@lulu1180 I laughed so hard at "whoring ways"! I don't see anything wrong with a sexually liberated woman, and it kills me that men are "experienced" while we're "slutty".
@sheknows6 Hahaha I've never made any apologies for being sexually liberated but definitely keep most of it under wraps so as to not be judged others. I didn't really expect you ladies to judge me but you never know.....
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
@adirat@LuND and @lulu1180 Haha that's usually the only time I don't O... DH doesn't really like it if I don't, but if I suggest morning sex he's always onboard and knows that doesn't always get me off - we all have our sneaky ways!
Amen to sexual liberated @sheknows6. I also don't regret a single thing I've done. @FLAshley wow you and YH sound like you have a fantastic sex life! How fun. I want to do the pull over on the side of the road thing.
I also cannot just lay there during BD, even if I'm not in the mood, because DH won't be into it if I'm not. It can be annoying sometimes but tbh I think it's wonderful that our men care so much about our pleasure.
Edited because I accidentally tagged @adirat! My red wine drinking inner drama llama was trying to bust out
@lulu1180 I wish I had no regrets. But yuck, I made some pretty poor decisions lol. One of my one night stands came basically running towards my mother and I when we were in the grocery store trying to say Hi. I totally passed it off as I had NO CLUE who he was. My mom knew something was up. He totally looked different in the well lit grocery store than he did at night in the bar and then the hotel room ....... with his friend and my friend having sex ....... in the same bed. Oh dear. There was some girl on girl action that night. Funniest thing was we met in a bar in the city which was 3 hours from where I was from. So running into him was a big coincidence !!!
Me 27 DF 44 TTC post VR Sept 21/16 SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
Amen to sexual liberated @sheknows6. I also don't regret a single thing I've done @adirat. @FLAshley wow you and YH sound like you have a fantastic sex life! How fun. I want to do the pull over on the side of the road thing.
I also cannot just lay there during BD, even if I'm not in the mood, because DH won't be into it if I'm not. It can be annoying sometimes but tbh I think it's wonderful that our men care so much about our pleasure.
I definitely am not judging anyone and fully support women having sexual agency to make their own choices. As a feminist, I am supportive of every woman's own decisions in her sex life whether that is zero partners or fifty partners. Not sure if something I said came off differently but it was not my intention.
DH is off playing video games, so I got some time for this
ETA: My post disappeared!
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex?
Nope. I'm a "make it work" kind of girl.
About how many people have you had sex with?
3 - I met DH after college, but I'm a monagomous/LTR girl.
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
Oof. I cannot put that on the internet. Let's just say I have an ex who had a list of kinky things he wanted done to him and I was very accommodating.
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to?
Nope. See above. I'm happy with that vanilla life now lol
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO?
When I want. There are times I want sex, but no orgasm. There are times DH wants to please me, but I'm not interested. If I want it though, it's pretty much guaranteed.
Just a little story for you ladies who have never had the pets in the room when it's party time...
We have 4 cats and don't let them in the room when it's time to get things done. I let my sister watch my house when we went on our honeymoon and she had her boyfriend over and didn't shut the door... and poor boyfriend needed stitches on his dangly bits because our over protective Mama cat attacked his... fun parts.
I guess the moral of the story is watch out for cats and dangly bits when they're not used it it.
Lol @sheknows6 no I meant to tag @lulu1180 when I was agreeing about no regrets but accidentally tagged @adirat and she thought I was calling her out whoops!
@Dilynne - A more humorous version of that story. Our pup has major jealously issues. If DH and I are kissing, she puts her face in the mix kind of deal. Before she was fixed, we left her freed one night during sexy time. She jumped up on DH's leg and started humping the shit out of it lol
So question for you ladies, do you like having sex during AF? It makes me so uncomfortable so I don't but I have long AFs- 7 days! So by the end of it I'm sick of BJs (even though I do enjoy giving them) and coming out of my skin
edited- this one is tmi so no worries if no one wants to answer lol. I'm just particular annoyed about it right now
@Dilynne - Ouch! I cringed reading that! I just shut the critters out because well, one of the dogs will stare otherwise in silent judgment. It's also not positive judgment, more disgruntled as he's neutered.
@bluejeanbabi05 We have sex during AF unless it's incredibly heavy. Towel down. I always clean him up before he looks - my insecurity. His quote "Takes a real man to fight a bloody battle."
Edit for words.
Me 27 DF 44 TTC post VR Sept 21/16 SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
@bluejeanbabi05 - No penetration during AF. Too messy. Too smelly. Too gross. With my menstrual cup though, the general area is clean. So if the mood strikes, we help each other out best we can. If it's doesn't for me, DH is more likely to carry that burden himself than to enlist me when he's in need.
