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June 2014 Moms
Intelligender kit
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Re: Intelligender kit
After the I'm not happy.
Seriously.
When did all of you get the right to tell me I shouldn't be disappointed ? When you got pregnant? When those dl you who've had losses went home without a child? When exactly did that take place? It's. How. I. Felt. If I have to edit what I want to say, what's the point of saying anything at all? Why don't you all email me the approved topics and responses so I can get them right from now on. You're ridiculous and while you're just as entitled to disagree with me as I am to feel however I feel, the line is drawn when you presume to TELL me how to feel.
Oh god I really hope so. Because the person that wrote the OP sounded like a fucking terrible person.
No one has to agree with anyone. There are things that are and are not acceptable in different communities. Know them or don't post.
No. People sarcastically asked me to verify while basically telling me to shut up. Or did you miss those posts? I'm aware of what I posted. I never said I didn't express disappointment and then ask a question. What I said was the point was the question. My disappointment is just me being honest and annoyed. And even with me seeing the outrage, I still would have posted it that way. Not because I like the drama but because that's how I felt when I wrote it. As I said why say anything if I have to edit it because of who might not like it. What's the point.
No one has to agree with anyone. There are things that are and are not acceptable in different communities. Know them or don't post.
Ahahaaaahaahaaahahahaha
@swilkins1122 I got you, girl
After all of that she chooses to call out my gif post? Basic bitches.
I want to cry for her child if her intelligender kit ends up being right.
You know, normally these threads need a good page or two before the crazy comes out swinging. I like that she gave a nice solid warning in the intial post, and unleashed full on assholitry by the second post.
Very efficient.
The bumpie formerly known as First Time in MI
You guys are so sweet. Thank you.
Personally it's very offensive for me to read that. I just found out last week my baby I lost was a girl that had trisomy 16. I would have given anything to have had a healthy baby regardless of the sex of the child. I personally don't give a damn if that's how you feel that's something you should have never said. Many women love to be given the gift you are given "a healthy baby". You should be grateful for whatever the sex of your baby is.
The bumpie formerly known as First Time in MI
Since it's pointless to respond since OP got banned...
@EllyD14 and @Pintobean39 hiiiii!!! I miss you ladies!! Giant Internet creepy hugs!!!
@EllyD14, @Pintobean39, and everyone else here who has experienced losses, I'm so sorry that she took it as low as she did. Totally uncalled for. You ladies are missed!
Speaking from experience, I can understand being sad at saying goodbye to the sex you thought/hoped for, because there are dreams attached to that, but I will NEVER understand being upset with what you are getting. I was disappointed that C wasn't a boy, because I had to say goodbye to those dreams, but I was so excited to be getting my girl and to get to plan those dreams. There is a huge difference between that and just saying "I'm disappointed with what I'm getting because I wanted the other." I feel like if OP had clarified, or not been so ready to jump in with the name calling and meanness, none of this would have gone where it did. This was all just...wow.
Married DH 7/30/11
CSC arrived 5/7/12
CHC arrived 6/2/14