So ladies here is my question for you today... What classes are you taking and why? Are you doing Hypnobirth, Hypnobabies, any of the other thousands of offerings? How do you feel about your class and if you have previously given birth, did it work for you?
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Re: GTKY: Classes Classes and more Classes
We took the Bradley classes. I wanted my H to be my main coach and support during L&D. I liked that the classes focused on teaching him how to be a great coach, educating him on childbirth, the emotional signposts to look for, and positions/pressure points that can be used to help me with the discomfort.
We learned a lot from the class and thought it was worth it. It really paid off in my L&D and I had a wonderful birth. Since I knew what to expect and how labor progressed I was calm and collected in the first stage. I was prepared for contractions and we had lots of ways to deal with them. My H was an amazing support person and he remembered a lot of stuff we had learned in class. I did not handle second stage labor (pushing) very well. I freaked out and screamed. My LO had a nuchal hand and I don't think there was any way I could prepare for that. Overall I attribute my Bradley classes and my doula for having such a wonderful birth.
I'm super glad I took the free ones at the hospital, and the $100 birthing class series where we learned about positions and how the labor partner could help.
I also loved my prenatal yoga classes, where they showed various stretches and positions good for laboring.
I found that the book Then Birth Partner was useful to my DH.
I'm so glad I went to my acupuncturist weekly in the last month. I believe she played a huge part in helping to turn baby and to make sure I was healthy.
I'm glad I got prenatal massage. I'm glad my DH played relaxation music during the labor. I'm glad i used the hot shower. I'm glad i just listened to whatever my body told me to do, because that's what worked best. And my amazing doula, keeping my head in the game.
I kept my eyes on the prize, which was my birth plan. I maintained focused breathing. When I panicked i had the worst contractions. Controlling them was so mental.
So what I'm saying is, I just really let my body do its thing and my doula was a huge factor in helping to make it happen. Had i taken any other classes I think it would have all just gone out the window in the moment Who knows?
I didn't do a refresher course, but looked over all the materials each time and have literally listened to the CDs almost every day since 2010 (they are an amazing way to relax, and I'm not a meditation/visualization person usually!).
Obviously I loved it and felt it was effective!
Elizabeth 5yrs old Jane 3yrs old
Engaged 10/2/1202
BFP (a lil quicker than expected) 12/7/2012
Married to my best friend 12/24/2012
Beautiful baby girl arrived 8/15/2013
BFP #2 3/13/2016
DS2: Jan. 2016
DS3: Dec. 2017
Baby #4 on the way!
The natural birthing class was fantastic. It put a lot of emphasis on positions and the partner's role, which is what really got DH on board. Now he's my biggest NB advocate.
The hypnobirthing class was also good. I learned that I'm not easily hypnotized, but even if the hypnosis didn't work, the meditation and guided imagery lessons were great to help calm me and ease my labor fears. I'm going to being my hypnobirthing mp3s to the hospital with me when it's go-time in the hopes that it'll help me to relax during contractions (or surges, as they're referred to in The Mongan Method).
The only in-person class we did was a local program where you watch videos on various subjects and earn points to shop at their boutique. If you can find something like that in your area do them!! I learned a ton of information and we got all of DS's clothes for free.
B born 7/15/13, C born 3/2/15, #3 on the way May '17
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