This morning, I told DD about this loss (just found out my pregnancy is ectopic). I know it was early to tell her about the pregnancy in the first place, but we were so excited that we couldn't wait. I told her this morning that we wouldn't be able to have this baby, that it's just not growing right in my belly. When I asked her if that was OK, her eyes got big and she said, "No. It's not OK. I want a baby." I told her that I did, too, and that we would keep trying to get a baby for us all to love. Then she asked, "What baby will God let us have?" It was just so sweet. I told her - not this baby, but maybe there will be a baby for us soon.
Then she asked, "What baby will God let us have?" It was just so sweet. I told her - not this baby, but maybe there will be a baby for us soon.
Children are so wise! I think they are often underestimated and more often than not more in tune to things than adults give them credit for. I think it's because they were most recently with God.
Any-hoo, I'm very sorry for your loss. Your daughter sounds like an angel. Bless her heart.
Me: 27 DH: 33
Married 6 years Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever) May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13 November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF. No longer benched per New RE/OB! Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C March 2, 2014 First AF
Your daughter sounds a lot like mine, How sweet of her! Children can say the most precious things sometimes. So sorry for your loss, I hope you have a speedy recovery. Sending T&P your way! ((hugs))
Re: DD is so sweet - broke my heart
Any-hoo, I'm very sorry for your loss. Your daughter sounds like an angel. Bless her heart.
Me: 27 DH: 33
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF
October 2011 - DS (7)
July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)
August 2015 - DD (3)
April 2018 - 5 week loss