July 2013 Moms

UO

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  • etoille said: +1
    Did you +1 me because tl;dr?

    :)
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  • @mamasighs
    He doesn't want to quit and doesn't complain,  as I said. I'm the one who doesn't like it and do not think it's fair.
    Obviously I think if you don't like your job you should quit and do what you want. But I also do seriously think that those who are expected to educate my child for 12 years are grossly underpaid for what they do.

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  • etoille said:




    etoille said:
    +1

    Did you +1 me because tl;dr?

    :)

    Everyones got jokes today it seems.

    It was either that or be creepily delighted like a stalker for getting a +1 from someone who's posts I always love!
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  • I had to take out 100% of loans- for 3 1/2 years it cost me 70k for a business degree.  My parents couldn't afford to help and they 'made too much money' to get financial aid- even tho they didn't have the money.  Do I regret it- sometimes bc I pay 400/mo until I'm 50 years old & that's more than our mortgage and I make 24k/year (which is average for banking in my area)  The job I have I got pd more bc of my degree- but I make shit. 

    So I go back and forth but DH told me if I didn't have that student loan debt I could be a SAHM.  At 18 tho- I had no clue what I was doing and no one sat me down and explained the interest on the money would be crazy.  I think ppl shouldn't go to college until they are like 23.  I made a lot of dumb decisions and had no idea what I wanted to do. 

     

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  • Clyde013 said:
    I'm with @mamasighs on teachers pay. I know several teachers that make 90k teaching elementary school for 10 months per year(with masters degrees). Granted this pay is in an affluent tri-state area school district where the cost of living is also very high but 90k ain't too shabby. I will say though that I think teaching is one of the hardest and most important jobs out there so in that sense they are underpaid.
    You guys clearly have affluent districts around you because there is no 90,000 going on in the districts I'm familiar with. The small amount of people earning that have a ton of higher education and have worked for over 20 years.

    This is my reaction to people who think teachers gets paid what the deserve. 


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    But, but...you get so many days off!? Unfortunately, you'll never win that debate. When I started teaching I was paying a loan of some sorts. I was hired mid-year. I made $800 after the loan. Yeah. There's no $90k around here, either. I'm looking for a job for next year and I'm amazed because the raise will be $10 over what I was making at the rural district I worked at. It's also a 45 minute drive both ways. Ugh.
  • My UO is that UO shouldn't start until mid-day so my opinions will matter. I'm always way too late to the game. Boooooooo :(
  • Hiding behind the word "opinion" is bogus. If your opinion isn't based in fact I don't have to take it seriously or leave you alone just because it's your opinion. If your opinion is racist/sexist/homophobic/etc. that's the same deal.
    Example 1:
    "I think vaccines cause autism."
    "That's not legitimate."
    "Well, it's just my opinion."
    "Well it's an illogical opinion."
    Example 2:
    "I think gay people are going to hell."
    "That's homophobic."
    "Well it's just my opinion."
    "Well you are an asshat. Goodbye."

    People are quick to say "everyone is allowed their own opinion" but you gotta remember that not all opinions are equally valid. It's like people use the word opinion as a defense and suddenly you aren't allowed to argue with them even though they've told you something totally absurd, like that a race of space aliens has taken over most of Congress.

    @maryannespier--totally agree. A wise man I once knew would always say "everyone is entitled to their opinion, but we are not entitled to our own facts." Pretty much sums it up!
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  • @maryannespier ...how about columbine? Duh. Or the kid in my 7th period class who wrote a "fiction" short story about how he was going to kill everyone in his 7th period English class. And they gave him...no punishment. 8-}
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  • I dunno.. there are a lot of jobs that don't get paid appropriately, at least not based on importance to society.
    I'm not sure what goes into determining teachers' salary.. is it just based on how much income the state gets from taxpayers??.... @etoille?  For some reason I just assume you know everything.. ;)
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  • I dunno.. there are a lot of jobs that don't get paid appropriately, at least not based on importance to society.
    I'm not sure what goes into determining teachers' salary.. is it just based on how much income the state gets from taxpayers??.... @etoille?  For some reason I just assume you know everything.. ;)
    Often local property taxes go towards funding schools, which is why teachers in Bucks County (or Westchester or insert rich county here) get paid more than teachers in poorer towns/counties.
    Oh, I forgot.. you know lots of fun facts too!

