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One & Done: Only child
OhBenji?
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Re: OhBenji?
Was she deactivated by MODs or did she do it on her own?
I hope she comes back, too. We all like our little O&D bump family and she is a part of it
I *very* rarely get involved in drama on TB but damn... that statement is ridiculous.
As someone else said, no one has provided proof anyway. It looks a lot like a few people just decided it was true. Ohbenji was an awesome member of our board that, thanks to your board, is no longer here. So no, we don't care about your accusations, and frankly we wish you would stop posting about it.
Cool.
I would appreciate it if the parenting board would kindly either step back to parenting, or start a post to introduce yourselves. We welcome all, and we take pride in being a drama free board.
We don't know what happened on your board and we never cared to know. We don't even know who you all are. The point of this thread was to say we are sad ohbenji has disappeared. It was not started in defense or backlash. We understand that you must be upset, but you guys are doing nothing for yourselves coming over here in this manner.
Please just let it go. She's gone. We wish she wasn't, but she is.
Mabel, for reasons that are still unclear, you created a call out thread declaring benji the troll. Then, your fellow parenting friends came over to our board and began spamming benji. And now, benji has deactivated. Maybe you see that as proof; we see it as a witch hunt.
So no, we don't care what else you have to say. Your comments, your "concern," are not welcome here. You are wasting your breath.
If you want to stay and join us, that's fine. Do an intro, check out past threads, enjoy our puppies and rainbows if that's what you want to call it. Don't come here to "help us see the light." We're not crashing your board about this; please give us the same respect.
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