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Weekly check-in 1/29

How far along are you?

How are you feeling?

Any baby news (tests results/scans/upcoming appointments?)

Rants/Raves/Questions

GTKY: If you had to choose what one food (single item or meal) would you eat for the rest of your life, exclusively. (just for silly fun)
And....What is the one recipe you can always nail or what is a recipe that you want to master
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    14 weeks tomorrow

    Pretty good. Tired sometimes.

    No baby news.

    My blump is less blumpy this morning, which disturbs me. It fluctuates throughout the day, but I hate when it is very small. My PGAL brain starts to wonder.

    GTKY:
    Hmm...this is difficult. Maybe a burrito? I put lots of stuff in there, so it would cover a lot of bases.
    Like @Ssoccerball I'm best with baked goods. I'm not a great cook.

    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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    @jilligan14 congratulations on your test results and your precious boy! Yay! That's fantastic!!!
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    Sporty1216Sporty1216 member
    edited January 2016
    How far along are you? 7w 4d

    How are you feeling? Pretty good. I am still exhausted all the time and have some weird boob pain. And I guess my guts aren't totally normal--seem to move between constipation and gotta go now!!!! I am so hungry. And sometimes after I eat, I feel nauseous. But overall, I feel mostly pretty good. 

    Any baby news (tests results/scans/upcoming appointments?) I have my first scan and appointment on Monday at 1. I have been trying to plan things to make this weekend go by quickly. I am nervous and excited and all of that and just want to see that all is well. 

    Rants/Raves/Questions um. I don't think so. Well, I guess the whole family has been sick with colds and I finally took DS to the doctor yesterday because he was just screaming all the time and he is normally a really happy kid. Turns out he has a double ear infection. I felt so bad. But I don't know how I would have known to take him in any sooner. He is doing waaaaay better after a couple of doses of antibiotics. I'm hopeful that maybe we'll both get some sleep tonight. 

    GTKY: If you had to choose what one food (single item or meal) would you eat for the rest of your life, exclusively. (just for silly fun)
    And....What is the one recipe you can always nail or what is a recipe that you want to master

    oh my gosh--you guys made me so hungry! Now I want all the French fries, all the steak, all the Mexican food, all the cupcakes, etc. I would probably choose to live on pizza, though, because you can change up the toppings. (But let's face it--I'd probably eat Pepperoni, olives, and pineapple on it for years)

    i used to to cook so much. Now I make things that make big quantities (DH is a big eater) and are easy. I loved making homemade Indian food. It was a good challenge and it always tastes yum. I also LOVE to bake pies and cakes. 
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    Congratulations @jilligan14 !!!  Finding out the gender does make it so real. Every now and then it hits me that it is really happening this time. Seeing you reach this milestone made it hit me again. We are so very lucky.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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    First, I'm so happy for everyone's great updates!

    I'm 21w3d today.

    I feel pretty good. I'm pretty sure I'm feeling more movements this week, which makes me happy. I just wish I knew FOR SURE that these strange sensations I have sometimes deep in my pelvis are baby. As an FTM I really don't know what to expect. Also, I have an anterior placenta so that's supposed dampen the movements. But the other day I had some spotting and I was just like "Damn, if I was confident about these movements I wouldn't be freaking out".

    No baby news. I don't have an appointment for a while. I'm just hoping he's still growing in there.

    Rants/Raves/Questions: My sex life needs some serious help. My libido is terrible and I can't seem to get aroused unless I'm on bottom and that's just not working anymore thanks to my growing belly... Anyone have any suggestions?

    GTKY:
    Actually, the idea of having to eat ONE thing for the rest of my life is kind of nauseating. Even my favorite foods in the whole world would get boring after a few days.
    I love to cook. I bake a mean apple pie, every time! My mac and cheese is pretty foolproof as well.

    Me: 40  DH: 43
    Married 5/30/15
    TTC #1 June 2015
    BFP #1 9/28/15, EDD 6/10/16. DS born 5/23/16!
    TTC #2 May 2017
    BFP #2 m/c 11/18/17 5w5d
    BFP #3 12/17/17 EDD 8/25/18. It's a boy!
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    @emsmama15, I never had the NT test, but did harmony with both babies, I'm not the expert on this, but harmony tests for all things the NT does and is more accurate. I've read a lot about false positives. I'm shocked the harmony isn't covered with ivf twins and you being soooo old and all;)


    @redheadbride15, were in the same boat with our sex life. And I'm with you on being on bottom, my hubs has supported himself up for the most part but I'm getting too big.  Plus being on top is like a workout, hubs has a huh libido so no sex or sex activity makes him angry. We did a steamy shower session a couple weeks ago, watched porn together, going into the archives at this point to spice it up!
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    @emsmama15 OMG, I really want enchiladas right now!
    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
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    How far along are you? 10-ish weeks

    How are you feeling? Other than freaking out about spotting yesterday, pretty well. Still a bit more tired than usual, but definitely feeling like I'm regaining energy.

