Is this site all about your cries...

LittleLady77

Serenla said:

J&J09 said:

Jasmineazm said:

Enjoy me being here ladies! Cause I'm here to stay till April 7th 2014! I will be that person who will be blunt and make you cry!

If you are lucky enough to get to stay.

I just... ) every time I read the bolded ) I just cannot help but laugh. 

I think those little cracking up people look like they are masturbating... which is infinity more funny.

jap618

jap618 said:

nikki912 said:

And to clarify my original post- saying i was okay with it meant that i thought i understood where she was coming from. Until she went insane and started shooting up the joint. The way i took it- she was saying it was unfair that PgAL members automatically make non PgAL members feel like crap whenever they bring up a topic or a question that PgAL members feel is trivial or insensitive due to their own circumstances. That feeling i understand. I do not support the idea that there is a pity party or any of the other horrible things she said. This comes from someone who has had a miscarriage but decides not to discuss it.

Please know that If you say something insensitive then yes I am going to call you on it.  I'm not all puppies & rainbows and will not respond that way.  I will not feel bad if I call you on your insensitivity.  I do however understand that you most likely will not intend to hurt and it is merely meant as an educational opportunity.  Please do not take it as more than that.

Edit:  Despite that it doesn't sit well with me it also doesn't sit well with me to put it in words.  So I've deleted.

nikki912

Woah there. Dial it back a notch because you obviously didnt understand a damn word i said. I have no problem with people talking about miscarriages. Its not that they are brought up its that seem to be brought up to make ignorant people feel bad. For example you think the word "scored" was stupid. And as someone who has lost a child i understand that but to make her feel bad for using it because you dont like it is the kind of behavior i was talking about in my previous post. ONCE AGAIN i never said nor will i ever support the idea that peoe cant discuss their miscarriages. Its when they use that information to make other people feel bad or feel stupid. That is just mean. ETA:people

Serenla

nikki912 said:

Woah there. Dial it back a notch because you obviously didnt understand a damn word i said.
I have no problem with people talking about miscarriages. Its not that they are brought up its that seem to be brought up to make ignorant people feel bad. For example you think the word "scored" was stupid. And as someone who has lost a child i understand that but to make her feel bad for using it because you dont like it is the kind of behavior i was talking about in my previous post.

ONCE AGAIN i never said nor will i ever support the idea that peoe cant discuss their miscarriages. Its when they use that information to make other people feel bad or feel stupid. That is just mean.

ETA:people

They were not using a past mc to make the op feel bad.

thomas930

Stating facts does not equal intent to make someone feel bad

Barihoop

nikki912 said:

@barihoop

Was that directed at me? If so im going to need a follow up.

Not directed at anyone specifically. I just cannot believe the disrespect and lack of sensitivity for the PgAL and TTCAL ladies on this board. It's appalling.

nikki912

Fine whatever. I dont care. I was hoping people would be able to look at this objectirly and realize that puting things in quotes or mentioning that they are lucky to be pregnant because other people have had losses is unnecessary and at times mean. Do what you want, say what you want. I dont care anymore. ETA: Objectively

Serenla

nikki912 said:

Fine whatever. I dont care. I was hoping people would be able to look at this objectirly and realize that puting things in quotes or mentioning that they are lucky to be pregnant because other people have had losses is unnecessary and at times mean. Do what you want, say what you want. I dont care anymore.
ETA: Objectively

Quoting usually helps.

Barihoop

And FWIW, I am not PgAL (though I did deal with infertility), and I find the use of the word "scored" to be at best insensitive. Yes, it's nice that I get several ultrasounds, but I would much rather be "perfect" and healthy and low risk.

Jasmineazm

Lol Serenla! Your a good laugh =D>
I love your animation!!!

jap618

nikki912 said:

Fine whatever. I dont care. I was hoping people would be able to look at this objectirly and realize that puting things in quotes or mentioning that they are lucky to be pregnant because other people have had losses is unnecessary and at times mean. Do what you want, say what you want. I dont care anymore. ETA: Objectively

Pregnancy is a blessing and women are lucky to be able to get pregnant and carry babies to full term. Not because I've had losses but because so many women suffer from infertility, miscarriage and loss.  

Jasmineazm

Lol nicki your one of those one kids, huh?

LittleLady77

okay... so just to clarify this "its that seem to be brought up to make ignorant people feel bad" is the premise to your argument?

Let's examine that.  First of all, you called he OP ignorant.  Nice.  You also called me nasty, I'm still waiting for you to tell me what parts of my post were "sending nasty your way".

In this case the OP asked a question about early ultrasounds, the vast majority or women who can legitimately answer that question are people who have had infertility and loss.  The reason they are getting the early ultrasounds is because of the infertility and loss.  Was there snark in there sure, it's painful to relive.  Do I consider the word scored to be inappropriate in that context, yes. But honestly, she asked a question to a bunch on infertility/loss and the answer to the question was infertility/loss... how were they supposed to answer to make the OP feel less "bad"?

Really, what's it to you?  Why would you go about even trying to make this argument? Is it because you "feel bad"? or is it that you feel bad that someone else feels bad? Either way, it's ridiculous to tell a whole group of people to stop commenting on the internet in a certain way to make you feel better.  Get over yourself.

