I posted recently that we started at a new daycare. The teachers are wonderful, but I just think DDs needs are too much. She finds every smooth surface possible to stim on including the tile floor where the kids eat. They try redirecting, offering her new toys, but it only lasts a few seconds and she is back to stimming. It obviously isn't fair for them to have to focus all their attention on her when there are so many other kids. They are more than willing to try, I just don't think they will be able to change the behavior.
Are there other moms out there who have had a toddler diagnosed with ASD and you needed childcare? What do others do? I guess we will look for a new nanny, we are just struggling finding someone available the hours we need for what we can afford.