Wednesday roll call

PrettyAccountant

Hello lovely ladies!
Sorry I am so late this week - my nephew left the hospital today! Which means I had the other three to drive me nuts... Lol
I see some new members - I'm sorry you find yourself here but I will tell you that you won't find a better bunch of women anywhere!
Hugs to everyone - lets here what's going on in your life!
Rachel

PrettyAccountant

My update - as I mentioned above, my nephew is home from the hospital so I am very happy. I just need sleep cause I have been going non stop for too long now.

Lacyj67

Just getting betas every two days now hoping I don't need methotrexate to end this what might be a tubal .
So not doing too great but hanging in there. This will all be over soon hopefully.

twistsandturnsto2

PA I am so happy to hear that your nephew was released from the hospital, that's great news! I do hope things begin to settle down for you and you can get some sleep! And I hope his friend is doing ok and healing well.

Not much going on here. DH is still not convinced I am truly KU, lol. I am just taking everything one day at a time and trying to enjoy it.

(((Hugs))) to anyone that needs them!

J&D2007

So happy to hear your nephew has been released, PA. Hang in there, Lacy. I really hope this concludes soon for you so you can move on. T&P to you. I'm waiting for AF so I can start EPP with ccrm, hopefully with ER the week before thanksgiving or so.

DoublePortion

Rachel: I'm glad your nephew was able to go home. I hope you get caught up on rest!
Lacy: I'm sending you huge hugs and pray that it's not tubal and this will all be over soon.
J&D: Sending you all my AF vibes!

AFM: Yesterday I had a SIS and my uterus was declared "beautiful". All my labs came back good so Monday I start estrogen and ET will be here before I know it! Also, I met my new RE for the 1st time in person yesterday. He was super nice and very gentle. My last RE was a little rough with speculums, etc.

rockpaperlove

PA: My thoughts go out to you and your family and I hope rest is in your near future!

Lacy: I love ya pretty lady!  I want to hop on a plane and take you out for a day of pampering!  I am so sorry you are dealing with this - you are in my continued thoughts.  Sending lots of love.

rockpaperlove

DoublePortion said:

AFM: Yesterday I had a SIS and my uterus was declared "beautiful". All my labs came back good so Monday I start estrogen and ET will be here before I know it! Also, I met my new RE for the 1st time in person yesterday. He was super nice and very gentle. My last RE was a little rough with speculums, etc.

FANTASTIC UPDATE!  I am so so so happy for you!

rockpaperlove

AFM: We had our first official OB appt yesterday.  The heartbeats were flickering away clear as night and day.  My state of shock is turning into a state of amazement!

Sophistikitty

I've been testing since transfer and haven't even gotten a glimmer of a line.  My beta is tomorrow. Hopefully after that I can begin to put this chapter behind me.  The only positive is that I will finally be able to cut ties with that clinic.  That actually brings me a surprising amount of happiness.

DoublePortion

Sophistikitty said:

I've been testing since transfer and haven't even gotten a glimmer of a line.  My beta is tomorrow. Hopefully after that I can begin to put this chapter behind me.  The only positive is that I will finally be able to cut ties with that clinic.  That actually brings me a surprising amount of happiness.

I've been wondering if you've tested yet. As always I hope you get a surprise tomorrow. ((hugs))

Lacyj67

rockpaperlove said:

AFM: We had our first official OB appt yesterday.  The heartbeats were flickering away clear as night and day.  My state of shock is turning into a state of amazement!

Already moved on to OB!!! That's crazy it's going fast! So happy for you!!!

mm29

GL to everyone with upcoming cycles and to those cycling right now.<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />

((Huge hugs)) to those who need them! 

Update: My DE consult is in an hour. I am very anxious and scared. I want this to give DE a try and desperately want this to work, yet have this awful fear we will spend another $40K for more failures. 

Lacyj67

Good luck mm! Ask about shared cycle... It cuts the cost in half it's what we did and in so glad we chose that. The risks are scary but hopefully be worth it in the long run!

mm29

Lacyj67 said:

Good luck mm! Ask about shared cycle... It cuts the cost in half it's what we did and in so glad we chose that. The risks are scary but hopefully be worth it in the long run!

Thank you! I would maybe consider a shared cycle, but dh has a balanced translocation. This decreases our chances of chromosomally normal embryos. we will take all the embryos we can get.

PurpleIris30

Sophistikitty said:

I've been testing since transfer and haven't even gotten a glimmer of a line.  My beta is tomorrow. Hopefully after that I can begin to put this chapter behind me.  The only positive is that I will finally be able to cut ties with that clinic.  That actually brings me a surprising amount of happiness.

Fingers crossed for you . . .

PurpleIris30

mm29 said:

GL to everyone with upcoming cycles and to those cycling right now.

((Huge hugs)) to those who need them! 

Update: My DE consult is in an hour. I am very anxious and scared. I want this to give DE a try and desperately want this to work, yet have this awful fear we will spend another $40K for more failures. 

Please keep us posted on how the DE consult goes!  Is this with the SD clinic?

mm29

PurpleIris30 said:

mm29 said:

GL to everyone with upcoming cycles and to those cycling right now.

((Huge hugs)) to those who need them! 

Update: My DE consult is in an hour. I am very anxious and scared. I want this to give DE a try and desperately want this to work, yet have this awful fear we will spend another $40K for more failures. 

Please keep us posted on how the DE consult goes!  Is this with the SD clinic?

I actually just got home from my consult.  I decided to cycle locally because my cousin will be donating her eggs to me.  I felt cycling locally would be more convenient for everyone.  My new RE is amazing.  She was recommended to me by Zazu13.  I will start a new thread regarding my consult. 

beachy6

Hi ladies! Thanks for welcoming me so warmly. Crappy that I need to be here (or any of us) but glad to hear such rave reviews of the members

Lacy: I'm so very sorry for what you are going through. My m/c was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. No one in the entire world deserves that kind of pain. I'm so, so, very sorry.

AFM: We have a phone consult with cc.rm in a couple of weeks. I think I'm excited about it, but I can't decide. I feel like I'm just going through the motions, really. If/when we do the odwu, I'd love to plan it around our anniversary so we can use the time as a mini vacation. Sad that we need to use fertility treatments as vacations! I don't know if we'll actually do a full cycle with them, but we want to do testing with them before doing our last FET at my clinic. If they feel there is something wrong with our embryos or my body (duh!) we'll just have more information to make our new game plan. I started AF this week, which was another crappy reminder that our latest 2 embryos decided not to hang on for the long haul. With AF came the worst cramps mother nature could throw my way. Thank you endo. So, a little Tylenol 3 ended my last couple of nights. At least it let me get some sleep!

Again, thank you all for having me!!