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Need help with age appropriate Rewards

DD will be turning 4 in a couple weeks.  I am putting together a behavior/chore chart and am trying to come up with good reward ideas.  She will get a star for each good behavior/or chore she does for the week.  After 5 stars, she earns the privilege of staying up an extra 15 minutes.  I wanted to do something fun for every 10 stars she gets by having her pick out of a special basket, a special privilege.  I have, sleepover in mommy and daddys room, stay up an extra 30 minutes, a pack of m&m's but nothing else is coming to me.  I was hoping to have a lot of different options for her to choose from.  Any ideas?

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    She is not really into movies.  I was hoping to keep costs down and do things that dont cost a whole lot.  I dont mind getting her something, but it would have to be small.
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    I give my LO's a small monetary reward every week. They can either put it in their piggy bank, or I take them to the store, and they can buy a piece of candy. They usually put it in their piggy bank, and save their money for something that they really want.

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    Thanks for the ideas!  This has helped.  So far I have, Go to the park, bake cookies with Mommy, Earn $1, Get a pretzel (she loves auntie annes), sleepover in mommy and daddys bed, m&m's, stay up an extra 30 minutes, play with playdough.  If ya think of any more, send them my way. I really want to have a lot of different things to choose from. Thanks!
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    We've downloaded apps as a reward. Movie night where they pick the movie. Bubble baths.
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    I thought of another. Having a favorite meal for dinner.
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    Each of our kids has a prize bin, mostly items I pick up in the dollar section at Target or larger packs of things broken up.  Fun socks, small toys, coloring books, Play-Doh.  For the older two I comb the bargain CD and movie bins, put a cool pen or notepad.  Each week that they meet their star goal they get to pick one prize from the prize bin.  I will also put some quarters in there, as they love being able to put coins in their piggy banks.
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    Blacklight bath?  My son loves that.  You dump out the insides of two vitamin b50 capsules in a bathtub full of water and turn out the lights and switch on a blacklight.  The water glows a Mountain Dew color.  All his toys glow too for whatever reason.

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    Sleeping in my bed would NEVER be a prize in my house. I, personally would not want to open that can of worms... but that's just me. I would go to the dollar store and stock up on the stuff they have there: art supplies,bubbles, jump rope, frisbee, baking accessories,little dolls or beamy babies, etc
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    We also used a chart.  The top prize was dinner out with one of us (although sometimes it was both of us), second was a new book (cheap and we wanted to avoid toys), and third was a trip to the library or the pool.  What he got was based on how many stickers he earned that week.  A total below the trip to the pool/library was in the punishment range.

    Just make sure you pick things that you don't mind following through with over and over. 
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