Have a welcome home party at our house after the baby is born (we are adopting by the way). I think it would be easier so people could see the baby's room and I wouldn't have to bring the baby and presents home from another shower location. I think my sisters want it to be a welcome home baby shower. We also have to stay out of state for a week to a week and a half. WWYD? Thanks.
Re: So is it cheesy to...
it's not cheesy to have a "meet the baby" party, but combining it with a shower is iffy. ?most likely, people will bring gifts anyway.
if your sisters want to throw you a shower, that should be a totally different thing. ?
personally, i would just opt for the first idea, and enjoy introducing everyone to the new baby. ?congratulations on your adoption.?