I know I'm a small woman and I probably do look a lil funny with a waddle and a basketball belly but dang can't I get a smile with your stare as you walk past me???
Who is this question for? I don't smile at random people. That's creepy. Also, was the photo necessary? I feel like you could have used your words to express your thoughts without a photo. We don't randomly show off our bellies here, we do it on Wednesdays so we don't have 8362849307 "look at my belly" posts.
Alright well since every pregnant woman on here is hormonal, I can't express anything without getting an inconsiderate comment. So no worries I'm deleting the bump and keeping my own experiences and comments to myself. Maybe you can learn to do the same. Guess the whole "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" concept never got through to you ladies. And yes I did quit smoking. Thanks for the support. Yes I know the comments weren't "mean" or "rude" or whatever in that sense but congrats. One less mother on the bump for you ladies.
Alright well since every pregnant woman on here is hormonal, I can't express anything without getting an inconsiderate comment. So no worries I'm deleting the bump and keeping my own experiences and comments to myself. Maybe you can learn to do the same. Guess the whole "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" concept never got through to you ladies. And yes I did quit smoking. Thanks for the support. Yes I know the comments weren't "mean" or "rude" or whatever in that sense but congrats. One less mother on the bump for you ladies.
Alright well since every pregnant woman on here is hormonal, I can't express anything without getting an inconsiderate comment. So no worries I'm deleting the bump and keeping my own experiences and comments to myself. Maybe you can learn to do the same. Guess the whole "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" concept never got through to you ladies. And yes I did quit smoking. Thanks for the support. Yes I know the comments weren't "mean" or "rude" or whatever in that sense but congrats. One less mother on the bump for you ladies.
1. I'm not feeling "hormonal" but the people who throw the word around like that usually are. 2. Perhaps you would get a "considerate comment" if you participated in things other than just your own threads. 3. No one is making you stay on the bump. No one is making me stay on the bump. I genuinely like it here. 4. You might want to take your own advice about saying nice things. All I've ever seen you do here is complain. Never support other women, or take a genuine interest in getting to know people... Just complain about your life. 5. I'm glad you quit smoking. 6. Bye girl!
I just spent a really long time to see if I could spot a dildo (or something equally embarrassing) in the photo background. Should that go in the FFFC?
I just spent a really long time to see if I could spot a dildo (or something equally embarrassing) in the photo background. Should that go in the FFFC?
I feel bad about the only thing I cared about in this picture was the extremely messy room and unmade beds...oh and the dog butt lol
P.s. I have a small case of OCD I suppose? oh well..I never smile at strangers besides the cute old ladies who smile at me!
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Alright well since every pregnant woman on here is hormonal, I can't express anything without getting an inconsiderate comment. So no worries I'm deleting the bump and keeping my own experiences and comments to myself. Maybe you can learn to do the same. Guess the whole "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" concept never got through to you ladies. And yes I did quit smoking. Thanks for the support. Yes I know the comments weren't "mean" or "rude" or whatever in that sense but congrats. One less mother on the bump for you ladies.
Omg, you guise, she is deleting The Bump apparently.
The whole site?!?! She has that kind of power? She truly is a Bump God.
@bond007army that's so strange because I am way smaller than you and I get tons of smiles. maybe it's because I haven't gained much weight at all. I mean I have a basketball belly but I was really small before too so that's probably why so many people smile at me and why I can feel my baby move so much. because, yanno, I'm so small.
Oh, you get stared at because your SO small and have a basketball belly.... Forgive me, but I have no damn clue what the point was of this thread in the first case? I guess I should post a thread about how I get stared at because I'm over weight, and carrying a secret watermelon under my shirt.
My palm just met my forehead. Didn't we all just talk about this is another thread?
Edited to add, if a stranger stared and smiled at me I would consider him/her a freaking creeper, and walk away without hesitation lol!
