We are pregnant with our second baby and just wondering what people thoughts are about having a shower for the second baby? My mother says that you don't have a second shower and we really don't need anything besides diapers I just think that a shower is a way to celebrate another phase of life and another baby...
Re: 2nd baby... shower?
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Dude, no. Babies all need the same shit. If you bought a pink stroller and have to push your boy around in it, them's the breaks. Or go to a buy/sell/trade group and swap. You know some people actually have children without finding out the sex first, right? Your logic is ridiculous
Second, I don't agree with most posters that a baby shower is about motherhood. Otherwise it would be a motherhood shower.
Third, do what works with your friends and family. Since it is my experience that every baby gets celebrated, listening to the internet doesn't work for me.
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That doesn't change the facts. And great advice, ignore the impartial strangers who have no reason to lie versus the people closest to you who will likely go along with whatever you want. Makes a lot of sense.
It is not anyone else's problem that your kids are 15 years apart. Your family is being generous, but you don't have to have a shower...
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