February 2013 Moms

Are we still having sex??

Sorry, I would make this a poll, but the Poll button isn't working.  Embarrassed
SAHM to DD1 (7), DS (5) and DD2 (1)
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Re: Are we still having sex??

  • I am SO not interested, but I feel bad for DH.  At this stage of the game, it seems ridiculous at the worst, comedic at best.

    Anyone still getting busy?

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  • ahahahahahahahahahaha

    No. 

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  • We are once or twice a week. It's true that it's often more comical than sexy.

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  • We are...not that it's easy to find comfortable positions though....

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  • Yes, about once a week, and it's all for DH. I am not interested at all.

    DH even said (jokingly...at least I hope) that we need to increase the frequency now with LO being due so soon, because it's going to be awhile once he's born.  If looks could kill... 

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  • Yes.
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  • I want to, but between the exhaustion and the awkward positioning, if it doesn't happen, I'm ok with it. Haha.
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  • I wish we were, but I sometimes get the impression that DH feels a bit awkward about it at this stage.  And when he feels awkward, that really dampens the mood.  Plus I know he still thinks I'm too tired, sore, etc to be doing that much physical activity.  Maybe I'll jump him some night this week.  I'm getting antsy.
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  • i try to at least once a week...LOL

    I feel bad for DH...haha...and to think that it will be at least 5-6 weeks after baby gets here...Im trying to "satisfy" him before the drought...LOL

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  • Up until two days ago we were.  Now the bump seems to get in the way :(

  • Yes, but it's really just uncomfortable for me.  I do it for him, and bc semen helps soften the cervix.
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  • Yes at 35 weeks it feels GREAT! The best it's been since I got pregnant! Sorry if TMI hehehe
  • Lets up it this way:

    I cant even remember the last time i had sex! hahaha

     

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    Lets up it this way:

    I cant even remember the last time i had sex! hahaha

     

    This totally! I feel like I am the only one not having sex...I think we have had it a total of 2 or 3 times since I have been pregnant....YIKES
  • We were almost daily up until 31 weeks, when I spent a night in L&D for contractions and got put on pelvic rest :( I was taken off at 34 weeks, and we've only had sex about 4 times since then. He's become too scared it'll set me off, but I'm still ready to go!! I somehow managed to keep my increased sex drive this entire time. Now, the past few times we've done it, the positioning has become extremely awkward so we may be stuck with doggy style from here on out... and I could see how the repetition may kind of kill the mood =/
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  • Ahh no... i try because i feel bad for DH but its just so uncomfortable and I'm never in the mood. But now that I'm almost 38 weeks I'm going to try to suck it up to help get things going and since it will be 6 weeks after the birth til we can have some fun again!
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    Yes, but it's really just uncomfortable for me.  I do it for him, and bc semen helps soften the cervix.

    REALLY? I didn't know that. Cool!

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  • I want to for DH but the bleeding after is just too stressful. I think we might start resorting to other forms of bedroom activity :)
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  • I want it, DH doesn't. He said it's weird knowing there's a baby in there kicking. I'm going crazyyyy!

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  • Last attempt ended with me in tears first because I was in pain - cervix felt like it was being assaulted. Next because I am the worst wife ever for not being able to do it. Luckily I have a very sweet and understanding DH.
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  • Nope.  We've only had sex once since being pregnant.  I was on pelvic rest after my IVF, and when my RE "lifted" the ban we gave it a go.  Within 12 hours my SCH opened up and I was bleeding like crazy.  DH said he's too afraid to have sex with me.  I miss it -  a lot.
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    Lets up it this way:

    I cant even remember the last time i had sex! hahaha

     

    This totally! I feel like I am the only one not having sex...I think we have had it a total of 2 or 3 times since I have been pregnant....YIKES

    This is us. So sad. I feel bad for my DH but he's so great about it. As soon as I'm cleared after the baby gets here I'll make it up to him.

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  • We also have not had sex in weeks and I started to feel really bad about it. It got to the point where I was breaking down crying. My DH has been nothing, but great and he says he does not want it. I talked to my midwife and she told me that it was my homework to have sex with my DH. Of course he now has a nasty cold.

  • Not really. Once every couple of weeks we do, but there are only two positions that work (spooning and doggie), and neither one of us likes them very much. It's very awkward. I have pretty much no sex drive, so it doesn't bother me. DH hasn't been much into it either lately.
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  • Yup - it?s "business time" every weekend Wink

    We are limited to spoons now as far as positions go, but I?m very happy that we are managing to keep our  weekly appointment. I feel a real need to stay connected with DH and he?s super attentive, so I?m always more than satisfied

    It is rather...odd when Delilah?s kicking up a storm, but  we both know we won?t get it on much after she arrives, so  we are making the most of it while we can. Big Smile

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  • Were we ever? ;)  No, not really since conception.  I went from three months of severe vomitting to ten weeks of severe coughing to a broken rib.  Poor guy is a really, really good sport.

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  • Yes - a few days ago.  But I warned DH that it could be the last time.  I'm 37 weeks and feel gigantic!
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    It is rather...odd when Delilah?s kicking up a storm, but  we both know we won?t get it on much after she arrives, so  we are making the most of it while we can. Big Smile

    This! LO always starts shoving at my ribs and I try not to jump away in pain 'cuz that kinda freaks DH out.

    I had wanted to get it on a ton at this point to soften the cervix, but after the last time which was promptly followed by an entire night of painful contractions and then a whole day of what felt like one permanent BH - I don't know that I can do it. Being well rested before going into labor is important too. 

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  • Really want to but last time we did I spent the whole time trying to avoid a charlie horse and now he's too freaked out with the idea of it because she's getting bigger...lol.
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