Hi everyone 👋 excited to go on this journey together.
I’m Kelly, 34 y/o and me and my husby have been trying for about 6 months. I was pregnant with twins earlier this year, but had a missed miscarriage/d&c. Hoping this is our rainbow baby!
I’m feeling ok, despite being repulsed by so many smells and having shocking, hilarious, beastly gas.
Hi! I’m Ashlye - I’m due 4/5 How we found out - We were trying but this particular month (July) I was SO sure we weren’t pregnant. I was a little irritated about it and was feeling all the period symptoms. However, after crying from seeing somebody eat a vegetable, I figured I’d better test. And it was positive!
I have a lovely husband, step son and golden retriever! We are welcoming a baby boy!
This pregnancy is hard on me mentally and emotionally, but physically I’ve been great!
Introduce yourself: Hello Everyone! I loved reading your introductions :) My name is melinda and we live in Colorado. I have been married to my husband 14 years and this pregnancy was a complete shock as we are older and have 3 kids (12, 10, 8) We were not trying to conceive but feel so blessed for the opportunity to have another child.
Due date: April 21
How you found out: Typically in the past I had PCOS and had to get on medication (Metformin) to conceive as we were not planning/trying for another child I started to feel different and didn't have a period so tested and sure enough positive. wow!
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) As I said above 3 kids and love being a mom :) I will be 43 when baby is born wow again haha but I am healthy and strong and thinking positive. I am in real estate here in colorado and my husband is in construction. I love nature and staying active.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I am feeling great! Just tired but doing well! Thankful!
Introduce yourself: Hello everyone I’m Ally, I’m 30 and a mother of 3 girls. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and live in the USA. I am a SAHM and my husband is AD. I would have introduced myself much sooner but for some reason the April community was not showing up for me.
Due date: dating scan says 4/10 but most likely will be induced a week prior due to a traumatic birthing experience with my first.With my previous 2 pregnancies I’ve had planned inductions at 39 weeks. My 3rd was bigger than my first and her delivery was sketchy but not traumatic. I’ll also be seen by mfm a couple times to check fetal growth at 20 weeks and 36 weeks. Maybe another time in between but other than I should be seen by my routine OB.
How you found out: my husband was on rotation to Europe and we were discussing TTC as soon as he got back. I was tracking my cycles and when I missed my period I tested and it came back negative. I felt disappointed but waited another week and it came back positive. I then went to our hospital to get a confirmation before I could be scheduled with OB. They called me that afternoon to congratulate me and set my appointments.
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) My husband, Michael, and I have been married 8 years in August. We have 3 daughter’s (12, 6 and 3) who are very excited for their new sibling. We also have 2 dogs and a cat. I like to spend time with my friends and family and take my dog Lacey for walks.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I have cramping, nausea, and headaches which is no fun. I’m also very hungry but can’t eat too much or I feel sick so it’s been difficult trying to enjoy meals. Emotionally I’m good, we are very excited and happy. Oh I’m also tired most of the time which is difficult with my children and pets. What doesn’t help is then not being able to get to sleep at night.
Introduce yourself: hi I’m lisa from NYC. I’m 39 years old
Due date: 4/23
How you found out: dh and I were already trying (since I’m older it’s either now or never for me, bc I’m tired and I don’t want to do it in my 40s) we were coming home from the airport celebrating our 1yo bday in Aruba and I was like extra sassy, extra brain fog, extra emo, I’m like holy s I think I’m pregnant and yup I was.
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) I have an almost 14 month old baby girl. So yes 2 under 2 lol for a few months. We are team green for the 1yo and for this new baby. I am a sahm and dh does estate managing for a celebrity. I love to cook but lately have no desire to do anything except survive lol hurry up 2nd trimester. Dh and I have been together for almost 6 years.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I feel better than I did last week. I have less morning sickness and less days where I just pass out on the couch. I have guilt from not spending it more with my lo but another mom told me “it’s only a season” so I’m trying to give myself grace. I also feel very thankful bc both my pregnancies I was able to conceive fairly quick. Since I’m considered advanced maternal age you just never know.
