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ArmyWife0623

:just a lurker:  i cannot believe what my eyes just read! i am speechless!!  as someone who also experienced a loss, i want to send many hugs to all of you @EllyD14 @pintobean39 and anyone else hurt by this thoughtless individual.

flerlgirl

Sweet cheese and rice

rainbowdashh

This may be some of the craziest, most insensitive crap I've ever read. I can't believe she "hahaha'd" someone who has experienced a loss. Disgusting. If disagreeing with her makes me a cuntdanish, then I'm more than happy to be one!

layersofmeaning

Roraura said:

::lurker stepping out of the shadows::

OP, you really need to stop. Not only are you breaking the TOU by calling someone a cunt, but you're 1) flipping your shit over a test that only has a fifty percent chance of being right and 2) flipping your shit over something that doesn't need to be flipped over.

You are having a baby. It doesn't matter what is between it's legs as long as it's alive. I was hoping for a girl with my first pregnancy and I cried when I found out I was having a boy. Not because my little baby had a penis, but because the same day I found out I was having a boy was the same day I found out I was going to be leaving the hospital with empty arms after being forced through an induction because his heart had stopped beating.

Take a step back. Get a grip. Quit putting your faith in a bullshit test and wait until someone qualified tells you what sex your baby is going to be. Even then, if it's the opposite of what you were hoping for, just be grateful that your baby has a beating heart.

Your experience is sad but has nothing to do with how I feel. And if we were reversed I wouldn't be telling you how to feel. Regardless of what I've been through, I wouldn't have that right. And that's my point. Why do any of you have the right to tell me to have a seat. I understand the test is a scam. Doesn't change my honest reaction to it. I understand some of you have lost your children. Doesn't change my reaction. I understand some of you have waited a long time to have children. Doesn't. Change. How. I. Felt. That doesn't make me a moron or a bitch or whatever else. Makes me a person with my own feelings and opinions. I can appreciate you telling your story and how losing a life is much bigger than what I'm complaining about but it's still how I feel. So now what. What's different. I don't feel moved or changed by your life. I don't expect any of you to feel that way about mine. I simply wanted to know who's taken the test and how it compared to your outcomes. That's all. This extra stuff is just that. Extra. I hope you have a little girl soon.

"I simply wanted to know who's taken the test and how it compared to your outcomes. That's all. This extra stuff is just that. Extra."

Then you should've just said that: Who's taken the test and how it compared to your outcomes". No extra stuff was needed.

wtfisup

When you have a kid, you do so knowing that there are many possible outcomes that could be difficult. Birth defects, illness, emotional problems, drug use, etc. You as a parent agree to have a child aware of these possible contingencies but hoping for otherwise.

Gender? Having an expectation of that means a 50% failure rate. That's not a problem or a disappointment. If you're disappointed, it means you expected or felt entitled to something. This isn't buying a car and then getting less than the estimated MPG. It's a normal part of having a kid.

Cherylwang

I am glad she got banned. Laughing at someone else's misfortune is unacceptable.

KingLED

LoHerrim said:

And btw, I think people are going to start some definite MUD if it means @EllyD14 & Pintobean39 will come back to us for a little bit! Hate the drama, LOVE seeing you ladies!!!

You can thank @lilnunz1 for my appearance today.  I would likely have missed the whole thing until this evening had she not sent me a pm to tell me there was fun times starting.  So if you ever get bored just tag me and I'll show up.

allrightmeow

Those test are scams.  Its like Sea Monkeys.  There is nothing in pee that can tell you the gender of your baby. 

Pintobean39

EllyD14 said:

LoHerrim said:

And btw, I think people are going to start some definite MUD if it means @EllyD14 & Pintobean39 will come back to us for a little bit! Hate the drama, LOVE seeing you ladies!!!

You can thank @lilnunz1 for my appearance today.  I would likely have missed the whole thing until this evening had she not sent me a pm to tell me there was fun times starting.  So if you ever get bored just tag me and I'll show up.


