My MIL is already over bearing and picky and opinionated, this year for Christmas she does not want to see FIL at all. Fine.... FIL is coming to our place Christmas eve, Christmas day we will spend the morning as a family (unwrapping Santa gifts and cozy breakfast in PJ's) and head to spend Christmas with my family (about an hour drive). We've asked MIL what she wanted to do. She wants us to come to her house Christmas morning.... Maybe I'm hormonal and pregnant but I am just not interested in spending Christmas morning with her. She also has this weird boyfriend who lives with her that is obsessed with DS. He got DS 30 Christmas presents! He wants to be DS's favorite or something. He DRIVES ME CRAZY!! He only has Christmas day off. So I think she wants us to go out of our way to make him happy. I've offered Thursday evening, it would be much less rushed that way but she complains about how she will spend Christmas all by herself (not true, boyfriend is off Christmas). My next thought is telling her she is welcome to our home Christmas morning. If she wants to see us that badly she should be willing to come to us. Last thing, she will talk to DH about the plans and agree with what he says, but then she will wait till she has me alone and beg for what she really wants and give me the guilt trip. I am sorry if this sounds ridiculous but I just need to rant. She's been really pushing my buttons lately.