Jasmineazm

You bully broads!! Hahaha! Omg! I love it!!

nikki912

@LittleLady77 To be honest i stopped reading. Youre obviously hostile and still have not a clue what im talking about and im not in the mood. Im done. Have a good night ladies.

bookwormfnp

You won't be here to stay if something happens to you little one like it did many of ours. But I honestly hope that never happens to you

Manda+panda

@LittleLady77 you're one of the few names I recognize on the board, your into is firmly planned in my head. Serenla is right. Don't feed the trolls. I know, I want to smash faces for this crap, we deserve better. We deserve easy pregnancy, no fear and naivety. We don't get that. We don't get the respect we should have, nor the support. But, your twins need you Zen. Not focused on asshats. It's not worth it. OP is ignorant. Any person who agrees with them is also ignorant. You can't fix their stupid.

Edit: spelling/grammar

bthlgh

Oh no - its working - the OP is turning us against each other!! Don't fall for it ladies!!!

jap618

bthlgh said:

Oh no - its working - the OP is turning us against each other!! Don't fall for it ladies!!!

If other's weren't so ignorant then it wouldn't happen.  They did it to themselves.

2010weddinggal

poking in from dec 13, to the op your just something else huh? Well I save only special gif's for people like you:

LittleLady77

Manda+panda said:

@LittleLady77 you're one of the few names I recognize on the board, your into is firmly planned in my head. Serenla is right. Don't feed the trolls. I know, I want to smash faces for this crap, we deserve better. We deserve easy pregnancy, no fear and naivety. We don't get that. We don't get the respect we should have, nor the support. But, your twins need you Zen. Not focused on asshats. It's not worth it. OP is ignorant. Any person who agrees with them is also ignorant. You can't fix their stupid. Edit: spelling/grammar

I'm board and on bed rest ">  Nothing good is on TV right now

jap618

jap618

This is how our board goes.  Oh joy.

Manda+panda

@LittleLady77 lol. I feel ya. I'm not allowed to work, so I'm pretty bored, too. Just don't let anyone get you too stressed.

Gatorsgirl731

OP your an ass hat. 

Better yet your disgusting.  I can't even comprehend the trash you are. 

Stay strong April!

Jasmineazm

Now lets go cry ourselves to bed or sit up laughing at such rivers!!! Looks like ill be laughing!!!

Gatorsgirl731

I'm sure your sons are as disgusted by you as we all are. 

Jasmineazm

Not all!! They are quite lovey sweetheart!!

Jasmineazm

Hahahha!!! Looks like I can't hide! ;;)

Gatorsgirl731

I am embarrassed for you.  And quite concerned what kind of person says things like this?

Manda+panda

Op, were both further along than 2w. No such thing as 2 weeks pregnant. That's called ovulation. I'm 7w6d. I have fluid outside of my gestational sac, my doc said no lifting over 25 pounds, I work as a nurses aid, my boss said I can't lift, I can't work. LittleLady has other circumstances.

Edit: my gif didn't work

Serenla

Manda+panda said:

Op, were both further along than 2w. No such thing as 2 weeks pregnant. That's called ovulation. I'm 7w6d. I have fluid outside of my gestational sac, my doc said no lifting over 25 pounds, I work as a nurses aid, my boss said I can't lift, I can't work. LittleLady has other circumstances. Edit: my gif didn't work

Ahhh, I love Cas.

Jasmineazm

I loooove it! I love how all you pregs get panties in a bunch when you can't handle the truth! I'm here and will be here till April 7th! Enjoy... At least 1/2 of what I get to from the thread!!!

Manda+panda

...I can't stop myself...I have no self control...somebody kick me off the bump...here goes...

"all you pregs" Troll. You aren't even pregnant. Idjit. Just admitted as much with your us vs. them wording. Can't you go find a bridge to hide under? If you go to Seattle, you can hang out with the Freemonth troll. Trust me, it is a much better suited life for the likes of you. IDJITS!

cherylnicole

Jasmineazm said:

I loooove it! I love how all you pregs get panties in a bunch when you can't handle the truth! I'm here and will be here till April 7th! Enjoy... At least 1/2 of what I get to from the thread!!!

Uses the word "pregs"?? Ugh.

Heeb918

Jasmineazm said:

I loooove it! I love how all you pregs get panties in a bunch when you can't handle the truth! I'm here and will be here till April 7th! Enjoy... At least 1/2 of what I get to from the thread!!!

All you pregs? Seriously? Way to out yourself. Apparently the cool new thing to do is spend nights on boards where people don't want you, stirring up shit when you're not even pregnant. Get a life.

Jasmineazm

Lmao!!!! We should be the April 13 sisters!! What do you say?!?

jgreig83

Jasmineazm

This whole thread is disgusting. If you think that us Pgal girls are just going to lay down and let you walk all over us, you have another thing coming. Take a look at the Pgal check in and how many of us there are. I would watch what you say. People like you are tough in the forums, but I wonder what you'd say to my face if I knocked on your door.

peitri

{{lurking}} I say ladies, like in PP's, just stop posting in this thread. It isn't worth it.

Go start a gif party thread instead. Always makes Dec 13 feel better!

1983sas

What's actually most upsetting about the ignorant post here is that people 'love' it.  Seriously?  We have some bitches, and they aren't the PgAL ladies.