November 2012 Moms

How's your sex life?

Not too much going on around these parts. I hate to admit it but I am feeling so uncomfortable doing it when I can feel her moving so much in there. I try to get it out of my head during sex but it is so hard. Anyone else?
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  • Non-existent. My husband feels disconnected from me and is threatening divorce :( totally not fair. I'm sure yours is a little more understanding about what you are going through than mine is.

    Hang in there. I hear it all comes back!

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  • We have sex like rabbits... but we always have, so this isn't anything new. But I can see where you're coming from. It is a little weird having sex when I can feel him moving. What we found that works is that instead of doing missionary or "cowgirl" (girl on top), I just go on my hands and knees and he enters from behind... It makes me feel a WHOLE lot better that I can keep my big belly to myself, and not do too much work... haha.

    This post got WAY TMI, but there you go. 

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  • I'm sorry, sex? What's that?
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  • image kayteebayb:
    I'm sorry, sex? What's that?

    My thoughts exactly.  Poor Dh I feel so bad but apparently not bad enough to do much about it for him.

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  • This is total coincidence, but I have noticed that women that post on here that are having girls tend to not have as much sex during pregnancy and women that are having boys get to have all the fun.

     

    I just can?t produce.. if ya know what I mean.. (TMI). I think about it, but can?t get in the mood for it.

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  • We're at mayyyybe once every month/3 weeks or so. And even then I dread it. We had sex the other night...It maybe lasted 5 minutes, which was about 4 minutes too long. 
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  • Right now it's only about 1/week or so.  Once the 3rd tri hits, it usually picks up quite a bit.
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    This is total coincidence, but I have noticed that women that post on here that are having girls tend to not have as much sex during pregnancy and women that are having boys get to have all the fun.

     

    I just can?t produce.. if ya know what I mean.. (TMI). I think about it, but can?t get in the mood for it.

    With DD1 I was down pretty much all day every day. And we had sex literally everyday if not multiple times a day. Apparently I set the bar too high last time though, because SO is VERY disappointed that its is the exact opposite this time around.  

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  • My sex life has been brought to you this pregnancy courtesy of the number 0 and the letter Z, for zilch.

    Thank you, ute. 

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  • Hasn't changed at all. Well, except positions. I am ALWAYS in the mood. I was like that pre pregnancy too though. I'd say about 3 times per week. But DH said the other day that he's done with missionary, just too weird feeling the belly. That's fine with me as long as it keeps going! =)
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  • Um about three times a week but DH would like it more
  • image kayteebayb:
    I'm sorry, sex? What's that?

    My thoughts exactly.

    I just feel so gross. It's not that I don't find him sexually attractive or appealing, I just feel disgusting. Last time we did it I actually made him wear a condom, to protect him from my grossness. Haha TMI, I'm sure... but between some nipple leakage, lovely vaginal discharge (not the kind you want for sex) and gas, why does he even want to be anywhere near me??

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  • pelvic and strict bed rest, no sex for 2 months or so. i wish we could, HONESTLY but i'm not even allowed to orgasm because of the effect an orgasm could have on my cervix so BOB isn't even allowed. FML.
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  • We've tried a couple times, but my vagina seems to be shut. He can't even get in there. I picture baby in there squeezing it closed and yelling "Seats taken!"

    Also, our position was always me on my stomach, him on top/behind, and that doesn't work anymore.

     Every day I say to myself "tonight i'll give it a go, and at least give him a BJ" but then I'm so asleep the minute I hit the bed.

      

      

  • I was always the one to initiate, and not anymore. So, I can't even tell you when the last time was. A Month? He never asks either.
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    Right now it's only about 1/week or so.  Once the 3rd tri hits, it usually picks up quite a bit.

    This for us too. 

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    We've tried a couple times, but my vagina seems to be shut. He can't even get in there. I picture baby in there squeezing it closed and yelling "Seats taken!"

    Also, our position was always me on my stomach, him on top/behind, and that doesn't work anymore.

     Every day I say to myself "tonight i'll give it a go, and at least give him a BJ" but then I'm so asleep the minute I hit the bed.

      

      

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  • I dread it, right now. My poor husband is walking around with a constant erection and I have to force myself to throw him some booty. I still have morning sickness, everything hurts, and I'm exhausted. We try it from behind and my belly is dragging on the bed, baby girl is kicking me the whole time like she's riding a tricycle in there and I'm stuck somewhere in the middle thinking, "FML."

     

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  • i MISS it, but i'm uncomfortable, hurting and i'm big enough now that i can't really do anything so we try but...last time it was several weeks between times. ugh. is it december yet?
  • We have sex a couple times a week, about half as much as pre-pregnancy.  I'm super uncomfortable and he is really really busy with work.  So we both go to bed exhausted.  I think we'd have sex more if he wasn't so busy right now.
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  • About once a week.  He'd like to have it more, but I don't really want it more than that, lol.  I feel like I look disgusting, and sometimes, it just seems awkward/uncomfortable to get into positions...  I'll say though that the orgasms are really good once we get going (TMI).
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  • Blah!

    With H's work schedule it's hard, he is gone for about 30 hrs 3 days a week.  

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  • We are doing fine.  It fluctuates, 1x per week at a minimum but some weeks Im extra horny so its 4-5x a week. 
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    I'm sorry, sex? What's that?

    If you ever find out, let me know. I'm curious about this sex everyone is talking about also.

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  • Lately our sex life has been pretty dull.  We probably haven't had sex in about 2 1/2, 3 weeks now!  It's not like I don't want to, but it's also not a top priority for me.  We've been really busy (work, social functions, pregnancy) and I've been falling asleep pretty early.  My DH claims that he's still as attracted to me as ever, but I'm not too sure.. he definitely hasn't been making sex a priority either.  We're still just as close as ever, just not as frisky with each other... it's kind of a bummer Sad
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    We are doing fine.  It fluctuates, 1x per week at a minimum but some weeks Im extra horny so its 4-5x a week. 

    This is us exactly. I think I want it more than him anymore.

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  • A couple of weeks ago my libido was ZERO. I felt bad because DH seemed to be dying. Haha. Now it's totally the opposite. :(
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    I wish I could get in the mood... I have ZERO drive. And poor DH LOVES me pregnant, all sorts of new curves...

    Poor guy. I give it once, maybe twice a week- he's such a good sport  

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  • image knjzacher:
    pelvic and strict bed rest, no sex for 2 months or so. i wish we could, HONESTLY but i'm not even allowed to orgasm because of the effect an orgasm could have on my cervix so BOB isn't even allowed. FML.

    I feel for you.  I was on pelvic rest for a month in the first trimester and it drove me nuts!

    Now I'm rarely in the mood.  We have sex about half as often as we used to so about once every couple weeks now.  It's just not as fun as it used to be, I don't allow positions where I'm not in control (this is a result of first trimester bleeding after sex that lead to discovering a SCH which lead to the pelvic rest) so my favs are out.  Plus it just doesn't feels as good for me.  Poor hubby.

  • image NewMomofOne2012:

    This is total coincidence, but I have noticed that women that post on here that are having girls tend to not have as much sex during pregnancy and women that are having boys get to have all the fun.

     

    I just can?t produce.. if ya know what I mean.. (TMI). I think about it, but can?t get in the mood for it.

     

    Not always true- haha! We are about 3 times a week! I can't get enough!! TMI :) 

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