..who just miscarried at about 2-4 weeks she wasn;t really sure. She is so upset that she doesn't even want to talk. Do you ladies have any advice for me so I can try and comfort her? I'm well aware that nothing I can say can make it better but I figured there might be something I could do. TIA!
Re: I have a friend
All of this - especially the bit about the cliches. When you miscarry, you don't want to hear all the stuff people spew out because they don't know what to say or feel uncomfortable or think it will help - you just want to know that the person is there for you and understands and acknowledges what you've lost. All you need to say is "I'm sorry for your loss - please let me know if there's anything I can do for you," and then just be there for her.
Recovering after a miscarriage is difficult emotionally and physically (you're in a huge state of hormonal flux, plus grieving a lost child) - she'll definitely need your emotional support, and might appreciate help with simple things like dinner (the LAST thing either DH or I wanted to think about was cooking and washing dishes!).
You sound like a good friend and I'm sure she'll be very thankful to have you by her side.