Been obsessively searching for a first wrap. Obsessively. My husband thinks I'm nuts

Anyhow... Any experience with this wrap as a first wrap? J is also pretty heavy, definitely over 20lbs.
Its $ 145 new (4.6m) Been watching the swap like a hawk and haven't found a much better deal on any others (didy or other)
It's definitely out of my budget (as H put it...any wrap is currently out of the budget) but I really don't want to get a wrap that I dont like and ruin it. And I really need to get my monies worth in using it.
Any thoughts? Tia!
Eta:
Thoughts on a Girasol Pacifico Woven Wrap?
This is so hard!!