    Any baby news (tests results/scans/upcoming appointments?) Just waiting for my Harmony blood draw on 2/12 and midwife appointment on 2/15. I think I'll also be having an NT scan, but it's not scheduled yet. @emsmama15 and @Wyattnash00, my OB thinks the NT scan is still useful if you have the cell0free DNA test b/c they can see anomalies that are not picked up with the blood test (including non-genetic issues).

    Rants/Raves/Questions I am soooo dang tired of not telling people I"m pregnant yet. I work with a bunch of friends and it's torture every day keeping it from them. That said, I just can't stomach the idea of telling folks and then finding out something terrible when my blood work comes back.

    GTKY: If you had to choose what one food (single item or meal) would you eat for the rest of your life, exclusively. (just for silly fun)
    I love a good thai pork larb or pretty much anything mexican

    And....What is the one recipe you can always nail or what is a recipe that you want to master
    My DP does all of the cooking b/c he's good at it and enjoys it!
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    How far along are you? 4w5d
    How are you feeling? I'm pretty tired.  I'm tired of being tired, and I want to take naps at work.  The struggle is real.  I'm not really sleeping well.  My stomach just feels kind of 'ugh' and I don't think I'd call it MS, but it's definitely not normal for me.
    Any baby news (tests results/scans/upcoming appointments?) Had my 2nd beta yesterday, and don't have anymore betas as I hit the 1000 mark.  I am now in a waiting pattern for two weeks for the ultrasound to confirm the baby or babies inside. My mom cancelled our weekend with her the weekend before and wants it after the ultrasound so she knows how many we need to shop for (it's our first.. she's SUPER excited).
    Rants/Raves/Questions My rants are that I don't like waiting and I'm tired of the PIO shot and i'm only a third of the way through with them.  My rave is that I'm finally pregnant!!!  My question would be that I'm interested in prenatal yoga, but have never done yoga but once.. is it a really relaxing, easy type of class I could do?  Have any of you done prenatal yoga?
    GTKY: If you had to choose what one food (single item or meal) would you eat for the rest of your life, exclusively. (just for silly fun) Chickfila sandwich, no pickles, with an unsweet tea
    And....What is the one recipe you can always nail or what is a recipe that you want to master I can make a mean brownie from scratch.  Like many of you, I'm a baker, not a cook.
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    @createillumination I've read about squats being better than kegels.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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    How far along are you?
    24 weeks

    How are you feeling?
    Feeling pretty good lately but I have moments of extreme fatigue where I can barely move.  I've also had few bad headaches this week.  My DS was sick with a high fever so I was nervous about it spreading to the rest of us but I think we are in the clear...for now!

    Any baby news (tests results/scans/upcoming appointments?)
    I had my check-up last Friday and the OB said everything was fine with the ultrasound and I shouldn't worry about the EIF they saw on her heart.  I'll have a growth scan around 32-34 weeks and they will check things out at that point.  It may go away but even if it doesn't it's not a big deal.

    Rants/Raves/Questions.
    No rants but I feel guilty a lot for snapping at DH and the kids.  I'm just overwhelmed sometimes and need a break!

    GTKY: If you had to choose what one food (single item or meal) would you eat for the rest of your life, exclusively. (just for silly fun). 
    I could seriously live off of cheese...

    And....What is the one recipe you can always nail or what is a recipe that you want to master

    I've never screwed up italian roast beef.  It's always on the menu when we have parties.
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    5 weeks 3 days 

    I'm feeling tired, bloated and irritable. My boobs are sore and my skin is oily. Im sure DH would say that I'm a joy to be around ;) 

    Nothing new to report

    rant: I feel like I've been 5 weeks 3 days for 3 weeks!!! 
    Rave: the library had some great books to chose from. @Sporty1216 I have "Pregnancy Day by Day" on hold. I'll purchase any that I really like. @Piperella I've been thinking about prenatal yoga too and was able to find a yoga during pregnancy book. 

    GTKY I absolutely hate "if you had to choose one.." questions! I'm indecisive even in hypothetical situations. I like @CarrieandRoy 's answer. I could definitely eat burritos every day. With lots of sour cream on the side. 
    I love to cook, but don't do much baking. I've been wanting to try making scones and biscotti. 

