So, I came back...

jennalking2013

And I don't expect anyone here to like me. But I just wanted to say that I took a few days off the site to recollect myself. The last night I logged in here, I ended up crying in bed, and S/O asked me what was wrong. I told him what had happened here on TB, and even read him the conversation. 

I took what you guys said to heart. I hope y'all don't really think I'm crazy, but I do know that y'all think I'm immature. And I was thinking a lot about that. I am definitely too immature to be TTC right now. And we aren't even financially prepared enough as it is. I just wanted it so badly that I was trying to rush into it without being totally ready. I honestly expected that when S/O got his new job, that we would be making a LOT more money than we are making right now. 

Needless to say, we made the decision a couple of days ago to hold off on TTC for at least a couple of months. I am probably going to end up getting a job at his place of work, or maybe applying a few of the local banks, since there is one right by where he works. We still have way too much stuff to sort out before we can begin TTC again.

Since we have made that decision, a lot of stress has been taken off of me. I was an emotional wreck because I was trying to force a baby into our lives at the most stressful time possible. Therefore, I was acting pretty nutty, and not just to y'all here on TB. I was that way at home too. S/O didn't know what was going on with me. I was falling into a depression and didn't even realize it.

I am back today to try and redeem myself. I don't blame any one of you for not just going back and being okay with me as if I was any other newbie. But I am going to start by just being a normal contributor to the site. I don't want any drama, and I hope that's not what I am about to face. I do want to learn more about TTC and continue charting and getting to know my body, so that when we are financially ready, we can do this right.

And one more thing that I wanted to add, I know a lot of you were concerned about my safety because of my username, I am currently in the process of getting that changed. I have sent the admins of the site 3 different username options, and I am waiting to hear back and see if any of them are available. 

Thank you ladies for being who you are. You tried to give me a chance before, and I blew it. But I still appreciate the effort. Even when a lot of you started making fun of me, I can't say that I didn't totally ask for it. And I don't want to be one of those GBCB people. I want to be here for years, because I plan on having a few children, and I want to be able to help other newbies that come in (with legitimate questions) like y'all do. 

I hope I hear from some of you soon (whether it's a positive or negative response), I'm just glad to be here. 

Thank you for reading.

KingLED

jennalking2013 said:

And I don't expect anyone here to like me. But I just wanted to say that I took a few days off the site to recollect myself. The last night I logged in here, I ended up crying in bed, and S/O asked me what was wrong. I told him what had happened here on TB, and even read him the conversation. 

I took what you guys said to heart. I hope y'all don't really think I'm crazy, but I do know that y'all think I'm immature. And I was thinking a lot about that. I am definitely too immature to be TTC right now. And we aren't even financially prepared enough as it is. I just wanted it so badly that I was trying to rush into it without being totally ready. I honestly expected that when S/O got his new job, that we would be making a LOT more money than we are making right now. 

Needless to say, we made the decision a couple of days ago to hold off on TTC for at least a couple of months. I am probably going to end up getting a job at his place of work, or maybe applying a few of the local banks, since there is one right by where he works. We still have way too much stuff to sort out before we can begin TTC again.

Since we have made that decision, a lot of stress has been taken off of me. I was an emotional wreck because I was trying to force a baby into our lives at the most stressful time possible. Therefore, I was acting pretty nutty, and not just to y'all here on TB. I was that way at home too. S/O didn't know what was going on with me. I was falling into a depression and didn't even realize it.

I am back today to try and redeem myself. I don't blame any one of you for not just going back and being okay with me as if I was any other newbie. But I am going to start by just being a normal contributor to the site. I don't want any drama, and I hope that's not what I am about to face. I do want to learn more about TTC and continue charting and getting to know my body, so that when we are financially ready, we can do this right.

And one more thing that I wanted to add, I know a lot of you were concerned about my safety because of my username, I am currently in the process of getting that changed. I have sent the admins of the site 3 different username options, and I am waiting to hear back and see if any of them are available. 

Thank you ladies for being who you are. You tried to give me a chance before, and I blew it. But I still appreciate the effort. Even when a lot of you started making fun of me, I can't say that I didn't totally ask for it. And I don't want to be one of those GBCB people. I want to be here for years, because I plan on having a few children, and I want to be able to help other newbies that come in (with legitimate questions) like y'all do. 

I hope I hear from some of you soon (whether it's a positive or negative response), I'm just glad to be here. 

Thank you for reading.

tl;dr  But nice timing there...  Not suspicious AT ALL.

jennalking2013

EllyD14 said:

jennalking2013 said:

And I don't expect anyone here to like me. But I just wanted to say that I took a few days off the site to recollect myself. The last night I logged in here, I ended up crying in bed, and S/O asked me what was wrong. I told him what had happened here on TB, and even read him the conversation. 

