In a nutshell, I have a 5 year old daughter from a 10 year marriage that didn't work because having a baby "wasn't what he signed up for". Needless to say things didn't work out and I moved on. I have been in a absolutely amazing relationship with my BF for 4 years now and we have been trying to have a baby of our own for 2 years. Clearly it's not working:( I have a history of getting pregnant quickly (I wish I appreciated that back then). I had one m/c after one month of trying with my husband then 3 months later I got pregnant with my daughter. After a year and a half of trying with my BF I went to my GYN for advice and she ordered a SA. I got the shock of my life when the count came back very low at 2 million. We did a repeat one and that was 1 million. We were sent to a urologist who specializes in MFI. He ordered another SA and that one showed a count of 100,000. All 3 SA's had low everything across the board:( The urologist ordered blood work and his testosterone, FSH and LH were slightly high so he didn't qualify for anything like Clomid. We also did some genetic testing and luckily that all came back perfectly. At this point the doctor schedules a sonogram of BF's scrotum and what do ya know....he has a decent sized varicocele. We did the surgery 2 months ago and now it's a waiting game. The doctor feels hopeful the numbers will improve but still has a feeling we will need assistance in getting pregnant....this makes me so sad. I am praying it happens naturally or at least his numbers improve enough to allow us to do a IUI. To make matters worse our age is haunting me a little bit. I am 35 and he will be 40 in 2 weeks. I should also mention I asked my GYN to do the CD3 blood work on me for a piece of mind and it came our pretty good for my age - could of been a little better but could if been a lot worse (sorry I can't remember the exact details). I hope this is the right board, please tell me if its not:) Thank you for listening!