Ok so I know a lot of ladies but I don't know them so well that I think they would come to my shower. We are doing a co-ed shower so all are invited if they want to come. However where do I stop the list and with who...I am friends with some that ask how my pregnancy is going everytime they see me but I don't "hang" out with them, our kids were in scouts together so we have had some really fun evenings...but do they want to come?? Do I just invite everyone I know and am semi friends with or do I make a list and stick to it and not worry about others. Do I invite that aunt that lives 5 miles from me but never calls me or returns my calls?? I am so confused and I feel bad inviting people b/c I don't want them to feel obligated to come but at the same time I don't want someone to feel left out...so like I said in my mind I know I am over analyzing this but who do I ask and who do I leave out??? Would it be bad to have a general post on FB "hey if you want to come send me your address?" or is that not personal enough and therefore rude? Any help/advice would be great!!