Introduce yourself: hi I’m Katie I’m 26 and this is our first! We’ve been trying for right at 3 years and we’re so excited for this new chapter
Due date: April 10th
How you found out: I had been cramping and feeling super nauseous for 2 weeks but had convinced myself I was just over tired until my husband wouldn’t stop insisting I was pregnancy lol he knew before I did!
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) we have a pittie mix named brownie, I work full time in hiring and I love reading and spending time with my husband
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? Physically; slowing getting my energy back and nausea is fading now that I’m hitting the second trimester Emotionally; I cry at the drop of a hat and I’ve noticed my temper is much shorter than before
How you found out: I was having early pregnancy symptoms with my breast's hurting and taking naps cus I was so tired. My husband said I better take a test cus you're pregnant. Wasn't supposed to get my period for 2 more weeks, took the test anyway and it was positive.
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) I am married to my high school sweetheart. This is our first earthrise baby, I pray. We had a miscarriage last year and have been trying for the last 3 years. We lobe labs but ours passed away last year and with this new bundle on the way, we want to wait to get another dog. I work as a special Investigator in California and my husband has his own business.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? Physically I am happy to be in the second trimester because the first one was rough. Lots of nausea, throwing up, unable to smell or think about certain foods, couldn't eat any of the normal food I love and I still struggle with eating certain meats. Have a lot of discomfort sleeping, get hot, and am now constantly hungry. Emotionally, I feel much more stable. I feel like with the pregnancy loss last year I was on edge wondering if I would be able to keep this baby, I still have fears every so often but I pray and feel God is letting this one arrive earth side.
How you found out: I found out when I was 5 weeks. I wanted to wait until I was one week late just to be super sure.
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) This is my first pregnancy. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and married for 5. We have two cats which I’m so excited to see them as big brothers I do accounting and am so grateful to have such a supportive team that was so happy and excited for me when I shared my pregnancy.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I am officially in the 2nd trimester which I am so happy about. I know I am lucky to not have had as bad as a first trimester as other people but still relieved to have made it through.
Introduce yourself: hi! I’m Stephanie! 34 years old from Pittsburgh (US)
Due date: 4/25
How you found out: testing regularly we had been trying to conceive for over 2 years.
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) This is the first babe for us! We have 2 cats and a dog. I’m a school psychologist and my husband does research on vaccines at a nearby university. I love reading (though the motivation has been low lately), dancing, run/walking, snuggling up with my pup and kitties, and spending time with family.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I’ve felt pretty okay this whole time. I’ve been getting some energy back in the second trimester! That was the worst part of the first for me. Emotionally I feel more stable now than toward the beginning but still always slightly anxious.
Introduce yourself: My name is Kristin. I'm 34 and from PA.
Due date: April 26th
How you found out: Went in to get surgery and surprise!
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) I have a 6 year old daughter. My fiance and I have been together for 11 years engaged for 10. We'll get around to getting married eventually. Lol We just found out that we're having a little boy this time and we're so excited.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? My physical symptoms, other than being dead tired, haven't been as bad as my first pregnancy.
Tell us about yourself: first time being pregnant. Took us a bit to finally get here. I have a husband, a dog named Creature, and two cats named Brixie and Ickis. Into metal music, traveling, hiking, concerts, crafting.
How are you feeling: currently worried about what motherhood will be like.
Your comment led me to tears, please don't carry the burden alone. I know how you feel, it's going to be okay. You are not being punished you did what was right back then! For all you know it could be your spouse that's the reason your not pregnant. I advise seeing a fertility doctor. God bless and I pray you two get your baby oneday !
