FFFC

theimpossibleastronaut

I meant that love tit @little Jerry.

phunkyphish

speer06 said:

mrs_sexy said:

I don't cover the toliet in public bathrooms and sit to pee.

Me either because there are more germs on your phone or any other surface that you touch with your hands than there are on a toilet seat.

EXCEPT:  Portajohns/Portapotty (sp?) I'd rather pee in the woods.

Add me to this list and add that I despise hoverers (sp?) that don't wipe up afterwards. I don't mind sitting on a bare seat, I do mind sitting in your pee. 

scoutkate

Also, Betsy is on probation at dance class.  If she is disruptive next week, they aren't going to let her continue.  It sucks because she takes dance at school and the class is right during her normal nap time.  I don't balme her for being cranky but I'm still completely mortified about it. 

shadypines

phunkyphish

Here's mine - I snuck out of an agency wide meeting yesterday for work because it ran over 30 minutes past my time to go. Funny part was, after I'm out the door, I see several others follow. 

missyishere

I have so much shit to get done before tomorrow, and I just don't have the motivation.  I wish I could get high, so I could clean all the things and have fun doing it. 

angelashly

HilarityEnsued said:

@angelashly that story is fucked up!  I'm sorry you had to deal with that and I'm really hoping that your LO didn't witness any of it.  If those are the caretakers of your LO, I'd consider possibly saying something to a director, that's disgusting.

But honestly, I don't think you were called a racist or a bigot (at least as your story was laid out).  I personally think that lady fully outed herself as an ignorant bigot, not the other way around. 

But... you know... according to many around here... white people can't experience racism.  So maybe this was all a dream?

She didn't hear it thank goodness and it was just another gym member. And now that you say it you are probably right that is just how I took the of course you would say that as she had that impression of me.

I usually stay out of the blacks aren't racist discussions here because I have been on this side, but I also get what others say when they say I don't know what the other side had gone through.

Also Pp who said their friend would say that no one said they have to stay in their race to date. They make that choice so don't make me feel bad about taking a " good" Guy.

missyishere

speer06 said:

missyishere said:

I have so much shit to get done before tomorrow, and I just don't have the motivation.  I wish I could get high, so I could clean all the things and have fun doing it. 

I think if I got high at work that I'd be so much more focused and get more stuff done.

Dear employers,

please provide health insurance and dank weed.  Kthnxbai!

Sincerely,

That one chick

Libby1978

ncgirlgoingtori said:

DH and I would like another baby eventually, but sometimes I get nervous that I won't love him or her as much as I love DS. 

I've never had just one child, but from what I can tell from other parents this is totally normal.

missymo

@angelashly, that is so fucked up! I'm sorry you experienced that.  It's true, that it's not a shockingly uncommon attitude, but when the fuck are people going to learn to keep their goddamn opinions to themselves?  That lady revealed herself to be a total asshole. 

missymo

IamInigoMontoya said:

HilarityEnsued said:

@angelashly that story is fucked up!  I'm sorry you had to deal with that and I'm really hoping that your LO didn't witness any of it.  If those are the caretakers of your LO, I'd consider possibly saying something to a director, that's disgusting.

But honestly, I don't think you were called a racist or a bigot (at least as your story was laid out).  I personally think that lady fully outed herself as an ignorant bigot, not the other way around. 

But... you know... according to many around here... white people can't experience racism.  So maybe this was all a dream?

I think when people say that white people can't experience racism they are mostly referring to institutional racism as opposed to interpersonal racism.

While a white person might be treated poorly or unfairly by a person from another race because of their whiteness, it is almost impossible that they can be significantly disadvantaged over their life course because of it because they are a member of the dominant race and are afforded a number of often invisible advantages as part of this membership.

Yep, that discussion has definitely been had on here...several times!  What Hilarity was referring to (I think) is that there are people on this board who believe that minorities are incapable of being racist on a personal level.  It's really just a semantics argument, because  it is apparently okay to call them bigoted, but not racist.  I still maintain that the actual definition of the word racism does not at all preclude minorities from being racist. 