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    How far along are you? 17 weeks

    How are you feeling? Energy is good getting harder to do certain things like bend down, and sit cross-legged. 

    Any baby news (tests results/scans/upcoming appointments?) Next OB appt is Monday. Not sure what to expect for this one.
    I spent most of yesterday organizing the baby's room and will do some more tomorrow. 

    Rants/Raves/Questions: raving about the new restaurant I went to the other night! Boston locals must try Sarma in Somerville: kind of off the beaten path but totally worth it. I ate octopus and I liked it! Parking is limited and reservations are a must but the food and dining experience are amazing: Turkish and Middle Eastern tapas. Perfect for a date night (also good mocktails)! Waitstaff are friendly and knowledgeable and the atmosphere is warm and not overly loud.

    GTKY: If you had to choose what one food what would it be? Peanut Butter. Without a doubt. Peanut butter makes everything better.

    Cooking: i love to cook but lately meals have been super simple. I make an amazing stir fry with a sauce of my own creation. I also can make a mean Haddock Edelia, and anazing chocolate chip cookies with no recipe. 
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    lillebowski23lillebowski23 member
    edited January 2016

    @Piperella I am a prenatal yoga teacher <3 My classes are actually rather challenging because I want my mamas to feel strong and to be prepared for carrying the weight of a baby as the pregnancy progresses, and be prepared for labor and delivery (vaginal or cesarian birth). In the classes that I teach we do a lot of work to cultivate the health of the pelvic floor (so you don't accidentally pee yourself with a sneeze, a cough ect.. during or after pregnancy.) We do a lot of  specific pregnancy squats because the new thinking in the
    professional community is kegels are actually counterproductive to what they are supposed to be doing, which is toning the vaginal muscles and pelvic floor. We do standing poses to build the strength of the legs, because the legs really are the powerhouse that will get you through labor. 

    I love squats! I teach fitness at an Assisted Living Facility. Squats (modified, generaly) and accompanying hip/knee/ankle exercises are the basis for my programs! I use variations like sit-to-stand (getting in and out of a chair with no hands), mini squats no deeper than 45 degrees at the knees (better for those ith arthritis) and squats with a swiss ball against the wall. 
    I've also found that tying an elastic band just above ones' knees does wonders for hip (piriformis) strength!
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    How far along
    presently 12 weeks and a few days 

    2- feeling good so far. Slowly getting my energy back so my messy house is driving me nuts. 

    3- baby news-
    had my NT scan which was great. Also had some great news about my harmony blood work. We will not be doing any other amino type test. The doc explained the risk of loss and if my other tests were showing signs I would do it but a 1 in 10,000 chance of a syndrome does not sound risky enough. 


    GTKY-  I love this chop meat casserole with cheese and veggies. I could probably do that daily. Or at type of chicken. 
    as for something I wish I could cook it would be my mom's chicken soup. I'm sure mine would come out the same but it's just not the same as when mom makes it. 

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    Ty for all the tips on yoga, @createillumination!  I found a place that said they offered it, but it's not on the schedule.  I'll have to look at a few other places.  I'm very early into the first trimester, so when would you recommend I start?  I don't want to be laughed at because I don't have a bump and won't have one for a bit.
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    How far along are you?
    8w4d

    How are you feeling?
    nausea and completely exhausted. I usually doze off after dinner at 7pm!

    Any baby news (tests results/scans/upcoming appointments?)  
    Ultrasound #2 (9wks) on Wednesday. Hoping all goes well! 

    Rants/Raves/Questions 
    Anyone have a glass of wine here or there while pregnant? Sometimes I just want one but feel guilty about it!

    GTKY: If you had to choose what one food (single item or meal) would you eat for the rest of your life, exclusively. (just for silly fun)
    I looooove buffalo wings. And for health purposes, maybe a side of celery and carrots. :smiley: 

    And....What is the one recipe you can always nail or what is a recipe that you want to master
    i make really great roast beef and mashed potatoes. Yum. 


    Interested in in these pregnancy squats? Similar to regular squats? 


    Tried for DS for 1 year; one dose clomid Nov 2011 = DS born on 8/10/12
    BFP 6/30/15  MMC 7wks 5 days  D/E 8/9/15
    BFP 1/8/16 EDD 9/9/16
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    @Piperella It's common for mama's to come in as early as 6 weeks, but a lot of people won't come in until the 2nd trimester just because they feel so yucky throughout the 1st tri. Bump size has no bearing on when to come it ;) It's super important that women avoid yoga twists at any time during pregnancy, there are some prenatal twists that are centered in the upper back and are ok but not every instructor will know those. 