> @knottie7120718b8975536e said: > Due date: My fiancé and I are trying to conceive. > > How you found out: No luck yet :( > > Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) I love hiking and anything outdoorsy. Books and jazz music are two of my fave forms of entertainment. Because I love the outdoors, my fiancé takes me to the park a lot and built me a beautiful deck in our back yard. > > How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I am feeling sad, depressed, and inadequate. My fiancé and have been TTC for 8-months with no luck. I was pregnant 3-times back in college (14yrs ago) and despite no complications with the termination of those pregnancies I've never been pregnant again in all these years. I couldn't raise a kid then nor could I afford one. I was 18/19 in college trying to figure out life and chasing a guy who made it clear that he didn't want me. Fast fwd to current and I feel like God is punishing me for my poor childhood choices. I AM SO SORRY for my past decisions, had I known I'd be punished in this way I would have suffered through those pregnancies as a teen. My fiancé and I desperately want kids! We've had fertility testing and the Dr. says I have great AMH and FSH levels, my cycle is extremely regular (I've tracked it via an app for 11years now and its always spot on), and I ovulate consistently according to my BBT and monthly LH testing. My partner and I began using PreSeed July 15th, 2024 hoping for a pregnancy this cycle but I doubt we've been successful. My period is expected August 7th, 2024 and I'm experiencing my typical emotional H3LL and low back pain which is a tell-tale sign my period will be arriving as normally, another failure for me :( I want to give my fiancé a child so badly because he is so good to me, his face lights up anytime he talks about kids, and I just know it'll bring us even closer. I honestly feel like less of a woman. I feel like a failure!
Your comment led me to tears, please don't carry the burden alone. I know how you feel, it's going to be okay. You are not being punished you did what was right back then! For all you know it could be your spouse that's the reason your not pregnant. I advise seeing a fertility doctor. God bless and I pray you two get your baby oneday !
Hi everyone, admittedly I was nervous about posting because I was worried my journey was the “right” one; but I’ve found thru therapy that there is no “right” one and often the struggles of pregnancy mentally are often something no one discusses due to fear of not being considered the ideal mother/woman. So here it goes!
Introduction: My name is Sara, I am a 39 year old first time mother (I had a pregnancy I early terminated, when I was 20 because the situation/relationship at that time was not healthy to raise a child in.) My husband (38) and I have been together for 14 years, married the last 4. I honestly thought we would never have kids due to some trauma I experienced as a child/young adult and my husband being still very much dependent on his parents money. We come from two different worlds, I grew up in poverty living in a trailer park in upstate New York. He grew up very affluent in many different large expensive homes in Central Florida. That socioeconomic yin and yang has worked for much of our relationship, with each of us bringing our life experiences into the relationship. Now with baby on the way in April, they seem to be causing more conflict than good!
Due Date: April 23,2025
How did you find out: We found out unexpectedly after I was late on my period in August. I have medical issues that don’t allow me to use hormonal birth control methods, so always was risky but never had any pregnancy scares prior. I honestly thought it just wouldn’t happen, that I was “too old” and was having pre-menopause symptoms. I guess the universe had different ideas! We currently live in Florida l, so it was quite scary with the 8 week abortion ban and not being able to get into the OB until about week 10; to make sure it was not ectopic/ healthy for both me and baby. So in short it wasn’t the most exciting news, though I felt like I could take on this new challenge my worries were high.
Tell us about yourself: We have always been cat parents, our first Melody Pond found us when we moved into an apartment after I had a severe accident that made me disabled, she just walked into the front door and claimed it as hers! I was never a cat person but she turned out to be an amazing therapy cat full of love to give. After we lost her to cancer/kidney disease, we quickly filled the void in our hearts with two adorable kitty brothers that actually got returned to the no kill shelter at 2 years old, due to their owner having a baby. Lenny and Chong have been with us for 5 years now and can’t imagine our lives without them.