I took what you guys said to heart. I hope y'all don't really think I'm crazy, but I do know that y'all think I'm immature. And I was thinking a lot about that. I am definitely too immature to be TTC right now. And we aren't even financially prepared enough as it is. I just wanted it so badly that I was trying to rush into it without being totally ready. I honestly expected that when S/O got his new job, that we would be making a LOT more money than we are making right now. 

Needless to say, we made the decision a couple of days ago to hold off on TTC for at least a couple of months. I am probably going to end up getting a job at his place of work, or maybe applying a few of the local banks, since there is one right by where he works. We still have way too much stuff to sort out before we can begin TTC again.

Since we have made that decision, a lot of stress has been taken off of me. I was an emotional wreck because I was trying to force a baby into our lives at the most stressful time possible. Therefore, I was acting pretty nutty, and not just to y'all here on TB. I was that way at home too. S/O didn't know what was going on with me. I was falling into a depression and didn't even realize it.

I am back today to try and redeem myself. I don't blame any one of you for not just going back and being okay with me as if I was any other newbie. But I am going to start by just being a normal contributor to the site. I don't want any drama, and I hope that's not what I am about to face. I do want to learn more about TTC and continue charting and getting to know my body, so that when we are financially ready, we can do this right.

And one more thing that I wanted to add, I know a lot of you were concerned about my safety because of my username, I am currently in the process of getting that changed. I have sent the admins of the site 3 different username options, and I am waiting to hear back and see if any of them are available. 

Thank you ladies for being who you are. You tried to give me a chance before, and I blew it. But I still appreciate the effort. Even when a lot of you started making fun of me, I can't say that I didn't totally ask for it. And I don't want to be one of those GBCB people. I want to be here for years, because I plan on having a few children, and I want to be able to help other newbies that come in (with legitimate questions) like y'all do. 

I hope I hear from some of you soon (whether it's a positive or negative response), I'm just glad to be here. 

Thank you for reading.

tl;dr  But nice timing there...  Not suspicious AT ALL.

What are you talking about? I haven't even been off TB but more than a couple of days, what did I already miss?

EmeJay

PugMum

CrazyCornball said:

EllyD14 said:

TL;DR

tl;dr  But nice timing there...  Not suspicious AT ALL.

AT ALL.

EmeJay

jennalking2013 said:

EllyD14 said:

tl;dr  But nice timing there...  Not suspicious AT ALL.

What are you talking about? I haven't even been off TB but more than a couple of days, what did I already miss?

You're adorable

Pintobean39

LMAO ..... I'm totally breaking out the wine for this shit!!!

salsy2012

gscoville

Pintobean39 said:

LMAO ..... I'm totally breaking out the wine for this shit!!!

Drinking at work should seriously be allowed...

[Deleted User]

I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here, and hope that you aren't another crazy AE.

I'm sorry to hear that you have to hold off on ttc, but it's good that you are getting things in order. Try not to let yourself get stressed out. Take care of yourself.

A lot of us have had our moments here, but it is best to just move on.

Get to know how we do things, and you'll be fine. Enjoy the snark, and don't take anything too personally. It's just the internet.

There is a lot of useful information, and pretty regular entertainment around these parts

Spookster

ScrappyLika said:

All I'm gonna say is....

Beware of the ponies! 

Spookster

jennalking2013

@babylawyer I actually came back so that I can learn how to track my O, and basically just learn about TTC before I actually start TTC again. You know? I'll probably end up lurking a lot, but I came in here not knowing what the heck I was doing and just acting like a total know it all. I don't think I'm the first person to come on here that hasn't started TTC yet and just wants to learn. 

I'm really not obsessed with it. I was at first because I was so stressed about the whole situation, so yes, I was obsessed with trying to get everything sorted out and planned. But I'm just going to worry about making money for now and putting up a lot of money into savings. I may end up waiting 6 months to a year before I TTC again. It just really depends on when I feel like we have enough money put aside that we don't have to stress anymore. I won't even be on here often, I will mostly just pop my head in here and there with a question or two, then be on my merry way. Once I start working, I may not even have time to be on here as much.

And @CrazyCornball you are absolutely right. I am actually working on that lol

KingLED

NotElsie said:

I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here, and hope that you aren't another crazy AE.

I'm sorry to hear that you have to hold off on ttc, but it's good that you are getting things in order. Try not to let yourself get stressed out. Take care of yourself.

A lot of us have had our moments here, but it is best to just move on.

Get to know how we do things, and you'll be fine. Enjoy the snark, and don't take anything too personally. It's just the internet.

There is a lot of useful information, and pretty regular entertainment around these parts

She hasn't been logged on since the 24th (because I checked when the sophie accusations started).  @sophie1992 hasn't (as of when I'm typing this) been on since 30 minutes before @jennalking posted this.

