Is this site all about your cries...

LesleyH11

Wow, aren't you a real bitch. 

Serenla

Manda+panda said:

Whinny? WE ARE ALL HORSES NOW!!! Karma is what you will get for being an ignorant, insensitive twatwaffle. 

figgs0831

Oh my. I'm just going to sit back and enjoy the show

J&NL

Edited: Gif fail.

Mamamonzo

Ok ladies what is MUD?

Jasmineazm

Your only 2 months pregnant if that! You can't possibly have gained weight of a horse already!?

Manda+panda

Well, my wonderful Hubs was the one to tell me about this thread. I left Bump up on the laptop...and he was like umm...and handed it to me and let me have fun. He lost the baby, too. He cried, mourned, and is scared, too. So, do not feel bad for him. He understands. Got a very open and warm heart. Hell, even his family understands. And I don't see eye to eye with his family. 

edit:  had an extra and, guess I was going to go on, but decided against it.

mandiroo

karissamonzo said:

Ok ladies what is MUD?

Made Up Drama

J&NL

karissamonzo said:

Ok ladies what is MUD?

made up drama. 

tiffy81

I realize why the original post would be upsetting to some and at the same time I can understand the post. I think sometimes it's depressing and disheartening to see so many posts about miscarriages. It's sad and I think maybe most of us want to be happy and see enlightening positive posts. Personally I've just decided to not read any more sad or goodbye posts.

Manda+panda

Jasmineazm said:

Your only 2 months pregnant if that! You can't possibly have gained weight of a horse already!?

Oh, no, dear, that horse shit was directly aimed at your spelling. Horses whinny. People can be whiny. Big difference. Also, horse shit is directed at your horse shit.

Serenla

AndieD6709 said:

@Serenla, you are on point and I absolutely love it.

@AndieD6709 I have, sadly, had a lot of practice with this kind of crap.

bthlgh

Earlier I made a comment about a lot of these awful posts being some poor pathetic DUDE with nothing better to do. People didn't seem to get it - but please, there is no way NO WAY that this is some emotional pregnant woman being this awful. Gotta be some stupid, lonely guy with no friends and nothing to do but troll and harass. Best to ignore the bastard

Serenla

Mamamonzo

J&NL said:

karissamonzo said:

Ok ladies what is MUD?

made up drama. 

Thanks! Boy do I feel old for not knowing that!

J&NL

Manda+panda

I was actually quite kind to her. I wasn't snarky. I was polite. I even felt FOR her. I could see where she was coming from. Someone telling me to get over the loss of my baby 3 months ago? No. That I can't take nicely. And, I DID NOT want an early ultrasound. But, my doc order it due to a previous loss, hemorrhaging before my d&c and possible scaring DUE to my d&c. So, yes, I had an early ultra sound, but no, I never asked for it. And, also, it made me feel worse.

boxerbabylove

Jasmineazm said:

About miscarrying and infertility?!? I opened a thread to read someone being attacked for asking about ultrasounds and million of you started crying about your past pregnancies as if no one who had your issues is entitled to an ultrasound because they didn't miscarry or have issues trying. Get over yourself please!!! We are all pregnant now... So no need for pity parties, Please!

Not everyone on this forum has their panties in a bunch. I've miscarried and I personally take no

offense to what you said. Everyone handles things differently, and the internet is a great place for insecure people to take out their misplaced anger, aggression and even depression out on others. 

This forum is really full of them and they get all worked up when you point out they might be wrong, have misunderstood, or even GOD FORBID too sensitive about a topic. 

Please look past the noise because there are some really great people here as well, you just have to look past the immaturity and the bad behavior so conveniently blamed on hormones. 

thomas930

Oh dear lord OP   (:|  8-|

:-q

Serenla

Manda+panda said:

I was actually quite kind to her. I wasn't snarky. I was polite. I even felt FOR her. I could see where she was coming from. Someone telling me to get over the loss of my baby 3 months ago? No. That I can't take nicely. And, I DID NOT want an early ultrasound. But, my doc order it due to a previous loss, hemorrhaging before my d&c and possible scaring DUE to my d&c. So, yes, I had an early ultra sound, but no, I never asked for it. And, also, it made me feel worse.

Don't feed it!

LittleLady77

Infertility and loss are a part of TTC for many many people.  If you want to find a place where people are asked to sweep their horrific experiences under the rug to make you feel better you should probably get off the internet entirely.  It's a part of life and statistically speaking you should be thankful it happened to me and not you. 

A friend of mine had to deliver a dead baby at 5 months.  I will never be able to look into my children's eyes and see myself.  You think it's okay to ask me not to talk about it on a public support forum about pregnancy because it annoys you? Wow.

MissHSoonToBeMrsS

Ok we are a group of very different women with very different life experiences. That being said, not everything will positive puppy poop posts. Some people have had a loss which is something we should be sensitive towards.

nikki912

While the OP surprisingly didnt make me crazy all the OP subsequent ones are too batshit- trying to start something. My guess is a made up sn of a drama queen already on here trying to hide behind anonymity. Best to ignore. Don't they have a button you can press to ignore certain posters?

jap618

WOW.  What is with the white knights around here?  You guys are a piece of work.  I'm pretty sure the OP is MUD so she means nothing to me but the other ones that actually are ok with what she is saying.  There are so many rude and inconsiderate people on this board.  Thank goodness my friends and family are far more supportive than you.  I truly hope none of your friends or family have ever dealt with miscarriage/loss or infant death.  You guys are truly rude, horrible people.  

