i called my doctor to see if they were going to do an ultrasound at my first appointment on monday, so i know whether or not to bring DH. They office receptionist said that they don't do ultrasounds until 20 weeks!!! i can't wait that stinkin long!!! do you think they'll do a doppler or transvaginal ultrasound before then? you don't think they'll make me wait til 20 weeks to hear the heartbeat? Ugh! i hate not knowing!