Ok so last night i woke up really po'd at dh. I had this dream that my water broke while he was out fishing. So my friend took me to the hospital where he said he would meet me. Well an hour passes and he is still not there so my friend's hubby went to go look for him another hour passes he finally finds him to find him still fishing!!!! in my dream by the time dh shows up to the delivery room the dr is handing my baby to me and im crying bc dh cared more about fishing than the birth of our son... so when i woke up i punched him in what i thought was his face (we sleep with our room pitch black) but instead it was the back of his head... my hand is all swollen he didnt feel at thing (i swear his head is made of steel) however when i called him a stupid jerk (and some other choice words) he then woke up and asked what the attitude was about... i told him to leave me alone that i didn't want to talk to him... well this morning when I got up i got him some doughnuts bc i felt bad... he had no clue until this evening... he didnt even remember me cussing at him... when i told him about it he laughed and said i should know better, that he wouldn't go fishing w/o me.... lol
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Re: so i punched dh in the head....
My DH talks in his sleep all the time and because of his job (he's a police officer) he can have some very violent dreams or 'reinactments' of his days at work - there's been times where he's rolling over with his fists clenched and I'm scared he'll punch me. Other nights I record our zombie-like conversations to use as black mail the next day (normally it's so I can get him to go buy me whatever candy or ice cream I'm craving haha).
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here lately other than work he's been making sure i go everywhere with him... even if he's just going to redbox up the street to return the movies... it gets on my nerves but its sweet
thank you sweety i feel better knowing that im not alone
This. I've had dreams where I was PISSED at H. And I wake up in an angry mood. Til I realize what the hell happened and that it was a dream. I can't imagine hitting my DH because I was mad about a dream? Now if you were ASLEEP, maybe. IDK if I read this whole thing wrong. Maybe you said you were asleep and hit him? If you were awake and hit him that's odd to me.
Baby #4; 7/7/2018
you need help. and anger management.
preferably before your LO is born and ends up being on the receiving end.
This! I wanna strangle DH ALOT, but I don't.....
All of this...especially over a DREAM THAT DIDN'T EVEN HAPPEN. I believe that's called abuse.
it was back in october that the hitting him in the chest thing happends... im not a violent person but my emotions are a little out of control right now
In her OP she said "I punched him in what I thought was the face, but ended up being the back of the head"
She thought she was punching her husband, in the face, over a dream. That's a bit much.
Baby #4; 7/7/2018
and would very much be defined as abuse. If the roles were reversed here, people would be telling her to leave and to call the cops.
I don't hold women to a different standard.
What? This is exactly spousal abuse. Like pp's have said, if the roles were reversed, this would be a huuuuge deal.
OP, I like you a lot and I think that your posts are entertaining, but this one caught me off guard and totally shocked me. This is not ok.
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When my pregnant emtions get out of control, I cry and eat ice cream. Assult and battery never really enter my mind as something to actually do----no matter how much I may want to.
what i've learned from this post is:
1. pregnancy is apparently a good excuse for acting crazy
2. there are ppl that thibk a woman hitting a man is no biggie, but a man hitting a woman is abuse.
I shall call you Amber