Not how I wanted to do this (BFP/Possible Loss/Progesterone questions/Sorry it's a big mess)

divinemsbee

Month: 14/14 CD/DPO: 35/16 (tested on Monday) EDD: 10/1 (I am not optimistic) What we did: CBE Advanced OPK, Timing: O-4,-3,-2, O Symptoms: I'm exhausted. Like nappy for hours and going to bed early. Lots of creamy/eggwhite discharge. How I told H: He knew I was testing Monday, and knew I'd call my doctor if it was positive. So we were texting later that morning and I said, btw, it was positive, called the doctor (romantical, I know). Mushy stuff: I love this board so much. I would not have made it through the past 14 months, the past 7 in particular, without the support I've found here. Really. You are the greatest. But I might not be leaving, so I'm trying not to get to hopeful. I'm so scared, and I'm so grateful to be part of this community. The non-Mushy, I need advice stuff: So, my first beta was 29. Not great. That was Tuesday, which puts me around 4w6d, and/or 16DPO. I know the doubling matters more than the numbers, and the numbers are in the realm of normal, but I'm not excited. I go in again tomorrow. My doctor hasn't checked my progesterone yet, which I feel is kind of a fail. Apparently, my progesterone was never checked during my other 2 m/cs, and I'm not sure why. I feel like just knowing that number would be better, so I left my doc a message today that I'd like a progesterone check with the next beta. I don't want to be pushy, but if I'm losing pregnancies or not able to support them over a pill or suppository, I'm going to be pissed. Everyone I've talked to IRL is surprised that given my history my doctor didn't write a scrip that I could start taking with a BFP. Am I right? Is this something that should be checked? I get pregnant, I've been pregnant every 4 months since June, but I feel like the staying pregnant thing is what needs to be worked on. Sorry this is a mess. I switched to Firefox, but TB still hates me. Many cookies and drinks to anyone who makes it through.

Pintobean39

Congrats. I'm keeping my FX for you and I hope this is your sticky baby. I wouldn't focus to much on Betas right now, 1 number doesn't mean anything.

Belou52579

I'm hoping those numbers increase so dramatically that you think you are having quadrapaloozatuplets.

Keep us updated on the testing and the request for progesterone check. We're here for you if you need to vent!!

sister13

Congratulations, but I realize your stress and concern! I really hope this one sticks, good luck with the doctor!

ngolimento

Good vibes coming your way for a sticky baby! I'd ask for the progesterone test too in your shoes.

catmagick

Congratulations Bee!  I really truly hope this is your rainbow baby.  I'm so sorry you are in this situation and can't enjoy this time.  Big hugs!

RayRay007

Congrats on the bfp! 
A beta hcg of 29 at 16 dpo is perfectly normal. Don't work yourself up over it until you get the next number. You have no spotting (that you mentioned) or any other cause to be concerned. 

As for progesterone, is there any reason you suspect that is the problem? Do you have short LPs and/or lots of spotting before AF? If you have normal LPs, your progesterone is likely normal. But it doesn't hurt to ask for it. ETA: I changed my mind, with two early-ish losses I think it is an easy thing to either rule out or treat. 

Please make sure to update us! 

SCSmith2011

Congrats!  I hope this is your take home baby.

I agree with what others have said. I'd definifely push for the progesterone test. Good luck!

divinemsbee

Thanks so much guys! I hadn't gotten teary before I posted, but now I'm a little misty-eyed (in a wonderful, I'm being supported way). I'm trying to relax, but the whole lots of CM thing is kind of terrifying because I keep waiting for spotting, so I'm going to the bathroom every 5 minutes. I can't call my doc directly, but I did leave a message in pretty strong (not impolite, just adamant) wording that I really feel like I need a progesterone level so that I/we can know what we're dealing with. It's also a stressful day because H's big PT test is happening right now. He'll do great, he always does, but he's been stressed all week. Blerg. I get my blood draw at 9am tomorrow.

TeeJ526

Congrats bee! I hope this baby sticks!

Danielle0311

I just wanted to say congratulations and that I hope your betas go well!

KrissyLeighN

Congratulations!! I really hope this little bean clings on so hard to your uterus and your metaphorical financial teet for the next eighteen years.. keep us posted. Im gonna drink several glasses of alcohol in your honor tonight because im hoping and praying that you can't for the next nine months. Fx.. And :::hugs:::

musicalmommy3

T&P to you...  Congrats, I hope everything goes well!!!

Irishcurls

DMB I got a little rapid-heartbeaty when I saw this post.....hoping like hell this little B sticks, and GL to huz!!!