And @ellyd14 don't forget to tell me. I don't want to miss all the fun.

mcsojoss

Lurking from aug 14. Wow. I am sorry for all of you guys. Glad she is banned. Think an AE will show up in 3 days?

BarooGirl

LoHerrim said:

And btw, I think people are going to start some definite MUD if it means @EllyD14 & @Pintobean39 will come back to us for a little bit! Hate the drama, LOVE seeing you ladies!!!

EllyD and Pinto, I (non-creep-ily) think about you both often. 

I love seeing you here and miss you guys.

flerlgirl

BarooGirl said:

LoHerrim said:

And btw, I think people are going to start some definite MUD if it means @EllyD14 & @Pintobean39 will come back to us for a little bit! Hate the drama, LOVE seeing you ladies!!!

EllyD and Pinto, I (non-creep-ily) think about you both often. 

I love seeing you here and miss you guys.

When I think about Elly and Pinto, it is most definitely creepy. 

nunzchucks

flerlgirl said:

BarooGirl said:

LoHerrim said:

And btw, I think people are going to start some definite MUD if it means @EllyD14 & @Pintobean39 will come back to us for a little bit! Hate the drama, LOVE seeing you ladies!!!

EllyD and Pinto, I (non-creep-ily) think about you both often. 

I love seeing you here and miss you guys.

When I think about Elly and Pinto, it is most definitely creepy. 

@flerlgirl =

KingLED

Same to you, @flerlgirl.



ETA:  And where is @meladoriestar?  I think about her in creepy ways all the time.

flerlgirl

Yesssssssssssssss. And, yeah, @meladoriestar, where you be? We need you!

JNerd

I'm here too! Very, very late but I am here. @ellyd14 and @pintobean it's so good to see you! Sorry that it had to be under such horrible circumstances. You both (among the many others who have had a loss) are in my heart.

colllydon

Man I have a busy day at work and miss all the crazy...

chaysefaith

@JNerd...where the hell you been?!

chickpea912

I've been a little MIA, but this thread got so crazy that an Aug10 mom tagged me on FB to ask me why my BMB was so crazy!  

Glad I wasn't here for most of the insanity, but agree with others - if drama brings back some of my favorite people, I might have to get creative and go all AE crazy!

ahastin1

Wow...caught this one late. I was amused by the stupidity first and I think I'm still in shock as to how quickly that made a very bad, awful turn! So sorry you ladies who have experienced losses had to read through that. I don't care how pissed off you get by people's reactions to your "feelings", that's just soooo uncalled for.

JNerd

SNLT1012 said:

@JNerd...where the hell you been?!

I'm here! Don't forget about me! I have a real job now- I've never had a job like this before- it actually requires my focus and attention to get everything done and the days just fly by, I'm so busy. I bump as often as I can - lunch, breaks and at night. But I miss all the prime action I miss you guys! I hate not being up to date with how things are going with you....

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JNerd

I know @LoHermin - being so busy that I hardly have a chance to check in is hard... Lol and I did get a haircut too wanted to look good for the new job.

I adore my job- I look forward to going to work everyday and the time flies by. I am busy with work that actually challenges and empowers me- which is something I can say I've never had before. Being busy also means I'm working long hours- rarely taking a lunch and often working late.
It is such a huge difference from what I had before and even hubby is commenting on how much happier I am in every aspect of life because it.

How have you been??

JNerd

@LoHermin thanks! Time really has flown. I'm 13 weeks tomorrow already and can hardly believe first fri is (essentially) over. We will be starting to tell people this weekend. Why bed rest? ((Hugs)) that does sound hard and boring. Lol it does look like there has been plenty of drama to keep you occupied.

verydisgruntledpelican0091

Don't know if this might make someone laugh but my friend and I always call eachother rude names because that's the kinda friends we are usually like "hey slwhore" "hey tit monkey" lol.
I called her a cunt Danish and she laughed so hard she just about pissed lol.
Then I explained where I got it from and the story behind it and she said that bitch that got banned is probably some computer nerd who got banned from a porn site so he's bored lol
and prayers to everyone going through a loss. My heart goes out to all of you.