I am unfortunately federally disabled but prior worked in hospitality; have continued my education path in Psychology online, graduating with my BS from UCF last December and plans on after birth to go onto graduate school for my license in counseling. My husband works for Universal Studios; really since he was a teen, with a few years away for college himself in business management. We both are into nerdy things: conventions, live music, theater, movies and television. I enjoy the outdoors as much as I can; with short “hikes” which in Florida are very flat walks, natural springs, and camping. He enjoys reading comic books and collecting vinyl records/posters.
How am I feeling?: I have had very few pregnancy symptoms, possibly because I was dealing with most of them before being pregnant with autoimmune conditions and pain. The one that has recently started is major carpal tunnel issues, my hands go numb if I don’t sleep correctly and weakness/pain during the day. Feeling more outta breath as baby grows bigger but thankfully have only gained about 14 lbs, so far. Which is good because I am already overweight/high risk.
As I mentioned earlier, very stressed thou I am trying to reduce those worries as much as possible. Now that I’m in week 25; had my anatomy scans and all the genetic testing, I’m feeling calmer. Of course there is still worries about when baby actually gets here and being the mother/family I would like to be for our son.
We are having a boy and I’ve always promised my husband if we had a child we could name our son Arthur because our last name is Curry. For those non-nerds that’s the name of Aquaman aka Jason Momoa: Arthur Curry.
Hi just barely joining in ! But my name is Valentina and I’m from California living in utah. I have 3 other kids and now pregnant due April 13 with our last child, so bittersweet! Found out the week before our 10 year anniversary. Currently 30 weeks and a half, I’m a stay at home mom but will continue to pursue lactation degree in the coming years! I love crafting especially sewing, love party planning, watching hilarious movies, kindness, and love going on adventures whether big or small! Is there a group for those due in April on FB I could also join?:) can follow me on insta too! @vallyriches
How you found out: didn't think I was pregnant, was annoyed cus I missed an mri due to a period that was bairly 2 days late and they made me go home n do a test. Peed in a jar n it marinated while my husband was pooping... not the most glamorous reveal but it's the reality lol
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I'm not working right now because I also have endometriosis and was in pain because of that, then I got pregnant... I do have an etsy and have been making a bunch of baby blankets and some Lil cardigans to pass the time. But been too exhausted to advertise much sadly.
Husband has a factory job that gets us thru but man I'll be happy to get more income in again, baby supplies are EXPENSIVE, lmao.
We have cats. 3 of our own n pet sitting 2 others until we move. We've got two young unfixed females cus one was very small and we waited for her to grow before surgery, and the other isn't even a year yet... they have both been very very affectionate and clingy the whole pregnancy lol.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)?: nausea was the worst at the start, now it's my hips. Feels like I'm grinding glass in my hip joints every time I move... had it since like 27-28 weeks and now at almost 35 n ready for it to be done lmao. Emotionally I'm excited and terrified. Idk what I'm doing. But I can't wait to meet this baby
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I’m feeling ok, despite being repulsed by so many smells and having shocking, hilarious, beastly gas.
How we found out - We were trying but this particular month (July) I was SO sure we weren’t pregnant. I was a little irritated about it and was feeling all the period symptoms. However, after crying from seeing somebody eat a vegetable, I figured I’d better test. And it was positive!
I have a lovely husband, step son and golden retriever! We are welcoming a baby boy!
Due date: April 21
How you found out: Typically in the past I had PCOS and had to get on medication (Metformin) to conceive as we were not planning/trying for another child I started to feel different and didn't have a period so tested and sure enough positive. wow!
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) As I said above 3 kids and love being a mom :) I will be 43 when baby is born wow again haha but I am healthy and strong and thinking positive. I am in real estate here in colorado and my husband is in construction. I love nature and staying active.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)?
I am feeling great! Just tired but doing well! Thankful!
Due date: dating scan says 4/10 but most likely will be induced a week prior due to a traumatic birthing experience with my first.With my previous 2 pregnancies I’ve had planned inductions at 39 weeks. My 3rd was bigger than my first and her delivery was sketchy but not traumatic. I’ll also be seen by mfm a couple times to check fetal growth at 20 weeks and 36 weeks. Maybe another time in between but other than I should be seen by my routine OB.