@bluejeanbabi05 this is where I'm lucky DH and I are nearly the same height - shower sex during AF. We're also lucky we have a massive walk-in shower lol
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex?
Physically, I liked to be shaved! If it's random in public places, no. If it's at home in bed, good lighting
About how many people have you had sex with?
8 people
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
i had a crazy threesome on New Year's Eve night a few years ago, not with DH though, sorry to him! lol random girl we ran into that the guy had gone to high school with. I invited her back for drinks at his house cause her date stood her up, and we got way too tipsy and slept together for 4 hours! Good lord!
Sometimes, I ask DH to talk about other people he wants to sleep with, and it turns me on
Me: 30 | DH:34 Married: 08/04/12 DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13 DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex? If it's not clean it doesn't go in.
About how many people have you had sex with? Just DH. We meet in high school.
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done? Sex in public places.
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to? I would like to have a threesome, but I don't think I could ever actually do it.
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO? Yes, almost all the time.
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to?
.......continuing
went to a high end sex club party where 50 plus people were having sex. They had sex shows going on, people had to wear masks to hide identity, and well known celebs were there. Men had to pay 50,000 plus to get in, and only women who are pre approved and known by someone can get in. I didn't participate (bf at the time couldn't go, and I was with a gf of mine), but it was a crazy experience.
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO? Didn't use to. I use to fake. I was so young. Now, always. Recently through penetration for the first time, and if not that way, he always make sure I do after.
Me: 30 | DH:34 Married: 08/04/12 DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13 DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex? Animals out and preferably not scratching on our door. I also prefer the lights out but that's because we have horrible lighting in our room. Like I don't mind day time with just natural light. About how many people have you had sex with? I think it's around 5. One long term bf from age 15-20 then 6 months of single fun times then I met DH and only him since then. What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done? Nutella BJ, and I think it was filmed. Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to? Not really. Do you orgasm regularly with your SO? Always and generally more than once.
@BertieMeetsGertie My first toy and still my favorite is just a simple bullet. I like to use it with penetration and I always O before DH does, but he doesn't have problems holding off. You can get them really cheap so it's not a huge investment.
@LuND DH has some photos of me from our vacation in November on his phone. He tried plugging it in to his computer to transfer them over but something about an iPhone and Windows10 isn't letting him do it I guess so there's a whole bunch of naughty pics on his phone and he can't take pics anymore because in the corner it has a small shot of the last picture you took haha
@adirat OMG DH and I went to a toy shop when we were home on vacation. The small city near his parents is a total sh!t hole and while we were browsing the sales guy tried selling us stuff saying it's what he and his fiance use. I get he was trying to be helpful but no, just no. Also, we had an experience with Nutella but I'd try vanilla ice cream
@KariAnn323 I also like being tied up so that I don't have to do anything but not because I'm lazy, it's exciting but relaxing
@hartmich I've never successfully had anal with DH either but I have with a previous partner (guess that's props to DH). We got these straps that go under your mattress and have 4 cuffs, 2 for hands 2 for feet. You can just tuck them back under when not in use. We don't have a headboard and it's great.
@blujeanbabi05 DH and I have AF sex all the time. We just use a dark towel and sometimes I can't get on top depending on the flow.
Oh man.....I'm not even sure I should put any of this out there in cyber land, but I discuss everything else on here so why not.. Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex? Not really....except if I plan on DH going down on me I make sure I shower and shave like RIGHT before cuz I'm self conscious About how many people have you had sex with? 20.......like some othersort I had a wild phase in college What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done? Uhm...not sure really I've tried all sorts of different things... like @bluejeanbabi05 I like anal....and we recently found out DH is not against a small amount to of anal play for himself....and we have some toys but not a lot....what kinds of toys do you have that you can fit in a 3 drawer dresser because we've looked for others just to mix it up, but it all just is pretty much the same to me Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously tried out but would like to? DH and I have been talking about 3somes both another girl and then another guy.....and he has asked me to go be with someone else then come home and tell him about it then have sex with him....and he wants to hear me have sex with someone else in the next room. Do you orgasm regularly with your SO? I didn't used to but as of a little while ago he has been making me squirter every single time....I've never been able to before now and he really gets off on it so he tries to make sure it happens more than once so win win
I love this thread! I'm a little late to the party.
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex? I need the dogs out of the room. And during FW, when it sometimes can feel like a job, some wine or whiskey
2-# is 20 or so. I have traveled for work since my early 20's so I had a lot of fun. I don't regret any of them. I was young and single and enjoying my sexuality. (I love that everyone else is the same way!)
3- Kinkiest- my H is definitely more into exploring things and I am usually down to try. We have toys, bondage, pictures and videos. We Skype when I'm traveling. I am a part of the mile high club.
4-fantasies- Probably a threesome but I'm not sure if that's realistic for us.