    That seems like a bad set up.. It seems like poorer areas should have more funding and therefore (we hope) better education so that *maybe* the kids will be more likely to succeed??  

    I feel like I complete idiot saying that last thing because it sounds really duh.. but... really.  It doesn't make sense!! I've never really thought of it in terms of tax dollars and lower income = lower tax = possibly lower quality education (not necessarily low-quality b/c of teachers.. but lack of resources in general).  Merp.

    Please excuse my ignorance.  ;)
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  • ljs4117 said:

    I dunno.. there are a lot of jobs that don't get paid appropriately, at least not based on importance to society.
    I'm not sure what goes into determining teachers' salary.. is it just based on how much income the state gets from taxpayers??.... @etoille?  For some
    reason I just assume you know everything.. ;)

    I'd venture to guess its a mix of income/school budget, what other teachers make in nearby districts and what the union has negotiated. I'd bet the union is the most powerful factor of the three.
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  • Stina2012Stina2012 member
    edited December 2013
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  • Stina2012Stina2012 member
    edited December 2013
    ljs4117 said:



    ljs4117 said:

    I dunno.. there are a lot of jobs that don't get paid appropriately, at least not based on importance to society.
    I'm not sure what goes into determining teachers' salary.. is it just based on how much income the state gets from taxpayers??.... @etoille?  For some reason I just assume you know everything.. ;)

    Often local property taxes go towards funding schools, which is why teachers in Bucks County (or Westchester or insert rich county here) get paid more than teachers in poorer towns/counties.

    Oh, I forgot.. you know lots of fun facts too!

    That seems like a bad set up.. It seems like poorer areas should have more funding and therefore (we hope) better education so that *maybe* the kids will be more likely to succeed??  

    I feel like I complete idiot saying that last thing because it sounds really duh.. but... really.  It doesn't make sense!! I've never really thought of it in terms of tax dollars and lower income = lower tax = possibly lower quality education (not necessarily low-quality b/c of teachers.. but lack of resources in general).  Merp.

    Please excuse my ignorance.  ;)
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    Ummm yeah, there's a reason poverty is a cycle.

    I'm kind of stoked you had this epiphany today! Life is not fair, at all. Yes well to do people work hard for what they have but where you come from very much factors into where you end up in life.

    Unless you are little orphan Annie. ;)
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  • Stina2012Stina2012 member
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  • @lizabethann06 I think you do deserve 85000 for that. I don't like my salary because I'm way below the average starting teachers salary and I'm in my fifth year. I hate how saturated the market is. I love my job but I would like a public school wage. I am essentially a full time math teacher who also has to do ieps for every one of my caseload from start to finish. Meanwhile I have to contribute and keep data for every one of my math students.
  • Stina2012 said:
    I dunno.. there are a lot of jobs that don't get paid appropriately, at least not based on importance to society.
    I'm not sure what goes into determining teachers' salary.. is it just based on how much income the state gets from taxpayers??.... @etoille?  For some reason I just assume you know everything.. ;)
    I'd venture to guess its a mix of income/school budget, what other teachers make in nearby districts and what the union has negotiated. I'd bet the union is the most powerful factor of the three.

    The union's power depends upon what state you work in. I teach in FL and our union has practically zero power. Typically in FL the poorer districts pay better - mainly because those populations tend to be mor difficult to work with and therefore the districts need to create incentives for teachers. My problem with teaching is not the base pay, which in my state is typical of any college grad. My problem is the lack of job security and the lack of raises in pay. FL teachers do not have tenure and therefore you never know if you are going to have a job next year. So no teacher will be in any way resistant to the demands of admin for fear of nonrenewal. Additionally, as PP mentioned there is no kind of discrimination in terms of raises - I can bust my ass at work but in the end the teacher playing movies will get the same raise as me.... That is assuming we get one. Oh, and I should add that our raises are a whopping one percent - not even enough to keep up with typical cost of living three percent increases. As far as education majors being easy.... They certainly seem to have obtained that reputation, however, I can't speak to that as I never majored in education. Many teachers in fact do not major in education and Pursue very challenging degrees. I have a terminal Master's degree. But again, the system doesn't distinguish value in this - we are not regarded as specialists in any field outside of our endorsement... It doesn't matter what my expertise is in, only that I teach in my endorsed subject.
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  • I think it's funny how blown up the teachers' pay thing has gotten... no one, let me repeat that NO one said that teachers are over paid.

