Ok so I know a lot of ladies but I don't know them so well that I think they would come to my shower. We are doing a co-ed shower so all are invited if they want to come. However where do I stop the list and with who...I am friends with some that ask how my pregnancy is going everytime they see me but I don't "hang" out with them, our kids were in scouts together so we have had some really fun evenings...but do they want to come?? Do I just invite everyone I know and am semi friends with or do I make a list and stick to it and not worry about others. Do I invite that aunt that lives 5 miles from me but never calls me or returns my calls?? I am so confused and I feel bad inviting people b/c I don't want them to feel obligated to come but at the same time I don't want someone to feel left out...so like I said in my mind I know I am over analyzing this but who do I ask and who do I leave out??? Would it be bad to have a general post on FB "hey if you want to come send me your address?" or is that not personal enough and therefore rude? Any help/advice would be great!!
Re: Shower Invite dilema- at least in my mind ;P
No my best friend is and she says everyone loves baby showers and wants me to give her the names but there are some I am just not sure about. We are doing it at my house.
On the other point I would never post the note on FB asking people to tell you if they want to come. No.
pp is right..the shower board is a great place to start and read the threads first! Don't throw blood into the shark tank .. read the threads!
So does this mean I shouldn't accept a shower because I've been a foster mother for 11years?
I think with the gap between babies being so big and someone is offering to throw it for you go for it.
I agree to invite family and close friends only.