My only anecdotal (therefore not helpful) advice about the progesterone is I DO know one friend who had 2 losses before they tested her and it was "as easy as" taking supplements to keep the next pregnancy. Regardless of what anyone says, getting it tested is well within the scope of normal and your doc should do it! FX for you!

edited words are hard for me.

mander82

Congrats and FX for a super sticky, bring home baby !!!  

jcsumm0

Congratulations!!!  I'm so sorry you are stressed out about this and I think you are totally right to advocate for yourself in that way.

I've got everything crossed for doubling betas and a beautiful, sticky baby!

raelynn71109

Congrats! FX for a sticky baby!

mockingjay1

Congratulations! FX for you that this is your sticky baby.

hullabalou

Congrats! I hope this is your sticky baby!!!

wishiwaspreggo

1) CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!  FX this one sticks around!!!

2) Really surprised about the progesterone.  I technically could sustain a pregnancy but it would be iffy for me since my levels are borderline low.  I'm given a progesterone suppository to start the day after my IUI to build up higher levels in case I get a BFP, and then I'd have to take it until I was 12 weeks along and the placenta took over.  I'd push for a test, definitely.  If only for peace of mind, you know?

Keep us posted!!  Really hoping this is it for you!!!

rlyttle

Congrats! I'm sorry this is stressing you out. Don't feel like you are being pushy. Sometimes you have to take charge and not take a back seat with doctors. Yes they should check your progesterone. Hopefully your next set up betas come back awesome!! GL!!

beckynsean11

Congrats & FX so hard that this is your rainbow! Given your history, I would definitely push to have your progesterone tested. If that number is low, suppositories are a very easy fix. 

missnacholover

Congrats!  Sending positive vibes that everything works out!

nswain85

Congratulations and lots of good wishes for a healthy pregnancy! I don't know too much about the testing and such but like the other girls have said, don't be afarid to tell them what you want and are comfortable with. You probably wont regreat asking but may if you don't so just go for it

lebradford

Congratulations! I would definitely at least push for some information about the progesterone. Don't ever feel bad for advocating for yourself. I really, really hope everything goes well for you. Please come back and let us know how everything is going. I'll have my fingers crossed for you. 

amberhoothoot

Congrats on your positive test!
I don't know much but I've read a lot not to be upset by your first HCG number since the second number/doubling is the important part.
I definitely think you have a right to ask for the progesterone.
Good luck... fingers crossed so hard for you.

peggels24

Congratulations!  T&P's heading your way.

bluehenjen27

Congrats and FX that this is your sticky baby!

AppleGrapeMSTK

Stick, baby, stick!

Please come back to update us before running off to 1st tri, mmkay?

FemShep

Congrats, Bee! Thinking great thoughts and FX for you!

irisheyes317

Congrats!! I wish I knew the answers to your questions, but I have my fingers crossed that everything goes well! 

littleboyermoose

Congratulations to you! My fingers are crossed!

Lizbeth2462

Congratulations and FX for you!!! Think positive! 

TJD12

Congrats and thoughts and prayers for a healthy/sticky baby!

dr_pr

Congratulations, and FX for a sticky baby.  FWIW, I think you're doing the right thing asking for progesterone levels too.

bwo

Congrats, and I hope everything turns out just fine!

Hegi627

Everyone has already given you all the answers I would be able to, but I just wanted to say congratulations! You will be in my thoughts and prayers until you update us and then through the next 9 months.

themrsJRD

Congrats!! Fx for a strong beta in the am!!!

divinemsbee

Small update: So I left my doctor the message asking about the progesterone test this morning. Normally she calls back by 5. I can't call her directly, but I call the answering service, she hasn't called back. So, I don't know if she ordered the progesterone test for tomorrow. When I go to the lab I'm going to ask if it was ordered and maybe say it should have been if it wasn't. If they don't run it I'm going to call my doc and leave another message. I've mentioned progesterone to her a couple of times (once before we started testing and were talking about losses and once when I went before I got some preliminary bloodwork). I honestly don't know why she'd fight me on testing it or starting supplements because it seems like the easiest thing to do. I'm going to go nuts not knowing. I'd really love it if she would have gone ahead and called in the prescription and I could pick it up while I'm at the hospital tomorrow anyway.

BlackBooks

Praying for a sticky baby for you, MissBee! Please get your progesterone tested! Hugs and cookies back at you!

Twinkie0612

LindsRockies said:

First of all, CONGRATS!!

Second, I think you have valid concerns.  I don't think asking for a progesterone test is out of the question.  And if it turns out there is an issue with that, it's something that is a *relatively* easy fix.  I also think it's a little surprising your doc hasn't addressed this already given your history of loss.

So happy for you, and I hope this gets worked out!

I agree with this. 

Congrats and I hope that this is your take home baby!