How you found out: my husband was on rotation to Europe and we were discussing TTC as soon as he got back. I was tracking my cycles and when I missed my period I tested and it came back negative. I felt disappointed but waited another week and it came back positive. I then went to our hospital to get a confirmation before I could be scheduled with OB. They called me that afternoon to congratulate me and set my appointments.
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) My husband, Michael, and I have been married 8 years in August. We have 3 daughter’s (12, 6 and 3) who are very excited for their new sibling. We also have 2 dogs and a cat. I like to spend time with my friends and family and take my dog Lacey for walks.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I have cramping, nausea, and headaches which is no fun. I’m also very hungry but can’t eat too much or I feel sick so it’s been difficult trying to enjoy meals. Emotionally I’m good, we are very excited and happy. Oh I’m also tired most of the time which is difficult with my children and pets. What doesn’t help is then not being able to get to sleep at night.
Due date: 4/23
How you found out: dh and I were already trying (since I’m older it’s either now or never for me, bc I’m tired and I don’t want to do it in my 40s) we were coming home from the airport celebrating our 1yo bday in Aruba and I was like extra sassy, extra brain fog, extra emo, I’m like holy s I think I’m pregnant and yup I was.
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) I have an almost 14 month old baby girl. So yes 2 under 2 lol for a few months. We are team green for the 1yo and for this new baby. I am a sahm and dh does estate managing for a celebrity. I love to cook but lately have no desire to do anything except survive lol hurry up 2nd trimester. Dh and I have been together for almost 6 years.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I feel better than I did last week. I have less morning sickness and less days where I just pass out on the couch. I have guilt from not spending it more with my lo but another mom told me “it’s only a season” so I’m trying to give myself grace. I also feel very thankful bc both my pregnancies I was able to conceive fairly quick. Since I’m considered advanced maternal age you just never know.
Due date: April 10th
How you found out: I had been cramping and feeling super nauseous for 2 weeks but had convinced myself I was just over tired until my husband wouldn’t stop insisting I was pregnancy lol he knew before I did!
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) we have a pittie mix named brownie, I work full time in hiring and I love reading and spending time with my husband
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? Physically; slowing getting my energy back and nausea is fading now that I’m hitting the second trimester Emotionally; I cry at the drop of a hat and I’ve noticed my temper is much shorter than before
I am married to my high school sweetheart. This is our first earthrise baby, I pray. We had a miscarriage last year and have been trying for the last 3 years. We lobe labs but ours passed away last year and with this new bundle on the way, we want to wait to get another dog. I work as a special Investigator in California and my husband has his own business.
Physically I am happy to be in the second trimester because the first one was rough. Lots of nausea, throwing up, unable to smell or think about certain foods, couldn't eat any of the normal food I love and I still struggle with eating certain meats. Have a lot of discomfort sleeping, get hot, and am now constantly hungry. Emotionally, I feel much more stable. I feel like with the pregnancy loss last year I was on edge wondering if I would be able to keep this baby, I still have fears every so often but I pray and feel God is letting this one arrive earth side.
Due date: My due date is April 20th.
How you found out: I found out when I was 5 weeks. I wanted to wait until I was one week late just to be super sure.
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?)
This is my first pregnancy. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and married for 5. We have two cats which I’m so excited to see them as big brothers
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I am officially in the 2nd trimester which I am so happy about. I know I am lucky to not have had as bad as a first trimester as other people but still relieved to have made it through.
Due date: 4/25
How you found out: testing regularly we had been trying to conceive for over 2 years.
Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?)
This is the first babe for us! We have 2 cats and a dog. I’m a school psychologist and my husband does research on vaccines at a nearby university. I love reading (though the motivation has been low lately), dancing, run/walking, snuggling up with my pup and kitties, and spending time with family.
