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Intro, and CP sadness today

im just looking for support from the ladies. I'm new to this board (just posted in the pregnancy after loss board yesterday) and today come to fndout this is my second CP in a row after a m/c at 6 weeks a few months ago. I have a healthy toddler and am 35. M husband is on board for trying to conceive naturally (no intervention) for just about year, and that started last April. I wanted to try sooner but we had a cross country move and both had job changes. So now... Tis time crunch is stressing me. I didn't tell him yesterday about my BFP on digital tests and I'm glad I didn't bc today was CP. Last month. Told him I was pg and he responded by asking why I tested so early. Those women who are TTC know why we do this, right! :) I had no issues with my first pg and got pg after just two months. The last 2 CP and m/c I had borderline progesterone. It's difficult to see my OB (long story but her partner in private practice left and the earliest I can get in is Jan). I literally had to go to my medical doctor for labs on the last CP. I use preseed and OPK and now I'm considering baby aspirin. It's so frustrating beyond belief when you want something so badly! I will not be able to get on progesterone supplements until I get to see m OB (my last OB said after my last m/c that next time I get pg, come in for supplements. Well, the new OB doesn't share charts and I'm technically not an established patient of the new OB so she can't rx anything for me yet until I see her). Anyway, just trying to find out if there's anything other than timing the BD (plus, I travel for work every other week). Great for ovulating, huh. I'm trying to stay positive every month but the clock is ticking louder and louder, I swear.

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  • Hi am so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. I hope you find all that you need and more.

    For your question as to what more you can Will want to ckeck out the TTCAL blog. Its full of amazing info. I am mobile so I can't link it. But you can find it in the description header on the top of the thread list and it is also in the first post that is pinned at the top called "read this before posting"

    Best of luck to you and welcome to the board.
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    08/05/2013: BFP not ectopic | EDD: 4/22/2014 | 09/15/2013: Miscarried at home
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  • So sorry for your losses. I'm also sorry that you are facing this most recent one alone. I hope they are able to get some answers for you and that your stay here is short and sweet. Welcome



  • I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.

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    I'm so sorry for your losses and welcome to the board. My first pregnancy was normal after about 6 months of ntnp, then I had a cp two months ago. We are trying again but got AF today. I agree you should not keep it from YH, my hubby is similar where he tells me had I not tested I wouldn't have even known I was pregnant but there's good n bad to knowing. Again I'm sorry for your losses, I hope you can find comfort n support here.
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  • You all are so amazing already and supportive... Wow! Each of you I'm sure have such unique stories. It should just be so easy for us when we want something... Women are so amazing! I will likely get some blood work up, hopefully before Jan which is the earliest my OB can see me. This last CP hopefully can prompt a quick visit. After reading so much about progesterone, I'm hoping this can be part of the answer. I've accepted yesterday's CP and already trying to plan for next month's cycle. My husband not knowing is just me knowing him so well. He doesn't consider it a real pregnancy and is not emotional or connected like I am (one of those dads who might be awkward with a baby but with a toddler... Another story :) thank you for all the kind words and I'm happy to be here.
  • Duly noted, completely makes sense. I appreciate the heads up. :))))))
  • Welcome to the board. I'm very sorry for your loss! I understand traveling for work and TTC. I am trying to plan my business trips around ovulation. I hope your stay here is short and sweet!
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses, but welcome to the board.

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  • Welcome. I'm sorry for your losses I agree you shod tell your husband. You lost a pg. it doesn't matter what stage it was. It's still painful. As others have said check out our blog.


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  • I am so sorry for your losses. To echo the other ladies, tell your husband. A loss, no matter the time, is a sad event and (IMHO) something you two are experiencing together. I hope you find the support you need here and that your stay is short and sweet


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  • I'm sorry for your losses and welcome to the board.
    Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
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    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
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  • So sorry for your loss. ((Hugs)) and welcome.
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  • I am so sorry for your losses. ((Hugs)) and I hope you can get some answers soon. 
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  • Sorry to hear of your loss. I'm 34 and going through a CP right now, too. And, yes, I understand the need to test and the tension it can cause in a relationship. DH and I just had a sit down yesterday about how next time around I'm not "allowed" to test early. We're throwing away all my tests. 
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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • So sorry for your loss.
    Me- 27 w/PCOS     DH - 28
    TTC since December 2012 
    BFP 6/29/2013 - EDD 3/16/14 - MMC 9/5/2013
    Diagnosed with PCOS and taking metformin 750 mg  twice a day
    April 2014 -  - 1st ICI Cycle - BFP 5/15/14 EDD: 1/20/15
    A/S 8-22-14 - Its a BOY!!
    12/15 Checkup & heard his beautiful heartbeat


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