@jodegaard how dare you use the L word that's totally offensive to point out a lurker.
@butterfly8199 you have never posted, but are wanting to join a Facebook group that may or may not exist? Lurking on a public forum is one thing... But asking to join an alleged closed group on Facebook to lurk is a little creepy IMO.
I don't think anything of lurking, it's not weird to me at all. HOWEVER, @BPaws has pointed out the obvious beating of the dead horse and if someone has lurked this board recently, they would know the answer to questions like these.
I think what @Whittyone12 is saying, and correct me if I'm wrong, is that there are FB groups for this board, but ladies around here are very concerned with privacy on FB. So while they do exist, people don't normally invite others in if they don't know them or others in the group well. That means posting more often before asking about FB. Whit, please let me know if I misspoke here.
Maybe the lurkers should start their own group? How they would find each other is beyond me though. Well, and they would have to start posting so it wouldn't just be blank.
We don't want a bunch of random people we hardly know having access to our real full names, specific locations, etc. Everyone needs to get over it already. If you want to belong to an A12 FB group, then make one. FFS.
The main reason why I liked the fb group (for the short period of time it existed) was bc it had a lot more activity. It just grinded my gears a wee bit when it got all high school girl drama-esque with who is good enough to be invited it. In all reality, it is probably a good thing, so I don't waste my time on fb and do my wifely duties, such as cooking dinner.
The main reason why I liked the fb group (for the short period of time it existed) was bc it had a lot more activity. It just grinded my gears a wee bit when it got all high school girl drama-esque with who is good enough to be invited it. In all reality, it is probably a good thing, so I don't waste my time on fb and do my wifely duties, such as cooking dinner.
Oh, please. First, it made you "stabby" you weren't part of it, and now you're glad you won't waste your time on Facebook?
The Bump is open to the public. FB you add friends that you know, it's all your personal info. I don't understand why it's such a big deal. If there are people on here you'd like to keep in touch with on facebook, add them. It doesn't HAVE to be a group. Or if there is a whole bunch of people you consider friends make a group. I don't go up to people in a food court I don't know and say "Hey, can I sit with you?" I sit with my friends. I wouldn't get bent out of shape if strangers said "Hells no we don't want to sit with you, we don't even know you."
The Bump is open to the public. FB you add friends that you know, it's all your personal info. I don't understand why it's such a big deal. If there are people on here you'd like to keep in touch with on facebook, add them. It doesn't HAVE to be a group. Or if there is a whole bunch of people you consider friends make a group. I don't go up to people in a food court I don't know and say "Hey, can I sit with you?" I sit with my friends. I wouldn't get bent out of shape if strangers said "Hells no we don't want to sit with you, we don't even know you."
The main reason why I liked the fb group (for the short period of time it existed) was bc it had a lot more activity. It just grinded my gears a wee bit when it got all high school girl drama-esque with who is good enough to be invited it. In all reality, it is probably a good thing, so I don't waste my time on fb and do my wifely duties, such as cooking dinner.
Oh, please. First, it made you "stabby" you weren't part of it, and now you're glad you won't waste your time on Facebook?
Humm.....ever heard of sarcasm. Yeah, I probably used "stabby" in the wrong context. Give me a freaking break. And, I love how you all act like you don't cook dinner. I'm pretty sure that there is a meal plan post every week
Honestly I don't cook that often, but I'm awesome in bed so I feel like that makes me a pretty good wife. Who ever said they way to a mans heart is through his stomach, was probably a virgin.
Oh good lord- no one said they didn't cook dinner- sarcasm was met with sarcasm. Sure I cook dinner (I don't meal plan, but I cook it!). Sometimes it's even edible, SOMETIMES the smoke alarm doesn't even go off. Sometimes, rarely, but if the moon is just in the right lunar cycle and the culinary gods are smiling on us all, it tastes good as well.
Re: Is there a FB group?
@butterfly8199 you have never posted, but are wanting to join a Facebook group that may or may not exist? Lurking on a public forum is one thing... But asking to join an alleged closed group on Facebook to lurk is a little creepy IMO.
@jodegaard I was Jk.
We need a new word, for posters who don't seem to have even lurked.
Flurkers. For faux lurkers
Maybe because I'm used to FIPs (Fucking Illinois People), I see flurkers and think fucking lurkers.
Flurkers. For faux lurkers
It is not enough to click the love button. I have to double love this by commenting too!
No, you won't be accepted into it.
We don't want a bunch of random people we hardly know having access to our real full names, specific locations, etc. Everyone needs to get over it already. If you want to belong to an A12 FB group, then make one. FFS.
Oh and I call MUD on this one.
SCANDAL!
So I know I posted in the FFFC about being irritated with the "secret" fb bump groups.....but I swear this AE is not me!
I don't go up to people in a food court I don't know and say "Hey, can I sit with you?" I sit with my friends. I wouldn't get bent out of shape if strangers said "Hells no we don't want to sit with you, we don't even know you."
Mom of 2 monkeys and 1 on the way!
Christian12/06, Liam 08/12, Monkey #3 10/10
Does MySpace even exist anymore?
They recently erased all of the old profiles. I had so many great pictures on there!
SCANDAL!
im dead.