How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I’ve felt pretty okay this whole time. I’ve been getting some energy back in the second trimester! That was the worst part of the first for me. Emotionally I feel more stable now than toward the beginning but still always slightly anxious.
God bless and I pray you two get your baby oneday !
> Due date: My fiancé and I are trying to conceive.
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> How you found out: No luck yet :(
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> Tell us about yourself: (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?) I love hiking and anything outdoorsy. Books and jazz music are two of my fave forms of entertainment. Because I love the outdoors, my fiancé takes me to the park a lot and built me a beautiful deck in our back yard.
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> How are you feeling: (Physical symptoms, emotionally)? I am feeling sad, depressed, and inadequate. My fiancé and have been TTC for 8-months with no luck. I was pregnant 3-times back in college (14yrs ago) and despite no complications with the termination of those pregnancies I've never been pregnant again in all these years. I couldn't raise a kid then nor could I afford one. I was 18/19 in college trying to figure out life and chasing a guy who made it clear that he didn't want me. Fast fwd to current and I feel like God is punishing me for my poor childhood choices. I AM SO SORRY for my past decisions, had I known I'd be punished in this way I would have suffered through those pregnancies as a teen. My fiancé and I desperately want kids! We've had fertility testing and the Dr. says I have great AMH and FSH levels, my cycle is extremely regular (I've tracked it via an app for 11years now and its always spot on), and I ovulate consistently according to my BBT and monthly LH testing. My partner and I began using PreSeed July 15th, 2024 hoping for a pregnancy this cycle but I doubt we've been successful. My period is expected August 7th, 2024 and I'm experiencing my typical emotional H3LL and low back pain which is a tell-tale sign my period will be arriving as normally, another failure for me :( I want to give my fiancé a child so badly because he is so good to me, his face lights up anytime he talks about kids, and I just know it'll bring us even closer. I honestly feel like less of a woman. I feel like a failure!
Your comment led me to tears, please don't carry the burden alone. I know how you feel, it's going to be okay. You are not being punished you did what was right back then! For all you know it could be your spouse that's the reason your not pregnant. I advise seeing a fertility doctor.
God bless and I pray you two get your baby oneday !
Introduction: My name is Sara, I am a 39 year old first time mother (I had a pregnancy I early terminated, when I was 20 because the situation/relationship at that time was not healthy to raise a child in.) My husband (38) and I have been together for 14 years, married the last 4. I honestly thought we would never have kids due to some trauma I experienced as a child/young adult and my husband being still very much dependent on his parents money. We come from two different worlds, I grew up in poverty living in a trailer park in upstate New York. He grew up very affluent in many different large expensive homes in Central Florida. That socioeconomic yin and yang has worked for much of our relationship, with each of us bringing our life experiences into the relationship. Now with baby on the way in April, they seem to be causing more conflict than good!
How did you find out: We found out unexpectedly after I was late on my period in August. I have medical issues that don’t allow me to use hormonal birth control methods, so always was risky but never had any pregnancy scares prior. I honestly thought it just wouldn’t happen, that I was “too old” and was having pre-menopause symptoms. I guess the universe had different ideas! We currently live in Florida l, so it was quite scary with the 8 week abortion ban and not being able to get into the OB until about week 10; to make sure it was not ectopic/ healthy for both me and baby. So in short it wasn’t the most exciting news, though I felt like I could take on this new challenge my worries were high.
As I mentioned earlier, very stressed thou I am trying to reduce those worries as much as possible. Now that I’m in week 25; had my anatomy scans and all the genetic testing, I’m feeling calmer. Of course there is still worries about when baby actually gets here and being the mother/family I would like to be for our son.
Husband has a factory job that gets us thru but man I'll be happy to get more income in again, baby supplies are EXPENSIVE, lmao.
We have cats. 3 of our own n pet sitting 2 others until we move. We've got two young unfixed females cus one was very small and we waited for her to grow before surgery, and the other isn't even a year yet... they have both been very very affectionate and clingy the whole pregnancy lol.