Given those two things alone it seems pretty damn unlikely that 20 minutes after people start accusing @sopiegirl1992 of being an AE that this shit pops up. 

jennalking2013

HisGirlFriday929 said:

Good luck, OP.

Thanks girl. I'll need it.

I appreciate all the positive responses I'm getting. They really do mean the world to me. I need the advice from y'all. You know what you're talking about, and I just don't. That's why I am here. Thank you again.

Pintobean39

gscoville said:

Pintobean39 said:

LMAO ..... I'm totally breaking out the wine for this shit!!!

Drinking at work should seriously be allowed...




I worked for a co once and we had daiquiri Fridays. Every other Friday we would run up the the drive thru and get a few gallons and have a few drinks starting at 3. Then once every other month we would have a crawfish boil, fish fry, or BBQ in the parking lot. I use to keep a wine opener in my desk drawer. I LOVED that job!!

WillCMyInk

Yeah. Suspicious doesn't begin to cover it... but you really would have been better off creating a new username... although I guess you tried and still couldn't hide your crazy.

Valancyy

I'm just confused.  I thought you were a stay at home girlfriend because your boyfriend made so much money?  Now you say that you're not in a good financial place to TTC. 

(And why am I even trying to make sense of this?  I'm just killing time until DH gets home with our pizza).

[Deleted User]

EllyD14 said:

NotElsie said:

I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here, and hope that you aren't another crazy AE.

I'm sorry to hear that you have to hold off on ttc, but it's good that you are getting things in order. Try not to let yourself get stressed out. Take care of yourself.

A lot of us have had our moments here, but it is best to just move on.

Get to know how we do things, and you'll be fine. Enjoy the snark, and don't take anything too personally. It's just the internet.

There is a lot of useful information, and pretty regular entertainment around these parts

She hasn't been logged on since the 24th (because I checked when the sophie accusations started).  @sophie1992 hasn't (as of when I'm typing this) been on since 30 minutes before @jennalking posted this.

Given those two things alone it seems pretty damn unlikely that 20 minutes after people start accusing @sopiegirl1992 of being an AE that this shit pops up. 

I'm not saying that you are wrong, but until we know I don't want to assume.

All I know is that I would hate it if I got accused of something I didn't do.

EmeJay

Hey @SophieGirl1992 - Why don't you come over here!!

jennalking2013

DarcyHermione said:

I'm going to assume you are being legit. I do hope you have taken some of what we said to heart, I hope you have lurked around. Just know that calling us names is not cool and hurtful. Some of the previous things you said were pretty rude. So just keep that in mind, remember this is the internet and not everyone has to like what you say, etc.

Thank you. I really did take what y'all said to heart. Some of it hurt me as well, but then again, maybe I deserved it. And about the "not everyone has to like what you say" thing, I don't like what some of the girls are saying to me right now. Some of the ladies commenting on this are being a little snarky, but I'm just not even going to respond to it. It's a complete waste of my time. I'm here for answers, not for arguing with complete and total strangers over the internet.

[Deleted User]

@Pintobean39 Omg, I want crawfish so badly right now.

SophieGirl1992

@EmeJay what?

Spookster

jennalking2013 said:

@babylawyer I actually came back so that I can learn how to track my O, and basically just learn about TTC before I actually start TTC again. You know? I'll probably end up lurking a lot, but I came in here not knowing what the heck I was doing and just acting like a total know it all. I don't think I'm the first person to come on here that hasn't started TTC yet and just wants to learn. 

I'm really not obsessed with it. I was at first because I was so stressed about the whole situation, so yes, I was obsessed with trying to get everything sorted out and planned. But I'm just going to worry about making money for now and putting up a lot of money into savings. I may end up waiting 6 months to a year before I TTC again. It just really depends on when I feel like we have enough money put aside that we don't have to stress anymore. I won't even be on here often, I will mostly just pop my head in here and there with a question or two, then be on my merry way. Once I start working, I may not even have time to be on here as much.

And @CrazyCornball you are absolutely right. I am actually working on that lol

You should have let this SN die and started fresh....or did you? ...anyway I see this ending badly. Again. 

EmeJay

SophieGirl1992 said:

@EmeJay what?

So what's up?

[Deleted User]

I'm starting to wonder if I missed something.

SophieGirl1992

@EmeJay lol you're STILL trying to connect me with her? For real? ROFL.

Spookster

I honestly think that if you were crying over what some people on the internet said to you and you read it to your SO , it's good you are putting TTC on hold. 

EmeJay

SophieGirl1992 said:

@EmeJay lol you're STILL trying to connect me with her? For real? ROFL.

I'm just trying to know you better! I want to be friends!!!!

