with my BFF calling me "love" and that's just because she does it with everyone. I don't know you, don't call me "love."
So, shellsbells is waaaaay better than those of us that have no lives and find entertainment by posting on this BMB. And that we are terrible/stupid people by focusing on the snark, "belittling" people, and refusing to change.
So she proves it by spending time by posting on this BMB, by being condescending and calling names, focusing on how much this place sucks and attempting to be clever in her insistence that this is all beneath her and that it's just entertainment so she refuses to change. Over and over and over.
But it's pathetic when we do it. She's "dignified," y'all.
Re: Boob question
The 'calm your tits' meme - favorite meme of all time.
Isn't she doing the same thing? Taking over a post?
Oh & @bandteacher we always can use more jensen!
Do some reading, do you REALLY think people didn't try to berate and belittle me? Seriously, stop being so closed minded, you know your "bump friends" can't actually harm you for maybe noticing they're not gods?
Also, like i said in my "rant" people haven't just jumped on me in this thread...for liking someone's post, they've tried it in others when i wasn't even talking to them, but for some reason, they just can't leave me alone.
Really, open your mind just a crack, stop being so blinded by your own ignorance and stupidity. I'm not saying i'm always right, but honey, don't think for a second i'll let you post as if you are either
QFP.
So @FBW can't get mad =]
So she proves it by spending time by posting on this BMB, by being condescending and calling names, focusing on how much this place sucks and attempting to be clever in her insistence that this is all beneath her and that it's just entertainment so she refuses to change. Over and over and over.
But it's pathetic when we do it. She's "dignified," y'all.