TTC After a Loss

Do you cry more easily now?

I go back and forth with feeling fine and joking around and then all of the sudden, I'll have a lump in my throat and my eyes will fill up. I feel like the last year has made me more emotional. I know it's normal, but anyone else? Does it feel like your emotions are just under the surface?

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Re: Do you cry more easily now?

  • I do.   I find i cry over everything any more.

    10/17/2009 - Our Miracle came 10 weeks early. IF,2 MC and 1 Preemie we have our miracle.. Baby Hope 10 weeks 5days was taken from us on Dec 18, 2007. Forever with us and Forever missed. Triplets Lost baby A @ weeks, Lost Baby B at 6 weeks and lost baby Abigail at 14 weeks when she was born to little for this life..... Forever with us ....
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  • Absolutely.  I think I used to be able to control my emotions much better.  Now, I can be set off really easily and start tearing up.
  • Omg, Yes! Pre m/c I would never cry over a movie or a commercial or anything. I could hold my own pretty well. But now, forget it. I don't go into full on hysterics like I would those 1st few months but now I could tear up over nothing, like dh's dog carrying around her squeaky toy like a baby (gotta love that false-pg thing dogs do). I still feel crazy though thinking 'why the hell would I crazy over that' but I do...
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  • ::::::raises hand::::

    And to prove it, I am sobbing right now.

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  • YES, i feel like i have to cry all the time...sometimes i can control it and hold back the tears, but other times i'm a mess.
  • CryingOh yes. I'm an emotional wreck.
    Started TTC in August 2007, 1st BFP March 2008, natural m/c April 11th, 2008. 2nd BFP 1/1/09, diagnosed with possible ectopic 1/16/09, got Methotrexate shot 1/18/09. On Bromocriptine to balance my high prolactin levels (thanks to tiny brain tumor) that messes with my body. Long cycles and unexplained infertility suck monkey balls! July 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot TI prog. supps= negative. August 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot IUI prog. supps=negative. September 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot b2b IUI's prog. supps: negative. October 09- Clomid 100mg HCG b2b IUI's prog.supps: negative. November 09- cycle cancelled due to cyst.... IVF is next.... December 09- Beginning of IVF, Lupron, BCP's Jan-Feb 10- IVF retrieved 6 matured eggs, all fertilized, 2 transferred, 1 lost, 3 frozen= BFP! betas: 8dp5dt (13dpo)= 176, 11dp5dt (16dpo)= 728! October 2010: Boy/Girl twins born. Now... trying to get fit!
  • Definitely.  I was emotional to start with but this has been such a long and hard year.  I cry at everything and anything now. 

    After 2 m/cs, dx October 2008 with hetero factor v leiden & mthfr & low progesterone; third time was the charm - BFP 3/19/09 on first cycle of clomid. Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imageluvsbunny:

    ::::::raises hand::::

    And to prove it, I am sobbing right now.

    Oh Hon, I'm so sorry. I wish I could give you a real hug.

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  • i think we are all emotionally unstable right now. lol  And what do I do to myself??? Watch a Baby Story, and Adoption Story every morning getting ready for work! And every morning I cry.  My son finally said to me, why do you watch this stuff every morning if it makes you cry so much?  I couldn't answer him! lol
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    imageluvsbunny:

    ::::::raises hand::::

    And to prove it, I am sobbing right now.

    Oh Hon, I'm so sorry. I wish I could give you a real hug.

     

    Thanks. You are a sweetie.

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  • Yes.  I was never much of a cryer before, but now I am big time.  My students will give me hugs and I get that lump in my throat and the tears start to well up.
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  • OMG!!  When I saw this post I had to click on it immediately!  I was never a big crier but I swear at I cry at all the sappy movies now.. I'm watching Ghost Whisperer and totally crying it is crazy!!   I think all of the emotions are right under the surface after the m/c.. i'm glad to know that i am not alone in this..  btw.. i love the tissues with the VIcks in it, it gives you a little kick!!
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