Not to be the voice of dissent or to cause unnecessary drama, but I kind of feel bad. It seems like she was just venting about the fact that strangers stare at her while she is pregnant and that this conversation spiraled out of control. That said, I don't see the picture people are referencing so maybe I don't know the whole story. Additionally, the OP wasn't that articulate. I worry sometimes that we don't fully understand what one another is trying to communicate on this board and that the miscommunications devolve into snark. I'm not blaming anyone or trying to stir anything up, I am just kind of confused.
EDIT: Ok after re-reading the thread there was obviously a photo that I am not seeing that is perhaps causing the controversy. Again, I am not trying to stir anything up....just confused
Not to be the voice of dissent or to cause unnecessary drama, but I kind of feel bad. It seems like she was just venting about the fact that strangers stare at her while she is pregnant and that this conversation spiraled out of control. That said, I don't see the picture people are referencing so maybe I don't know the whole story. Additionally, the OP wasn't that articulate. I worry sometimes that we don't fully understand what one another is trying to communicate on this board and that the miscommunications devolve into snark. I'm not blaming anyone or trying to stir anything up, I am just kind of confused.
EDIT: Ok after re-reading the thread there was obviously a photo that I am not seeing that is perhaps causing the controversy. Again, I am not trying to stir anything up....just confused
Every time she's posted in the past it has been some sort of complaint.
When everyone isn't one hundre percent supportive (like we agreed with her doc and thought she shouldn't smoke while pregnant), she starts huig insults.
And, as was said earlier, she does all this without every offering support to anyone else.
Not to be the voice of dissent or to cause unnecessary drama, but I kind of feel bad. It seems like she was just venting about the fact that strangers stare at her while she is pregnant and that this conversation spiraled out of control. That said, I don't see the picture people are referencing so maybe I don't know the whole story. Additionally, the OP wasn't that articulate. I worry sometimes that we don't fully understand what one another is trying to communicate on this board and that the miscommunications devolve into snark. I'm not blaming anyone or trying to stir anything up, I am just kind of confused.
EDIT: Ok after re-reading the thread there was obviously a photo that I am not seeing that is perhaps causing the controversy. Again, I am not trying to stir anything up....just confused
Every time she's posted in the past it has been some sort of complaint.
When everyone isn't one hundre percent supportive (like we agreed with her doc and thought she shouldn't smoke while pregnant), she starts huig insults.
And, as was said earlier, she does all this without every offering support to anyone else.
Oh well, then it seems that I don't know the whole background.
ETA: Ladies, we really need to start Quoting these posts to keep the whole thing in tact. I'm a bit sad when I hear about a totally incriminating photo that has been DD'd.
“Some people live more in 20 years than others do in 80. It’s not the time that matters, it’s the person.” — The Doctor, Season 3, Episode 6
Man...I missed it all of this today b/c of a hectic work day. And I can't see the picture, damn. I'm exhausted, but now thoroughly entertained...in a way that only a girl that is not super tiny miniature small and occasionally is smiled at if I'm also smiling could be.
Okay guise I know it's my much but I totes took a screenshot of the OP with the picture. It'll be tiny, but here it is!
@ziggy903 that pic is sooooo SMALL.. I keep staring at it because its so tiny and all I see is a hot mess. Maybe I would smile if the pic wasnt so super SMALL!
Who are these people I've never heard of who "love" the OP and jpoinda's dissent?
Danger, Will Robinson.
1. I really wasn't trying to write a "dissent." I said that I didn't understand what was happening and suggested that it was a miscommunication. Someone told me that I didn't know the entire history. I agreed and said that maybe I misunderstood.
2. Only one person "loved" what I said.
3. I'm really not trying to start controversy. I was just confused.
Not to be the voice of dissent or to cause unnecessary drama, but I kind of feel bad. It seems like she was just venting about the fact that strangers stare at her while she is pregnant and that this conversation spiraled out of control. That said, I don't see the picture people are referencing so maybe I don't know the whole story. Additionally, the OP wasn't that articulate. I worry sometimes that we don't fully understand what one another is trying to communicate on this board and that the miscommunications devolve into snark. I'm not blaming anyone or trying to stir anything up, I am just kind of confused.
