If your husband / partner was going to vent about you...

cyndilouwho77

I am really not sure.....how sad is that!  Since we don't tech live together  75% of the time its really hard to judge what he could be upset with me about.  I handle everything around the house, still work full time and raise my two girls all while carrying his baby.  I am def not always a peach and have been known to snap, but usually after he gets mad at me for snapping he realizes what he did to piss me off.  I am usually a pretty laid back person, the only thing that we usually fight about is money....he has no clue how to actually save it and he gets mad that I put my two cents in when he does something really stupid...he usually says "Just let me handle it" sigh....what can you do right? 

Rebis58

-I can be very stubborn and set in my ways

-I'm not very neat or organized

-I leave clean clothes in the dryer, laundry basket, or on the clothes drying rack, sometimes for as long as a week at a time

-I don't rinse my dishes (he complains about this all the time - I'm working on it)

-I watch trashy reality TV and read trashy tabloid magazines sometimes

-I can be fairly moody and sometimes just don't feel like talking to anyone

-I am impatient - sometimes I want something done right away and if H says he'll take care of it later I get irritated

monkeybutt61612

Rebis58 said:

-I can be very stubborn and set in my ways

-I'm not very neat or organized

-I leave clean clothes in the dryer, laundry basket, or on the clothes drying rack, sometimes for as long as a week at a time

-I don't rinse my dishes (he complains about this all the time - I'm working on it)

-I watch trashy reality TV and read trashy tabloid magazines sometimes

-I can be fairly moody and sometimes just don't feel like talking to anyone

-I am impatient - sometimes I want something done right away and if H says he'll take care of it later I get irritated

Umm, we could be twins.

berenely

keljongib said:

DH would definitely complain that I am awful at doing laundry. I hate it sooooooo much. Putting it in the washer/dryer is no problem. It's the folding/hanging/putting away that I loathe. Oh and he would also say that he is absolutely disgusted by my car. It needs to be cleaned out something serious but I rarely go anywhere in it alone and it's not something I think about doing until we get in the car.

Oh, I forgot this. Except this was a pre-pregnancy thing too.

goldenB

He knows better than to vent about me.

MrsGraham06

He complains that I'm "useless" while pregnant. I agree with him and we've talked about it, but that's his complaint. I can't stand long enough to do dishes, I can't bend over to pick things up off the floor, I can't carry laundry baskets...leaving sweeping and vacuuming and minimal cooking as what I can do. He tries to take care of everything else plus working 2 jobs and work time in for us.

Then when he gets out his frustration and is calm, he says the reason he doesn't usually let it bother him (only about 2-3 times a week) is it only lasts about 4 months, and then we have a bundle of joyous baby and I'm back to helping. And 4 months out of the rest of our lives isn't much.

jblank03

The snoring.  That right now is his biggest complaint.  Poor guy has had to sleep in earplugs all week!  Apparently he tries to wake me up and I just mutter something like 'leave me alone' which of course I have no recollection of in the morning.

My words of consolation to him: Only 7 more weeks!  A small part of me is a little happy that he's suffering a bit with me :P

ashleywiz

@goldenB said:

He knows better than to vent about me.

hahaha I freaking love you.