No one with half a brain would argue that white people experience institutional racism...but white people can be the target of personal racism.  

acaudill75

sgreen13 said:

acaudill75 said:

shanado said:

I spent $90 on bath toys for DD last night. Online shopping is the debil.

I spent 100 at kohls.com after 30% off on melissa and doug wooden puzzles.

To be fair, some of them were gifts to other kids ...

Is Kohl's cheaper than Buy Buy Baby or Target? I'm lazy. Please do my price matching.

I find it to be, and their customer service is waaaaayyyyy better.

acaudill75

mrs_sexy said:

I don't cover the toliet in public bathrooms and sit to pee.

EWWWWW.

No.

acaudill75

scoutkate said:

Also, Betsy is on probation at dance class.  If she is disruptive next week, they aren't going to let her continue.  It sucks because she takes dance at school and the class is right during her normal nap time.  I don't balme her for being cranky but I'm still completely mortified about it. 

I love the fact that your DD is on probation. She looks like an angel, but she'll cut a bitch in dance class...

CurlyQ284

I spray my cell phone with antibacterial windex twice a week.

SunnyMeg1

I have two this week. Neither flameful, sorry.

1. I still check out blogs from Fundie families from FIL's church. After the Duggar thread I went to one and her first post is about how proud she was when her kids realized recently that the existence of dinosaurs and evolution is just. not. true. That led me into a Fundie spiral clicking on links to other blogs from there and I think I spent close to an hour and a half reading. Some of their viewpoints are just so absurd but like a train wreck, I can't look away.

2. With having both what would have been my dad's birthday and my EDD next week, my older brothers and I are all taking a day off to go do something (I don't know what yet, they are making the plans). They told me I can invite DH but I told him it was just a sibling day because I want them to buy me shit, feed me lots of junk food, and give me all the attention just like they used to when I was younger.

Oh! I do have a 3rd. I have been having intense sexual dreams about Harry thanks to @onederfulmother 's picture post the other day. He gave me a beautiful orgasm in my sleep last night. So thanks, OM, for planting it in my mind, and thank you Dream Harry for being the best subconscious lay I've had in awhile.

msdrdg

I am currently high on fumes from the adhesive they used to install my counter top.  Wheeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

But check it out!  I have a counter & sink in my bathroom!  Whooooo Hooooo!

acaudill75

LoisLayn23 said:

acaudill75 said:

scoutkate said:

Also, Betsy is on probation at dance class.  If she is disruptive next week, they aren't going to let her continue.  It sucks because she takes dance at school and the class is right during her normal nap time.  I don't balme her for being cranky but I'm still completely mortified about it. 

I love the fact that your DD is on probation. She looks like an angel, but she'll cut a bitch in dance class...

Betsy: the masturbating southern girl on probation from 3 year old dance class.

This is DD2 digging in her diaper whilst in her crib. I have no idea what she was going after, but the video was hysterical.

angelashly

I have another one.

I turn 30 in April and I am throwing myself a party or bar crawl something and I don't care.I will say no gifts though unless it is on a shot glass

It has been since before DD that I've really drank so I better start drinking more to get ready for it.

ReeseFox

DH and I are going to have our first date night in forever tomorrow. Last night we were trying to figure out what we want to do, and he shot down every single fucking idea I came up with. At this point I'd really rather just spend that time alone, doing whatever hell I feel like doing. 

scoutkate

LoisLayn23 said:

acaudill75 said:

scoutkate said:

Also, Betsy is on probation at dance class.  If she is disruptive next week, they aren't going to let her continue.  It sucks because she takes dance at school and the class is right during her normal nap time.  I don't balme her for being cranky but I'm still completely mortified about it. 

I love the fact that your DD is on probation. She looks like an angel, but she'll cut a bitch in dance class...

Betsy: the masturbating southern girl on probation from 3 year old dance class.