EDIT: Ok after re-reading the thread there was obviously a photo that I am not seeing that is perhaps causing the controversy. Again, I am not trying to stir anything up....just confused
Every time she's posted in the past it has been some sort of complaint.
When everyone isn't one hundre percent supportive (like we agreed with her doc and thought she shouldn't smoke while pregnant), she starts huig insults.
And, as was said earlier, she does all this without every offering support to anyone else.
Oh well, then it seems that I don't know the whole background.
There's a shock.
Not sure what you are driving at. I think that my response was very measured and nice. Is there something that bothers you about the way I'm posting? That's a serious question: I'm really not trying to be snarky.
Strong work, ladies. I caught this last night and backed away so I wouldn't be accused of 'stalking her', but my first thought was either that she smells like cigarettes or it's the RBF turning people off.
Or maybe she's just as unlikeable walking around in public as she has been here.
NAH. It must be that she's such a small person with a basketball belly, and that's why people don't smile at her. That makes perfect sense!
SO SMALL! JUST SO SMALL!
@car seat, I was just reading this for the giggles until you threw out RBF! Love it!
Re: FTM & stares
Also, was the photo necessary? I feel like you could have used your words to express your thoughts without a photo. We don't randomly show off our bellies here, we do it on Wednesdays so we don't have 8362849307 "look at my belly" posts.
@Bond007army
What were you expecting from a post like this? What goal were you hoping to accomplish by it?
And not because I'm a hormonal pregnant lady, but just because I don't like you.
2. Perhaps you would get a "considerate comment" if you participated in things other than just your own threads.
3. No one is making you stay on the bump. No one is making me stay on the bump. I genuinely like it here.
4. You might want to take your own advice about saying nice things. All I've ever seen you do here is complain. Never support other women, or take a genuine interest in getting to know people... Just complain about your life.
5. I'm glad you quit smoking.
6. Bye girl!
Should that go in the FFFC?
Guilty as well.
The whole site?!?! She has that kind of power? She truly is a Bump God.
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BFP #3 10.7.12 m/c 10.27.12
BFP #4 2.24.13 ectopic MTX 3.13.13 Right tube removed 3.29.13
BFP #5 5.27.13 DS born 1.22.14
BFP #6 4.14.16
Nevermind. Don't even care.
My palm just met my forehead. Didn't we all just talk about this is another thread?
Edited to add, if a stranger stared and smiled at me I would consider him/her a freaking creeper, and walk away without hesitation lol!
Not to be the voice of dissent or to cause unnecessary drama, but I kind of feel bad. It seems like she was just venting about the fact that strangers stare at her while she is pregnant and that this conversation spiraled out of control. That said, I don't see the picture people are referencing so maybe I don't know the whole story. Additionally, the OP wasn't that articulate. I worry sometimes that we don't fully understand what one another is trying to communicate on this board and that the miscommunications devolve into snark. I'm not blaming anyone or trying to stir anything up, I am just kind of confused.
EDIT: Ok after re-reading the thread there was obviously a photo that I am not seeing that is perhaps causing the controversy. Again, I am not trying to stir anything up....just confused
Every time she's posted in the past it has been some sort of complaint.
When everyone isn't one hundre percent supportive (like we agreed with her doc and thought she shouldn't smoke while pregnant), she starts huig insults.
And, as was said earlier, she does all this without every offering support to anyone else.
— The Doctor, Season 3, Episode 6
1. I really wasn't trying to write a "dissent." I said that I didn't understand what was happening and suggested that it was a miscommunication. Someone told me that I didn't know the entire history. I agreed and said that maybe I misunderstood.
2. Only one person "loved" what I said.
3. I'm really not trying to start controversy. I was just confused.
*sassy hair flip*
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