5- I almost always orgasm unless I tell him it's just not happening. He always makes sure that I'm taken care of.
We had sex with our Maltese in the room last night. Granted she was in her crate, but it's still progress. DH is a total "no animals in the room" person.
Mobile bumping. Will get to tagging tomorrow. Just going to say: lots of you are my soul sisters haha
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex? Not really. I do like to make sure I'm atleast groomed properly.
About how many people have you had sex with? Honestly dh and I met at 15 and 16 soooo ....
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done? edit : Not sure I want this one On the interwebz. If you read it before I DD this answer, shhhhh lol
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to? I guess the only fantasy we haven't done that I would like to try is an " on the job" fantasy.
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO? No! Maybe 7 out of 20 times. And 5 of those are because I'm the one making it happen ( on top grinding). The other 2 are because he went down on me first.
Is there anything you have to have a certain way? Not really. I prefer to smell decent and be properly groomed but generally I'm always down.
About how many people have you had sex with? 15ish
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done? Hm, probably doing it at my HS reunion in a hotel room with like 6 other people in it. I have no idea who was awake and who wasn't…
Do you have any fantasies that you haven't previously acted out but would like to? I would definitely like to try sex with another woman. I'm totally bi-curious, but have never tried it. OH doesn't consider that cheating, so it's something I can do should the opportunity present itself.
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO? Yes! Not with penetration, although I think I'll be jumping on the WeVibe train. But OH is awesome with c-stim and always makes sure I have at least a couple before we get to him.
Me: 45 OH: 42 Beloved SS: born 12/2011 TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016 **TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW** August 2016 - dx with DOR Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T May 2017 - began freezing sperm June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks
Re: TTGP After Dark 1/13
DD born: 3/31/19
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
I also cannot just lay there during BD, even if I'm not in the mood, because DH won't be into it if I'm not. It can be annoying sometimes but tbh I think it's wonderful that our men care so much about our pleasure.
Edited because I accidentally tagged @adirat! My red wine drinking inner drama llama was trying to bust out
Me 27
DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
ETA: My post disappeared!
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex?
Nope. I'm a "make it work" kind of girl.
About how many people have you had sex with?
3 - I met DH after college, but I'm a monagomous/LTR girl.
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
Oof. I cannot put that on the internet. Let's just say I have an ex who had a list of kinky things he wanted done to him and I was very accommodating.
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to?
Nope. See above. I'm happy with that vanilla life now lol
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO?
When I want. There are times I want sex, but no orgasm. There are times DH wants to please me, but I'm not interested. If I want it though, it's pretty much guaranteed.
ETA looked back and still can't find anything you said that would insinuate any differently. I was more just echoing @lulu1180
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
DD born: 3/31/19
We have 4 cats and don't let them in the room when it's time to get things done. I let my sister watch my house when we went on our honeymoon and she had her boyfriend over and didn't shut the door... and poor boyfriend needed stitches on his dangly bits because our over protective Mama cat attacked his... fun parts.
I guess the moral of the story is watch out for cats and dangly bits when they're not used it it.
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
edited- this one is tmi so no worries if no one wants to answer lol. I'm just particular annoyed about it right now
Edit for words.
Me 27
DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
DD born: 3/31/19
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex?
Just privacy
About how many people have you had sex with?
1
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
Im not much into kink. We did do it in my parent's camper once. Does that count?
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to?
Negative. I'm prettt boring
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO?
90% of the time through clitoral stimulation
Married 9/27/2014
TTC Since 1/1/2017
BFP: 2/6/2017
Due Date: 10/13/17
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex?
Physically, I liked to be shaved! If it's random in public places, no. If it's at home in bed, good lighting
About how many people have you had sex with?
8 people
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
i had a crazy threesome on New Year's Eve night a few years ago, not with DH though, sorry to him! lol random girl we ran into that the guy had gone to high school with. I invited her back for drinks at his house cause her date stood her up, and we got way too tipsy and slept together for 4 hours! Good lord!
Sometimes, I ask DH to talk about other people he wants to sleep with, and it turns me on
Married: 08/04/12
DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13
DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex? If it's not clean it doesn't go in.
About how many people have you had sex with? Just DH. We meet in high school.
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done? Sex in public places.
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to? I would like to have a threesome, but I don't think I could ever actually do it.
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO? Yes, almost all the time.
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to?
.......continuing
went to a high end sex club party where 50 plus people were having sex. They had sex shows going on, people had to wear masks to hide identity, and well known celebs were there. Men had to pay 50,000 plus to get in, and only women who are pre approved and known by someone can get in. I didn't participate (bf at the time couldn't go, and I was with a gf of mine), but it was a crazy experience.
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO?
Didn't use to. I use to fake. I was so young. Now, always. Recently through penetration for the first time, and if not that way, he always make sure I do after.