    A TEACHER said that she thought the pay "wasn't that bad" and then the shit show began. I am the only college graduate in my family who isn't a teacher. Both of my grandparents were and they retired millionaires and guess what... they worked in one of the poorest districts in the state.

    Are their underpaid teachers? Sure. My sister works in Marion SC. Dangerous is an understatement. So she's leaving. She brings home 20k after taxes and insurance.

    Apparently, saying that someone's pay isn't too shabby, means they are overpaid, do not deserve it, have an easy job, etc. amazing.
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    Stina2012 said:

    Listen , you can't have your cake and eat it too no matter what job. I make great money. I could make 20% more money with one phone call to another consulting firm. What I do is white hot, I'm credentialed and darn good at my job. But I don't want to travel M-Th so I'll never max out what I could make. I'd like to make that additional 20% but given that I don't want to work in those circumstances it won't happen.

    That's life.




    It must be great to make great money and not be maxing out. And I'm not saying that sarcastically, I really mean that. But I teach all day, take no lunch to teach an extra block, tutor after school and bartender on the weekends and during summer. I am entirely maxed out and still do not make great money. I am a great teacher, I believe I deserve just as much professional respect as a business professional, lawyer, etc.... But often this doesn't happen because the public view of teaching standards is so poor. This isn't really an issue of having my cake and eating it too... This is an issue of reasons mentioned in my prior post... The pay is an issue of viability, not luxury.

    I make more money tending bar than I do teaching - that seems inherently wrong to me. I also suffer less abuse as a bartender and seem to receive more respect, which I also find amazing.
    I will say money and respect are not the same thing. I respect teachers a ton, a ton. My Moms a preschool teacher. But what I'm fumbling to say is that we don't all get paid what we deserve, we get paid what we accept.

    Ehhh, I am probably bungling up my opinion. But I do respect teachers and wish the good ones got paid more. I just get annoyed when people say what they should get paid and that they deserve to get paid more. The world just does not work like that!
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  • Stina2012 said:

    You know who REALLY doesn't get paid enough relative to the work they do? Day care providers. My aunt was the lead teacher in a day care classroom and made $11 an hour. Fuuuuuck that.

    Can you imagine taking care of 4 nap ninjas at once?
    Now that's pure insanity AND to make it worse, they don't get summers off!! My ex bf mom worked at a daycare for $8/hour. Wtf?
  • Stina2012 said:
    You know who REALLY doesn't get paid enough relative to the work they do? Day care providers. My aunt was the lead teacher in a day care classroom and made $11 an hour. Fuuuuuck that.
    Can you imagine taking care of 4 nap ninjas at once?

    Ummmm, no!
  • Laurendag said:
    Yup, add me to team @mamasighs and @clyde013. Teacher pay in my area is not terrible either. My friends are not teaching in inner city schools where they are in danger on the daily, they get SICK medical benefits, and they get summers off. Before you tell me that "no, they don't get summers off", yes, they do...they opt to tutor or pick up a side job in the summer, they are not forced to, and most of my friends don't. Will you become rich on teacher pay? No. Is their pay fair, given the benefits? Yup.

    As an added UO, I think its annoying as fuck when teacher friends start crying about having to go back to work  via irritating FB statuses starting in mid-August. the only time I have EVER had a summer off is when I gave BIRTH this past summer, get over it! 
    Lol at mid-August. Next time tell them to be thankful they don't start the first week of August like we do.
    LOL, the tri state doesn't go back until after labor ever...just the whining starts mid-August!
  • MRads said:

    Stina2012 said:

    You know who REALLY doesn't get paid enough relative to the work they do? Day care providers. My aunt was the lead teacher in a day care classroom and made $11 an hour. Fuuuuuck that.

    Can you imagine taking care of 4 nap ninjas at once?
    That sounds like the worst form of torture. Or four teething babies at once?
    The infant room currently has two teething babies, one 10 month old whose mother only brings him oyster crackers and two bottles for the day, so he's always hangry, an 11 month old who is just never happy and constantly cries and a 20lb 3 month old who is as happy as can be. A few of those babies, including my own, sleep for maybe an hour all day total.

    You could not pay me enough to be in that room.
    Ummmmm, can't they report the mother with the two bottles and oyster crackers? WTF!
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