So, I am the overprotective, organized, schedule, type A, take on all the responsibility type of person.
Normally, my mom watches DD if hubby n I have to do something, but my mom is horribly sick and I didnt want DD around her.
So, I let my guard down and decided to let my sister in law come babysit LO for the first time! She is normally great with her, but she is a but inexperienced with kids and how to handle upsets, but I let go and left for just 2 hours.
When I got home at 9pm, LO had been passed out *there goes bedtime* for 20 minutes, was hyperventilating *because she was screaming so much from being upset*, had soaked through her clothes *her diaper had not been changed*, and was all flushed and hot!
I woke her, changed her diaper, comfort nursed her, put her PJ's on, and am trying so hard to get my now untired child asleep!
She told me she was screaming, so she tried rocking her in the rocking chair, putting her in different positions, etc, but those things don't work on an 8 month old who is upset! At least not mine.
I obviously didn't show I was upset, and thanked her tons, because she did do her best.
With that being said, I now see why I am that protective, I do all, mother.
My husband, myself, and my mom are the only ones I trust to do what she likes!
I feel irritated that I wasn't called while she was screaming, so I could home, or at least tell her how to calm her.
I can tell she was frazzled, because there were clothes everywhere! Backtrack, she changed her, because water spilled on her! Lol She was searching through the wrong size clothes, then finally found something DD could wear! Her toys looked like they went through a tornado, and things are everywhere!
I guess I'm sharing to give myself therapy, and give others a laugh. I'm irritated, but find the humor.
Point blank, lesson learned!
Me: 30 | DH:34
DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13
DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17