Should you always have a baby shower?

Re: Should you always have a baby shower?

• meggyme member

  March 2023

  If someone offers to host a shower or sprinkle for you then go for it if you want. Otherwise I definitely would not host your own as that can come off as gift grabby.

  DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::

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• Wishilivedinflorida member

  March 2023

  It does depend on the scenario. I’m pregnant with a surprise third baby and had just sold most of my stuff the week prior to finding out at a yard sale. 🤦🏻‍♀️
  
  My dear friend had a small sprinkle/dinner for me because everyone knew I was starting from scratch. We just had about 10 guests and kept it small. I still got most of the big things myself. I personally wouldn’t have wanted anything bigger than that and had she not offered, I wouldn’t have done anything myself. 

  
  

  I’m sure no matter what you will receive baby gifts. If you have most of what you need from previous kids, I wouldn’t pursue anything formal. 

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• ktaylor96 member

  November 2023

  I had friends plan and host baby showers for my first two.. now that I’m pregnant again. This time with twins is it necessary to have another baby shower?

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• jenifar2 member

  November 2023

  The tradition varies, but it's generally considered acceptable to have a baby shower for each child, not just the first. However, for subsequent pregnancies, some choose to have a smaller celebration known as a "baby sprinkle" rather than a full-scale baby shower. A baby sprinkle is a more low-key gathering focused on celebrating the new arrival and may involve smaller gifts or essentials, especially if you already have items from previous pregnancies. Ultimately, it's a personal decision, and what matters most is what feels right for you and your circumstances.

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• knottie877b957db6c94e82 member

  April 12

  The decision to have a baby sprinkle is entirely up to you and your loved ones. If you feel it would be a joyful occasion and your friends and family are supportive, go ahead and plan one. If you'd prefer a more low-key celebration or none at all, that's perfectly fine too.​

  
  

  Remember, every baby deserves to be celebrated, and the way you choose to do so should reflect what feels right for you and your family.

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• knottie210c943f9d078bc9 member

  June 3

  Sprinkle or full shower, do what feels right for you. People who love you will be excited either way.”

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• knottie6f55c2cdcd00affa member

  June 26

  With my third, my friends threw a little diaper and wipes party—super casual but so appreciated. You’d be surprised how helpful that is!

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