    @tiffanyhr Here is a video of the general idea of pregnancy squats. I would add to the information inhale **down**- exhale straighten and come up (many times that is taught the other way.) Also try pushing through the big toe as you straighten the legs to engage the pelvic floor. 
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VBaciLLbfPE 

    @lillebowski23 you rock with the squats! That is so awesome you do that with your peeps! My husband was just teaching his parents (in their 70's) chair squats. 
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    mthoomommthoomom member
    edited January 2016
    How far along are you?

    31 weeks and then some

    How are you feeling?

    Pretty good with the exception of heartburn all day every day

    Any baby news (tests results/scans/upcoming appointments?)

    Not much going on here, just pilling fat on this kiddo. Had a midwife visit a few days ago, and everything is looking good at this point.

    Rants/Raves/Questions

    So I've started my top-to-bottom clean of my house, which means nesting has finally kicked in (yay!) However, I get about halfway through a project and need to stop and rest because I am exhausted, which means I rarely finish anything in one day. Super annoying. My baby shopping list seems to grow no matter how much stuff we have-- how does this happen? I just want to feel ready so I can relax! 

    GTKY: If you had to choose what one food (single item or meal) would you eat for the rest of your life, exclusively. (just for silly fun) 

    Oh, probably Thai food. Or Indian food. 

    And....What is the one recipe you can always nail or what is a recipe that you want to master

    I have an amazing crockpot/ dutch oven chicken tikki masala recipe that is super easy (read: just toss everything in and leave it for hours) that everyone in my house loves. I can put any vegetable in it, so I cut up whatever has been sitting in my fridge and throw it in the pot. I make ginger tumeric rice to go with it. It is so, so good. 


    I would love to be able to make perfect croissants. That's my banking fantasy. 

    @createillumination I always eat all my french fries before my entree. I have no self control when it comes to french fries! 
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    Sporty1216Sporty1216 member
    edited January 2016
    @mthoomom--would you be willing to post that recipe? I bet everyone in my household would love it and crock pot is just my style these days!
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    @mthoomom - I second the recipe request.  I've "pinned" a few because I LOVE Chicken Tikka Masala, but a tried and true one would be even better! :)

    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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    Oh my gosh!  As soon as I think my stomach is ready for something besides toast and soup, I'm going to make this!! THANK YOU! :)
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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    Thank you thank you! That sounds awesome! Gonna put these ingredients on my list for going to the store tomorrow!
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    @mthoomom that sounds sooooo delicious (and easy!). I want it for breakfast right now. It's times like this that I really, really wish my DH liked Indian food...
    Me: 40  DH: 43
    Married 5/30/15
    TTC #1 June 2015
    BFP #1 9/28/15, EDD 6/10/16. DS born 5/23/16!
    TTC #2 May 2017
    BFP #2 m/c 11/18/17 5w5d
    BFP #3 12/17/17 EDD 8/25/18. It's a boy!
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    emgee27emgee27 member
    edited January 2016
    I'm 29 weeks. Wowza!

    Have some back soreness in the mornings, sometimes bottomless pit hunger, nothing too bad overall.

    I've officially moved to midwife check-ins every two weeks. I'm measuring exactly for my due date and heartbeat nice and strong. Baby is definitely getting bigger (grow, baby, grow!) because I seem to have popped out even more in the last 2 weeks.

    @mthoomom thanks for posting your nesting is kicking in, as mine has not! My rant was going to be about my lack of motivation and that I'd rather share the couch on weekends with DH and my cats, marathoning Top Chef and Game of Thrones. Please send nesting vibes. And to your question, I waited until 2nd tri to have any beer or wine and to be honest, I just never really feel like it. I've had a half a glass at dinners out on date night and don't feel guilty at all. I'd have a whole glass if I was up for it! P.S. Thanks for the recipe!

    I'd definitely choose burritos as my forever food to eat. Especially being in LA. I could throw a rock out the window and hit a great Mexican stand every time. <3

    I can pretty much nail everything in a Dutch oven - roasts, ribs, loins, etc. I make it slightly different every time with whatever is on hand and it cooks well. I aspire to be a better baker though! Jealous of you Betty Crockers!


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    @Sporty1216, I'll be thinking about you and hoping you have an awesome visit.  I know you've waited a long time for this!  
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    @Sporty1216 It's so exciting that you have your first appt today! Will be thinking of you and praying that everything looks great!
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    @Sporty1216 good luck! Wishing you fantastic results!
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    Good luck @Sporty1216! Fx'd for excellent news!
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