To all the PgAL ladies & ladies who have struggled with infertility challenges:  I'm so sorry you had to deal with this today. 

Serenla

jap618 said:

WOW.  What is with the white knights around here?  You guys are a piece of work.  I'm pretty sure the OP is MUD so she means nothing to me but the other ones that actually are ok with what she is saying.  There are so many rude and inconsiderate people on this board.  Thank goodness my friends and family are far more supportive than you.  I truly hope none of your friends or family have ever dealt with miscarriage/loss or infant death.  You guys are truly rude, horrible people.  

To all the PgAL ladies & ladies who have struggled with infertility challenges:  I'm so sorry you had to deal with this today. 

There seem to be a few...

MissHSoonToBeMrsS

Serenla said:

jap618 said:

WOW.  What is with the white knights around here?  You guys are a piece of work.  I'm pretty sure the OP is MUD so she means nothing to me but the other ones that actually are ok with what she is saying.  There are so many rude and inconsiderate people on this board.  Thank goodness my friends and family are far more supportive than you.  I truly hope none of your friends or family have ever dealt with miscarriage/loss or infant death.  You guys are truly rude, horrible people.  

To all the PgAL ladies & ladies who have struggled with infertility challenges:  I'm so sorry you had to deal with this today. 

There seem to be a few...

Agreed.  OP was obviously MUD, but I am shocked people actually agree!

Heeb918

This thread just wouldn't be the same without you, @serenla !!! I'm so glad you are here!

nikki912

And to clarify my original post- saying i was okay with it meant that i thought i understood where she was coming from. Until she went insane and started shooting up the joint. The way i took it- she was saying it was unfair that PgAL members automatically make non PgAL members feel like crap whenever they bring up a topic or a question that PgAL members feel is trivial or insensitive due to their own circumstances. That feeling i understand. I do not support the idea that there is a pity party or any of the other horrible things she said. This comes from someone who has had a miscarriage but decides not to discuss it.

Barihoop

Really? REALLY?!

Serenla

Mrs+Hebert said:

This thread just wouldn't be the same without you, @serenla !!! I'm so glad you are here!

Thanks lady

nikki912

@barihoop Was that directed at me? If so im going to need a follow up.

BethanyBU

dumb question...whats MUD?   :-/

LittleLady77

@nikki912 my post was directed right at you.  Go ahead... let's hear your response.

jap618

ncchnat said:

Jasmineazm said:

Your POOR Partners... If this is what you are now... Oh, goodness warn your partner to go have a few before aiming home!! (

BINGO!

What?

Edit:  @ncchant I was so scared that you weren't here for us and got nervous!!  Thank you for coming in, it's always appreciated to be supported.  

Serenla

jap618 said:

ncchnat said:

Jasmineazm said:

Your POOR Partners... If this is what you are now... Oh, goodness warn your partner to go have a few before aiming home!! (

BINGO!

What?

*raises eyebrow* I was wondering the same thing lol.

LittleLady77

BethanyBU said:

dumb question...whats MUD?   :-/

Made up drama.  Someone creating a fake profile just to upset people.  AKA trolls

Serenla

J&J09 said:

Jasmineazm said:

Enjoy me being here ladies! Cause I'm here to stay till April 7th 2014! I will be that person who will be blunt and make you cry!

If you are lucky enough to get to stay.

I just... ) every time I read the bolded ) I just cannot help but laugh. 

nikki912

Im sorry @LittleLady77 but i dont know what youre talking about. I really thought my clarification would get me out of the doghouse. Please reread what i wrote before you send nasty things my way. If there is something i need to expand on further please let me know and id be happy to do so.

LittleLady77

@nikki92 sure your clarification let you escape the crazy of the troll, no one believes that chick is even real, but you?!?!  You are real and you seem to really believe that the previous post being mentioned was not okay. 

Let's take a look at what actually happened:

1. An uneducated girl asked a question about getting early ultrasounds
2. people who have had early ultrasounds responded with how they got them
3. The snark you refer to is because some of us repeated the word "scored" because it was a stupid term to use if the first place
4. Did the OP feel bad for making a newbie mistake, probably but no one said anything hurtful towards her except maybe that she should consider herself lucky.

Now let's here it... your response.  What part of our experiences should we refrain from sharing with you and others just to make you feel better? 

Should I tell my friend who had to deliver a dead baby at 5 months to keep it to herself when talking on these boards?  Or perhaps she should just keep the pain she feels and will always feel in check?

Lastly... what nasty thing did I "send your way"? 

jap618

nikki912 said:

And to clarify my original post- saying i was okay with it meant that i thought i understood where she was coming from. Until she went insane and started shooting up the joint. The way i took it- she was saying it was unfair that PgAL members automatically make non PgAL members feel like crap whenever they bring up a topic or a question that PgAL members feel is trivial or insensitive due to their own circumstances. That feeling i understand. I do not support the idea that there is a pity party or any of the other horrible things she said. This comes from someone who has had a miscarriage but decides not to discuss it.

Please know that If you say something insensitive then yes I am going to call you on it.  I'm not all puppies & rainbows and will not respond that way.  I will not feel bad if I call you on your insensitivity.  I do however understand that you most likely will not intend to hurt and it is merely meant as an educational opportunity.  Please do not take it as more than that.