When she's old enough to google herself she will hate me forever. 

MelissaRae1525

angelashly said:

I was basically called racist or bigot or something yesterday.

I am in a bi-racial relationship and have been for 11 years. I wad dropping my kid off at the gym daycare and had jay-z playing on my iPod. I guess this lady heard it and said of course she would be listening to our music she clearly took one of our men. So i said he isn't one of your men and it isn't your music. She said of course you would say that you people think everything is yours.

Fffc- I was really bothered by this and I know I shouldn't be because I don't know her and to be honest I am used to dirty looks and such. Our poor country.

She's clearly crazy. I've had a lot of those comments since my first interracial relationship at 18. Don't pay attention to it.

scoutkate

Oh, I have another confession.  This one is 1DR.

Louis' 15 year old sister went on an Instagram rampage last night and called Larry shippers "deluded freaks."  Now I legit feel guilty for shipping them (although I am still 100% certain that they used to bang even if they aren't together anymore).  I think it's time to put a stop to my spiral.  I was hoping to stretch it out at least until the 3rd Divergent book comes out so I could start spiralling on that, but that's a month away.  I've realized I need some sort of obsession in my life in order to function.  What to do?? 

shadypines

@Katem3277 DS 5 still wear pull ups at night. I'm certain he will not wear pulls in college.... I'm not losing any sleep over it....  Not my first rodeo..

scoutkate

katem3277 said:

DD1 is 4 1/2 and still wears a pull up if she naps and overnight.  I'm pretty sure she is really only peeing in the pull-up because it's easier than getting up and going to the bathroom.  I'm positive I'm letting this continue because it's easier than getting up during the night and changing her bed after an accident.  Mama likes uninterrupted sleep. 

Nothing wrong with this at all. 

But it reminded me of another confession  because I have the opposite problem.  Lately Betsy insists on sleeping entirely nude.  We switched to panties over night a few weeks ago.  Now she's ditched those, too.  And god forbid I suggest PJs. 

jorkz821

scoutkate said:

Oh, I have another confession.  This one is 1DR.

Louis' 15 year old sister went on an Instagram rampage last night and called Larry shippers "deluded freaks."  Now I legit feel guilty for shipping them (although I am still 100% certain that they used to bang even if they aren't together anymore).  I think it's time to put a stop to my spiral.  I was hoping to stretch it out at least until the 3rd Divergent book comes out so I could start spiralling on that, but that's a month away.  I've realized I need some sort of obsession in my life in order to function.  What to do?? 

I confess that I understand exactly 12% of @scoutkate 's post here. What are shippers? He has many of them? He was banging them or his sister? Shipping in this context is a verb, right?
So confused.

scoutkate

jorkz821 said:

Oh, I have another confession.  This one is 1DR.

Louis' 15 year old sister went on an Instagram rampage last night and called Larry shippers "deluded freaks."  Now I legit feel guilty for shipping them (although I am still 100% certain that they used to bang even if they aren't together anymore).  I think it's time to put a stop to my spiral.  I was hoping to stretch it out at least until the 3rd Divergent book comes out so I could start spiralling on that, but that's a month away.  I've realized I need some sort of obsession in my life in order to function.  What to do?? 

I confess that I understand exactly 12% of @scoutkate 's post here. What are shippers? He has many of them? He was banging them or his sister? Shipping in this context is a verb, right? So confused.

Please see this thread for an explanation of Larry shipping.  Larry Stylinson = the possible romantic/sexual relationship of Harry Styles and Louis Tomlinson. 

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12059118/questions-help-support-regarding-harry-and-1d/p1

Maebb

@angelashly, add me to the list of people who support you. I know it's hard to just disregard what ignorant people say. I once had a problem with a boss who was a bully, and my H made me look in the mirror and quote Cool Runnings -

"I see pride! I see power! I see a bad-ass mother who don't take no crap off of nobody!" It's silly, but just hold your head high, and don't let the ignorant people out there bring you down.

