Baby 2?

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mcvgal

The only thing I'd recommend is really making sure that you are both on the same page. Your husband my not have patience right now but if he has the patience for the tween son then he obvisouly does have it in him, maybe it just takes a while to get around to it.

JamiesWife2010

I agree with @e_cruiz. As long as you're in the same page, I say go for it.

smwiggle

We did 2u2 partially because DH is almost 37 and said the same thing you did, that he didn't want to be in a wheelchair at graduation.  I agree with having your husband on the same page.

RedCamaro

Yes, make sure it's not a one-sided decision or a pressured one. I love my kids very much. But honestly, if I had known just how much more difficult our 2nd would be, I might have been just fine with having an only child. Of course, the thought of DD not having a sibling was hard for me to be ok with. GL! In the end, it will all work out no matter your decision. 

drcolleen

we are at a difficult stage, IMHO.  I remember pregnant with DD2 when DD1 was 2yrs (LMP was her 2nd bday) then thinking 2 months later "what the heck were we thinking!!"  But, it got better, DD1 developed so much between 2y and 2y9mo that it was really amazing and now I am looking forward to seeing DD2 go through this growth phase.  DH isn't into babies but he really loves doing things with the girls as they get older, scooters/singing with the guitar/going out to get a christmas tree/etc, and so he was willing to have a 3rd child knowing the baby phase ends.

Talk to your husband and if you guys agree go for it!  If not you will have to come to peace with the decision.