So - What do you do for a living?

gscoville

Spookster said:

jennalking2013 said:

@babylawyer I actually came back so that I can learn how to track my O, and basically just learn about TTC before I actually start TTC again. You know? I'll probably end up lurking a lot, but I came in here not knowing what the heck I was doing and just acting like a total know it all. I don't think I'm the first person to come on here that hasn't started TTC yet and just wants to learn. 

I'm really not obsessed with it. I was at first because I was so stressed about the whole situation, so yes, I was obsessed with trying to get everything sorted out and planned. But I'm just going to worry about making money for now and putting up a lot of money into savings. I may end up waiting 6 months to a year before I TTC again. It just really depends on when I feel like we have enough money put aside that we don't have to stress anymore. I won't even be on here often, I will mostly just pop my head in here and there with a question or two, then be on my merry way. Once I start working, I may not even have time to be on here as much.

And @CrazyCornball you are absolutely right. I am actually working on that lol

You should have let this SN die and started fresh....or did you? ...anyway I see this ending badly. Again. 

Any bookies out there who want to take odds?

rockopera

Even if she isn't failing spectacularly with an AE...

Why are you back here with the fucking fake as bitches who are bitter that they haven't conceived yet?  I thought you have a perfect life and a perfect SO?  You already were one of those GBCB people.  Why would you come back to "hell on earth?"  And want to stick around for years?  WTF?

To jog anyone's memory on her spectacular meltdown where she told everyone to fuck off:
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12173000/i-have-an-announcement-apology-time/p4

jennalking2013

Spookster said:

I honestly think that if you were crying over what some people on the internet said to you and you read it to your SO , it's good you are putting TTC on hold. 

I know, that's part of why I'm doing it. Like, I'm really not that mature after all.

SophieGirl1992

Ha okay @EmeJay funny how you suddenly want to get to know me and "be my friend" now that my supposed AE is back online lmao this is funny. I'm not here to make friends sweetie I'm here to learn. Stop trying to stir the pot. It's not cool.

jennalking2013

rockopera said:

Even if she isn't failing spectacularly with an AE...

Why are you back here with the fucking fake as bitches who are bitter that they haven't conceived yet?  I thought you have a perfect life and a perfect SO?  You already were one of those GBCB people.  Why would you come back to "hell on earth?"  And want to stick around for years?  WTF?

To jog anyone's memory on her spectacular meltdown where she told everyone to fuck off:
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12173000/i-have-an-announcement-apology-time/p4

If you read my post, you'll understand. I explained that already. Please, try not to ask questions until you have fully read my post. Please and thank you.

ngolimento

I think that I chose the most confusing and entertaining week ever to join this board

EmeJay

SophieGirl1992 said:

Ha okay @EmeJay funny how you suddenly want to get to know me and "be my friend" now that my supposed AE is back online lmao this is funny. I'm not here to make friends sweetie I'm here to learn. Stop trying to stir the pot. It's not cool.

Ah, that's too bad. I'm sure we could have been great friends!!!1!!1!

[Deleted User]

rockopera said:

Even if she isn't failing spectacularly with an AE...

Why are you back here with the fucking fake as bitches who are bitter that they haven't conceived yet?  I thought you have a perfect life and a perfect SO?  You already were one of those GBCB people.  Why would you come back to "hell on earth?"  And want to stick around for years?  WTF?

To jog anyone's memory on her spectacular meltdown where she told everyone to fuck off:
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12173000/i-have-an-announcement-apology-time/p4

Damn.

SCSmith2011

I'm sure this will end well. At least today was entertaining.

SophieGirl1992

What the fuck ever @EmeJay

You're too snarky lol trying to accuse me of having an AE. Damn, that's a knee-slapper!!! You should seriously just drop it.

jaytee16

DarcyHermione said:

rockopera said:

Even if she isn't failing spectacularly with an AE...

Why are you back here with the fucking fake as bitches who are bitter that they haven't conceived yet?  I thought you have a perfect life and a perfect SO?  You already were one of those GBCB people.  Why would you come back to "hell on earth?"  And want to stick around for years?  WTF?

To jog anyone's memory on her spectacular meltdown where she told everyone to fuck off:
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12173000/i-have-an-announcement-apology-time/p4

I am also curious. Why come back somewhere that you hate?

OP - I gave you the benefit of the doubt once before, and then you turned around and said some seriously nasty shit and made me regret that decision.  I'll not do that again.

Sincerely,

A Bitter Old Hag

sister13

SophieGirl1992 said:

What the fuck ever @EmeJay

You're too snarky lol trying to accuse me of having an AE. Damn, that's a knee-slapper!!! You should seriously just drop it.

But in the other thread you said we should start a new thread to discuss it? So much contradiction!