Preemies

Anyone feel sad when

their actual due date came?  Mine is Sunday and thinking about it makes me sad.  I don't know why.  Crying
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Re: Anyone feel sad when

  • I sang a very merry unbirthday  to myself. I was happy to have been able to be with my babies for the last 7 weeks, but yes, it did stir up some sad feelings that they would be much healthier and chubbier had they stayed put till their due date.
  • I'm happy to not be pregnant anymore because I was REALLY sick when I was, but I'm sad she didn't stay the whole time and that I didn't get to experience the very last part of my pregnancy. 
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  • My EDD has not come yet.  It was suppose to be Jan. 17th, but after I gave birth DD at 26 wks. I did have a little depression about her being born so early and not being able to enjoy the last part of my pregnancy.  I started to feel sad about the things I missed like not having a baby shower, maternity pictures, and  how big I would have gotten.  I didn't even have a glucose test.  I know when my actual due date comes these feelings will come again.  I think it's normal to feel this way.
  • Most definitely!  I felt jipped and I felt the babies got jipped.  I had a pity party for myself about all that could have been.  But then I think at how well they are doing and I try not to let it bother me...but I will probably feel that way every year on their EDD.
  • DS was still in the NICU on his EDD, so I made unbirthday cupcakes for the nurses... I wasn't sad, more incredulous of all that had happened to us and him when he should have been in utero the whole time!
  • YES, I get sad all the time just thinking about it. But I think a lot has to do with the fact that Cody is still in the NICU and not home with me. So I miss him sooo much.
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