ReeseFox

I've been eating like shit and I haven't worked out in a month. I was on a good path for awhile, then I hurt my knee and used it as an excuse to completely slack off. Now I've gained back the little bit of weight I'd lost and I feel like crap. For the 974509845-9-0845 time, I'm making this declaration: I'm turning over a new leaf. I will eat well. I will exercise regularly. I will stay focused and I will get back in shape and set a good example for my girls.

scoutkate

I just love-titted a post by mistake.  Then I unloved it.  Now I feel really awkward.  I should probably just re-love it but it has nothing to do with me and it was weird that I loved it in the first place. 

See, this is where my head goes when I don't have anything to fangirl over. 

MelissaRae1525

Sometimes I think if it weren't for LO, SO and I wouldn't be together.

jorkz821

Oh geez. I totally thought Larry was just a member of 1D. And I thought ship was maybe short for worship.
::goes back to cave::

But I do know which one is Niall thanks to @mackalien13!

acaudill75

MelissaRae1525 said:

Sometimes I think if it weren't for LO, SO and I wouldn't be together.

I'm the opposite. I think DH and I would fight less if it weren't for DDs.

Sorry you are feeling that way.

LoveActually4

I woke up with the worst kink in my neck ever. I'm planning in letting the kids watch TV while I sit with a heating pad on my neck and pout.

Oh and I'm running a 5k (run or dye) with SD so I need full use of my neck.
Tomorrow is my break away from the babies and I'll run it drugged up with a neck brace if I have to.

MelissaRae1525

acaudill75 said:

MelissaRae1525 said:

Sometimes I think if it weren't for LO, SO and I wouldn't be together.

I'm the opposite. I think DH and I would fight less if it weren't for DDs.

Sorry you are feeling that way.

We definitely would have less conflicts if it weren't for LO. But since we were only together a few months before I got KU (I'm a slutty slut) I've been pregnant or PP most of the time we've been together. We have a lot of outside stressors right now and I'm just praying once they go away we'll be better. Thank you

ASmallWonder

CTGirl30 said:

I think I'd make a good SAHM once my kids are both school aged and I wouldn't have to actually parent them all day long. I could handle afternoons to bedtime. And then I'd have time to hit the gym, cook more & volunteer & have hobbies...

I'd love tit this a million times if I could. 

Maebb

MelissaRae1525 said:

acaudill75 said:

MelissaRae1525 said:

Sometimes I think if it weren't for LO, SO and I wouldn't be together.

I'm the opposite. I think DH and I would fight less if it weren't for DDs.

Sorry you are feeling that way.

We definitely would have less conflicts if it weren't for LO. But since we were only together a few months before I got KU (I'm a slutty slut) I've been pregnant or PP most of the time we've been together. We have a lot of outside stressors right now and I'm just praying once they go away we'll be better. Thank you

@MelissaRae1525, sorry. I hope things get better. Have you ever read the blog "Girls Gone Child?" It's about a mom who got pregnant really quickly in her wilder days and then ended up marrying the guy, and now they have 4 kids and I think are happy. She takes beautiful pictures and is an amazing writer. Anyway, hugs.

CurlyQ284

@jack19 I don't want to quote in case you choose to delete later but that's horrible ((hugs))

Maebb

Edit: Never mind, I don't think it was a really good time for my post because I didn't know at the time about Jack's posts, and now it seems like an insensitive time for me to post a story about innocent kindergarten silliness.

Jack, sorry about what happened with you and your friend, and I agree that I hope that guy is not abusing other kids.

Helenahhandbasket

I haven't read thru a lot of this thread yet.

Wednesday I was off from work and running some errands in the morning.  A song came on called "say something".  I hadn't ever heard it before-- I think it's new- ish (or maybe I am just really out of touch) and I couldn't help but ugly cry thru the entire song.  I was crying so hard that I had to pull over so that I could collect myself.

I have no idea why that happened.