Married: 08/04/12
DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13
DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17
Animals out and preferably not scratching on our door. I also prefer the lights out but that's because we have horrible lighting in our room. Like I don't mind day time with just natural light.
About how many people have you had sex with?
I think it's around 5. One long term bf from age 15-20 then 6 months of single fun times then I met DH and only him since then.
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
Nutella BJ, and I think it was filmed.
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to?
Not really.
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO?
Always and generally more than once.
@BertieMeetsGertie My first toy and still my favorite is just a simple bullet. I like to use it with penetration and I always O before DH does, but he doesn't have problems holding off. You can get them really cheap so it's not a huge investment.
@LuND DH has some photos of me from our vacation in November on his phone. He tried plugging it in to his computer to transfer them over but something about an iPhone and Windows10 isn't letting him do it I guess so there's a whole bunch of naughty pics on his phone and he can't take pics anymore because in the corner it has a small shot of the last picture you took haha
@jess0211 @kiwi2628 I'm going to have to look into the WeVibe too
@adirat OMG DH and I went to a toy shop when we were home on vacation. The small city near his parents is a total sh!t hole and while we were browsing the sales guy tried selling us stuff saying it's what he and his fiance use. I get he was trying to be helpful but no, just no. Also, we had an experience with Nutella but I'd try vanilla ice cream
@KariAnn323 I also like being tied up so that I don't have to do anything but not because I'm lazy, it's exciting but relaxing
@hartmich I've never successfully had anal with DH either but I have with a previous partner (guess that's props to DH). We got these straps that go under your mattress and have 4 cuffs, 2 for hands 2 for feet. You can just tuck them back under when not in use. We don't have a headboard and it's great.
@blujeanbabi05 DH and I have AF sex all the time. We just use a dark towel and sometimes I can't get on top depending on the flow.
TTC since August 2018
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex?
Not really....except if I plan on DH going down on me I make sure I shower and shave like RIGHT before cuz I'm self conscious
About how many people have you had sex with?
20.......like some othersort I had a wild phase in college
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
Uhm...not sure really I've tried all sorts of different things... like @bluejeanbabi05 I like anal....and we recently found out DH is not against a small amount to of anal play for himself....and we have some toys but not a lot....what kinds of toys do you have that you can fit in a 3 drawer dresser because we've looked for others just to mix it up, but it all just is pretty much the same to me
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously tried out but would like to?
DH and I have been talking about 3somes both another girl and then another guy.....and he has asked me to go be with someone else then come home and tell him about it then have sex with him....and he wants to hear me have sex with someone else in the next room.
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO?
I didn't used to but as of a little while ago he has been making me squirter every single time....I've never been able to before now and he really gets off on it so he tries to make sure it happens more than once so win win
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex?
I need the dogs out of the room. And during FW, when it sometimes can feel like a job, some wine or whiskey
2-# is 20 or so. I have traveled for work since my early 20's so I had a lot of fun. I don't regret any of them. I was young and single and enjoying my sexuality. (I love that everyone else is the same way!)
3- Kinkiest- my H is definitely more into exploring things and I am usually down to try. We have toys, bondage, pictures and videos. We Skype when I'm traveling. I am a part of the mile high club.
4-fantasies- Probably a threesome but I'm not sure if that's realistic for us.
5- I almost always orgasm unless I tell him it's just not happening. He always makes sure that I'm taken care of.
TTC since August 2018
Is there anything that you need to have a certain way before you have sex?
Not really. I do like to make sure I'm atleast groomed properly.
About how many people have you had sex with?
Honestly dh and I met at 15 and 16 soooo ....
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
edit : Not sure I want this one On the interwebz. If you read it before I DD this answer, shhhhh lol
Do you have any fantasies that you have not previously acted out but would like to?
I guess the only fantasy we haven't done that I would like to try is an " on the job" fantasy.
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO?
No! Maybe 7 out of 20 times. And 5 of those are because I'm the one making it happen ( on top grinding). The other 2 are because he went down on me first.
Oct. '17 June S.C. "You Had 1 Job"
About how many people have you had sex with? 15ish
What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done? Hm, probably doing it at my HS reunion in a hotel room with like 6 other people in it. I have no idea who was awake and who wasn't…
Do you have any fantasies that you haven't previously acted out but would like to? I would definitely like to try sex with another woman. I'm totally bi-curious, but have never tried it. OH doesn't consider that cheating, so it's something I can do should the opportunity present itself.
Do you orgasm regularly with your SO? Yes! Not with penetration, although I think I'll be jumping on the WeVibe train. But OH is awesome with c-stim and always makes sure I have at least a couple before we get to him.
Beloved SS: born 12/2011
TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016
**TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW**
August 2016 - dx with DOR
Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T
May 2017 - began freezing sperm
June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T
July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba
July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks