Seriously. I don't understand. Now I get that you may not change as many diapers as your partner but to just say you aren't going to do it and hand the baby over to others...NOT HAPPENING AT MY HOUSE.
DH hates changing diapers and complained about every one with DD (mainly because he couldn't figure out how to put the snaps back together on sleepers). I don't care how much he complains he's still doing it.
My Dh has never so much as offered the tiniest complaint about changing a diaper. If we don't do it, who will?? If he was my DH, I'd remind my kids for the rest of their lives that they needn't be worried about what happens to him in his old age. I'm sure there's someone else out there who will take care of it.
Re: How exactly does one refuse to change diapers?
DH hates changing diapers and complained about every one with DD (mainly because he couldn't figure out how to put the snaps back together on sleepers). I don't care how much he complains he's still doing it.
He said with this baby it will be easier.
I agree, this would not fly in my house. It is just immature, IMO.
Agreed!